Signs a girl likes you but is testing you?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Ohhh you’ll never know if she’s testing you. We do this in subtle ways. But you know that she’ll like you if she spends a lot of time with you, making plans, talking to you on the phone, replying within a relatively short period of time if she’s not busy, asking you about yourself and ofc smiling all the time when she’s around you.

The testing is different depending on the girls values. For example, I like to take it slow with a guy, that’s a test to see how impatient he is, I like to observe how he is with others, which can show how down to earth he is, and ask him trick questions where I don’t really care about the question, but judging by the answer, it can tell me a lot about him.

[Asker]

Oh okay. So if spends no time with me and never comes when I invite her out she clearly doesn’t like me?

[Opinion Owner]

Most probably. Just think, if you liked a person so much for them to be your s/o, why wouldn’t you want to spend time with them?

Also, some girls can be pretty stubborn and play hard to get so try around 2-3x max, and either just tell her listen, you keep dipping or you don’t wanna hang out, if you’re not interested, let me know cause I’m not wasting my time. Then you’ll truly see if she likes you.

When given an ultimatum, she’ll either say ok I’m done playing I need to stop before I lose him, or let you go cause she doesn’t care

[Asker]

Well I actually agree with you. I asked her where do you see this going because you clearly don’t want to be my friend or whatever because you don’t wanna hang out and texting sporadically. She flipped out and caused us to have a argument and I brought up all the things I did for her emotionally. I said I’m only good enough for that but I’m not qualified enough to be a friend to. She wasn’t seeing where I was coming from so I we don’t talk anymore.

[Opinion Owner]

Let her go. She doesn’t know what she wants. There’s a bunch of amazing girls out there trust me

[Asker]

Yea I’m just frustrated I wasted so much time on her girl that actually didn’t like me. If she felt that way she shouldn’t have sent me 1 am text saying I’m thinking about you.

[Opinion Owner]

1am texts from a girl means that she’s either over thinking and actually is thinking about you or you’re still on her mind for you to play with. I don’t know maybe text her and be like why are you texting me this if you don’t want anything more

[Asker]

I did and she said she was being nice and just a friend. I told her I was confused and I asked her what would you think if I did that? She had no answer because she knows if I did that she knows what I’m looking for. I told her you can’t send mixed signals like that and play with someone’s feelings.

[Bowser-kun]

Ahh this one always either makes that one guy sound awesome or is lacking in some relationship-communication skills. Some signs are out there an simple yet can be complicated at the same time. Most girls test by seeing if the guy can keep up with any type of conversations that or another sign would be any simple things in common like opening the door to let the girl walk in 1st. Most test are easy but some can throw the person off-guard

[Asker]

If a girl doesn’t go out her way to see you or ask to hang out after 3 years, she isn’t interested?

[Bowser-kun]

That could be the case or it could also be that she's busy with the regular daily living situations. It could be many things but it's always good to have a positive insight about it

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

Testing is obvious and instinctive, if it feels like testing, it is. Women are pretty transparent but tend to have difficulty accepting certain realities like being attracted to a guy their friends might not respect her for, shit like that.

[Anonymous]

She hones in on you in social setting and flirts with you

[elieg]

You will know if she likes you...

[Merls]

She teases you, a LOT