I got inspired by someone else asking the exact question about men. So go at it, tell me everything that annoys you about the female species. But to add a positive twist, I also want you to write down below something you love about women! Of course these comments will be a huge generalization but maybe some of you will be able to relate! 💫 Heck, women can answer too! Let's go 🤣
Negative: Most women over-complicate things. They look for deeper meaning in things that only have a simple straightforward meaning. "What did John mean by this? He couldn't have possibly meant exactly what he said. That's too easy." "Why did John say he liked the way this actress looks? Is he trying to say that I don't look good? No way he could possibly think that there are millions of good looking people in the world and even if he did, I couldn't possibly be one of them, because you thought that other was pretty!" Most women also like to create elaborate games to play. Problem is, they're the only ones who know the rules to the game. Or that the game is even being played. And then get upset when John doesn't play along.
Positive: Women are beautiful, despite the madness. I don't just mean physically, either. They can bring out the best in a man. Or the worst. They have incredible power, often without even realizing it. Only a woman can make a guy who has always believed he felt nothing suddenly feel everything.
Awwww so adorable and very much so, I agree we do that a lot! I do and I'm always told I'm looking too much into it. Damn hate your right! Lol good point though 😉
I agree with URLILANGEL727. We do tend to overthink everything, it's part of us expressing ourselves and being more emotional than men. I'm glad you think that we can bring out the best (or worst) in men! Know that it's the same for men. Thanks for answering!
Amount of time it takes to get ready. Most girls I think view make up as an enhancer and they spend a lot of time on it, when I think most girls don't even consider a lot of guys prefer no makeup or very minimal.
Gossip
Caring to much about superficial.
Caring to much about social rank.
Caring to much about social media and updating/posting/snapping/tweeting everything they're doing to their followers.
Prioritizing social media/phone over the people they're physically with.
Yep, definitely an honest answer. Glad you can pin point things they could improve on but I'd also like a list of amazing things about women since both men and women have their strengths and weaknesses! I know all of these comments are a generalization but know that not everyone is like this
Yupp! Definitely not everyone will fit what I listed, or will it matter to others. I didn't list the amazing things just because that list is much longer, but you make a good point, so here would be the things I consider to be most amazing:
When they are engaged with you, like they seem genuinely interested or at bare minimum wanting to talk to you/ be around you. It makes you feel on top of the world. Eye contact plays a big role, just how they look into your eyes.
This one often trumps looks in terms of attractiveness for me: Happy, positive attitude. Smiles a lot, happy go lucky. Spontaneous.
PLAYFUL!!!
When you feel heard. When a woman listens to what you say, you feel genuinely heard and connected.
They feel things more/deeper than guys do, and I think that's cute and also a unique ability.
Honesty.
Ability to be able to speak honestly about their feelings. I feel so much more calm and understanding when I can tell something is wrong, and when i ask they open up honestly regardless of how irrational or not.
When girls play with their hair.
When girls get comfy rather than all done up.
When they look back at you just to look at you for a second.
Awe that's amazing, thank you for answering. Like I said, I'm glad you acknowledge no one is perfect but I'm also glad you think of the positive side. Thank you so much for answering!
Annoying: lot of emotions and entitlement to be treated special because of emotions (don't get me wrong, I do my best to follow the social code that includes this entitlement, because it is the right thing to do, but still it annoys me that I have to.)
Amazing: (by the most) mental disability to genuinely wish people evil (in actions) and to harm them seriously, women are more human (in good meaning).
(f. e. consider that there is little known about serial killers who are women or cruel and heartless women politicians)
(anyone don't come me with they break hearts, they cheat etc. Due to my nature I don't consider it as any objectively serious kind of harm that is imposed on you without your participation (and your participation, to be clear, is you are weak if you let it to seriously get to you.))
“Are you okay? Is anything wrong?” ”No it’s fine” And then she’s mad that you accept that answer and move on. I am not a psychic. I am going to accept whatever you tell me, I don’t appreciate when you get pissed at me a week later because I didn’t press you or magically know the issue.
That's true, I know a lot of girls who do this. Personally, when I catch myself doing this I go collect my thoughts and come back to the person and tell them how I really feel and why I didn't want to tell them earlier. Anyways thanks for sharing!
They can never be wrong. Neverrrrrr... It doesn't matter how many planes they crash, trains they derail, buses they drive off a cliff, tankers they sink... It doesn't matter... they are always right. And somehow they can make it our fault. It's amazing! That is just pure talent! I sit here in absolute awe of women!
Yikes... Sounds harsh. Also sounds toxic. Make sure to surround yourself with women and people in general who have the balls to say sorry! (Even if they might not literally have the balls for it.. aha). I know for a fact that not everyone is like this. Thanks for sharing 💫
Annoying: the lack of confidence about absolutely everything.
Amazing: I really struggled to write anything for this one, because everything I would have written are all traits that I've seen in other men. Honestly, I think I've seen them more often in men than in women. I'll let you know when I find something to write here though, because I really want to.
Hmmm I agree, we tend to be less confident. However, since you say you struggle with finding a specific good thing about women since men seem to have all the traits you think of, I just want to remind you that men are also insecure. We all are in our own way. But women are known to be more expressive so it's more evident than it is for men. Just thought you should know! Most of the traits people mention here go both ways, for men and women, good or bad. It really depends on the person in the end. Let me know when you find something though!
Hmm tough to answer as a lady myself. Best would probably be the ability to understand emotions and allow ourselves to feel in order to overcome a problem (something men struggle with due to having this horrendous stereotype where they shouldn't talk about their emotions) Worst is probably expecting to be treated like a queen without treating their man like a king 🤷🏾♀️ I'm okay if you're into the whole feminism concept but the point is to make both sexes equal, not to make women more worthy than men or men unworthy of women.
im very much not into feminism XD men and women are not equal, they are very different. I agree that society should give them equal opportunity though. Equality of opportunity vs equality of outcome is where me and most feminists have major disagreements.
That's true, men and women each have their own purposes thus they each hold a different power in their own way. What I meant is just for both sexes to be treated equally
but that doesn't mean that everyone gets equal treatment either. If all the women in a room happen to be terrible people, and all the men good people, I'll treat them accordingly. I treat people how they treat me at the end of the day. It can get really awkward in such a situation tho, cause then everyone will think im sexist, but really I'm just treating people as individuals
Of course, it always depends on the situation. However, even if you do not respect someone for x reason, you should still act respectful. It shows maturity and responsibility. It also allows you to respect yourself, to know you do not like this person but you choose to continue being the better person. Besides, if you don't respect them you shouldn't be wanting anything more from them. I just mean that women aren't better than men, just as men aren't better than woman
I respect everyone to a certain point, as I respect all life, but I have found during my life that when I show somebody more respect than they show me, problems arise. I am devaluing myself and I get walked on. I think it should be reciprocal.
The time it takes you girls to get ready ( Many times I have left without them, a man can only wait so long lol ). There are many things I love about women, as I only have one option, their nurturing nature.
Haha guilty! Though it's definitely more those who wear makeup so if it's a bothersome for you, hopefully you can find someone who takes less time. Thanks for answering!
Women lie. Not only do women lie, but women are very good liars. The best liars. They could give Donald Trump lessons. It must be in the female DNA. Also, everyone seems believes women when they lie.
Haha Donald Trump 🤣 that's true, we do tend to be good liars. But we all lie from time to time! I hope you find yourself someone who's honest with you 💓
Most amazing is how fast they can come back with an answer to an issue or decision in seconds. Most annoying is i can not get my answer out without them answering for me. Family and friends all do that to me.
There are some annoying things, but I want to be positive. They are very caring, gentle, less intimidating to approach then a male stranger. I’m in love with there Beautiful bodies 😄.
Ooh yikes. Nothing positive to say? That's definitely not true. Although some women don't seem to be kind souls, that doesn't mean all of us are two-faced. Hope you can find something positive and come back to me. Thanks
this world can't be colorful without females. girls are emotional, but they are sweet and cute, its in our (men's) nature to love females. females are beautiful part of life.
both man and woman are necessary for life, without a man, woman can't even give birth to a child, and without a woman, man can't be father of a child. these both are compulsory for each others.
some men are bad, but not all men are bad, exactly same with females that some females are bad, but not all females are bad. there are good females and good man.
I agree, in life we need both. While each have their own purposes and responsibilities, they should be treated equally. Women are not better than men, just as men are not better than woman
I find this both annoying and amasing. My girlfriend was staying at mine but had no clothes she could use to come in to the work shop. I had some stuff on clothes horse ready to put away. It was my work stuff. She pt this black tee-shirt on more holes than anything through welding and pair o chinos nearly as gay but also with paint on. No bra.. and she looked do great and sexy. She filled the clothes a lot better than I could. Considering they were about 3sizes too big. In fact I took a photo of her and put up in the workshop. But it went missing and have no idea where it got to. That is what I meant.
Awe, I hope you find the photo soon! I understand how it can be annoying at times haha 🤣 but what can we say, we love to wear something that smells like our man
Sounds reasonable, however I am glad that more and more self defense classes are being advertised! And I agree on the caring part. Thanks for answering!
Hmmm we do tend to be more gentle and caring haha at least on the outside (guys might just not show that side since it might make them feel vulnerable) but yes I agree with the "do it for me" card statement. It's a horrible thing to do though, it's just using the person and guilt-tripping them into doing what you want.
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