Women are not intimidating, the reason why men struggle with women especially when young is because women basically represent the key to reproduction, so if you get rejected it means you're not good enough as a man to be allowed to reproduce.
It's not just beeing rejected by one girl but not beeing respected and beeing seen as worthy by nature or the world or whatever. That's why it can be hard for guys to handle at first.
But it has nothing to do with you ! You are not intimidating. Guys just have to get used to dealing with fear and learn to not give as many fucks that's all. It takes some time and some guts and drive. But you have nothing to do with it you're just a girl.
When a guy approaches a girl he's not just dealing with the girl but he's beeing tested by nature but don't confused that with you having some kind of intimidation powers it has nothing to do with you it's a evolutionary thing.
Unless you're a MMA fighter there's nothing intimidating about you.
The combination of being a careerist AND have very high plans for life in general:
"Let's buy a mortgage way above our means (because I must have a garden). Let's have at least three kids and put them all in riding classes!"
In short, a highly expensive want-it-all lifestyle which guarantees that you'll never have any spare time save for perhaps one hour of TV before you collapse from exhaustion, every day. That's my general nightmare.
However, women who have high careers but are sort of minimalist and down to earth outside of work are the absolute best! (but they are rare)
My ex used to be intimidating by my sociability and the fact that I'm 'too talented'. Being mature is intimidating enough for school students/teenagers tbh.
Looks and brains, coworkers usually get scared by the second
When they're looking good and I'm in my bummy state
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I'm 5'7, and growing up with tall attractive girls as friends, taller girls were always a no for me. My friends would tell me it was creepy when short guys would be interested in taller women.
I think money was another one. My parents were very controlling about everything growing up. Money always was saved for school and extracurricular activities that they thought were important. I wasn't allowed to have a car, so it was hard to tell a girl that I didn't have a lot of stuff, but not because i wasn't capable of obtaining it. I was always dressed well though, but it didn't seem to attract women.
Not intimidated for females or how tall she is.
What makes you a fling and not girlfrind material has to do with your attitude.
If you are behaving like a walking issue you normaly fall in to fling, for instance lack of trust worthiness, high maintenance, one way, drama queen, lack of creating different emotions with in him, lack of two way conection on a deeper level, missmatching internal how we are, people pleaser, acting instead of being yourself, mental ill, lack of respect, communication issue's, haven't found yourself, insecurities, low self respect...
It can be him.
It can be a lot of thing's that makes it to lead one way or the other.
How they share so much information with their friends. Ie, sexual partners etc.
Also the women who are able to just make friends and be social around anyone and everyone, not sure why, it just is.
I think that literally the only woman I've ever found intimidating was the Russian bitch in Kick Ass 2.
I've never found women intimidating in real life and I honestly find it ridiculous and a bit offensive that so many of you actually think the issue is that you just "Intimidate the poor little men" rather than acknowledging your faults.
Improve yourself first before blaming others. Cheers.
I find it really intimidating when a beautiful woman is nerdy, smart, self-deprecating, and self-aware.
Beauty, social skills, and status. Most the intimidation would come from performance on the guys part, not from the woman. Is he seen as creepy? Is he seen as out of her league? Is she impressed? Will she reject him? It all comes down to impressing actively rather than enticing passively like women tend to do.
Really successful women can be intimidating because they might expect a guy to be better off than them (the whole dating up mentality), which he might not be. Really attractive women can be as well if they get a lot of male attention.
Really, "intimidation" just comes down to a guy's perceived ability to "compete". If he feels he can then he's not intimidated.
OP women are not intimidating on any level in any way. guys don't pursue girls we don't like; that could mean she's not physically attractive enough, she talks too much, she's annoying, she's too masculine, etc.
Or it could be that we like her a lot and just completely shit the bed by missing signs, being too nice, being too available etc.
Intelligence... I ve never met anyone more intelligent than me let alone a woman... I have this huge ego against women.. But at the same time if a girl is really smart and intelligent it gets me horny too.. It's kinda weird.. She is my type of girl.. Its like an adrenaline necessity of mine lol
Not really intimidated by tall women, 'cause they're often a bit awkward. More intimidated by women who are just clearly higher-status than me/out of my league/have more friends than me (not a high bar). And why wouldn't I be? They could mop the floor with me. They will have already rejected tons of guys more attractive than me.
Intimidation will not stop a guy from seeking a romantic relationship, but still a sexual one. Overall intimidation is largely about the fear that the woman in question is above our league and that our attempts to woo her would not only be hopeless, but presumptuous and offensive.
The #metoo bullshit. The fact that a woman can have you removed from your own home and locked up for years based on nothing more than an unfounded accusation,. Those are good enough reasons to avoid women all together. Or at least to never let them know your name or address when you pump and dump them. Robot sex dolls are looking better and better with each passing day. Women have made themselves toxic to be around.
Being taller than me with heels is one.
Second one is tooooo many guy friends. Some is fine. A lot is mind boggling.
I also do not like girls with too high numbers.
I like open girls about their sexuality, but not one who’s fucked 10 guys.
The ONLY thing that intimidates me about women is that they have a hive mind and society "protects" them at all cost, therefore most women will use this to destroy a mans life when she doesn't get her way, wants to play the victim, wants revenge, etc.
i don't really find anything intimidating about a woman in particular. but i find it intimidating to approach a since girl who is among a group of people
The only thing about women I find intimidating is the fact that they can call rape and have anybody believe them even though it might not have happened.
Only 9s or 10s intimidate me, and that's because I know there's no point in talking to them because I'd want to date them and they aren't going to be interested.
Other than the obvious of confidence and appearance. I would say sexual prowess. Some men like a woman who knows what they want and in some respect I do too.
Yeah a tall lady would have been scared me to death somehow. I'd prefer short girls (since I am tall anyway haha JK tho). But if a girl tries to flirt and approach me in a hasty way then I'd try my best to get away from her asap.
Honestly, nothing. I don't get intimidated by a girl in such a way that I would say I wouldn't want to pursue a relationship with her.
That's so far away from my thought process I seriously can't wrap my head around it.
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