Do I have to dress slutty to get a guy's attention? (Page 2)

[Aakash_Hangargi]

You can seek a man's attention without dressing like one you showed in pic i guess it was kinda overboard which shows how bad you want it.
But dress moderately as you like keep conversing with guys smile frequently. Be you as you are no need to change yourself if you do that you will loose yourself being a stranger in your own body won't help you either the right kind will come however you are but clean and tidy..

[Unit1]

Remember when we men advise women to not dress slutty (in order to find a good man) and then we get a ton of crap for it?

if you dress like a slut, then you'll be seen and treated as one. Do you want that?

[Anonymous]

Probably not.

But if you wear stuff that hides your body it both draws less attention and sends a message you don’t WANT attention.

if you’d like a bit more attention perhaps something that fits your style but is more body conscious.

[Asker]

Thanks

[opnbuk59]

Not mine look if you have to alter ego you truly are to attract someone it's fake and not good be you always if guys are so blind they can't see a diamond in the rough that's their kids but someone will like a lie once you start to alter any party of who you are it will never end will be one thing after another so don't do it stay true to you,,, be happier you did

[rajapawar]

Obviously not, if a guy even gets attracted towards u (when you wear dresses like these) it means he just getting attracted towards your body, your physical appearance which will be just a temporary attraction whereas your motive should be to get him attracted to your soul

[slatyb]

Not at all. That will get attention if you look like that model. If you have any physical flaws then dressing like that will put off guys with any discernment. OTOH if you are in a T-shirt and boy-cut jeans day after day then teen-age guys will assume you aren't interested. You don't have to wear dresses and skirts but showing a bit of a feminine side will get you more attention.

[LoU_Hades]

No. You need more feminine body language if you think that you're appearing too tomboyish. Every hetero man has a sixth sense for that.
Generally I like slutty outfits on girls but there must be time and place for it, otherwise it appears sometimes cheap and vulgar.

[BCA6010]

If you're under 18, this shouldn't even be a priority for you right now anyway.

And in the future, pretending to be someone you're not is never going to end well even when you get someone interested.

[optimized180]

Depends on the type of guy you're looking to attract. Dressing slutty probably won't get someone for a very serious relationship, but I don't know what kind of relationship you're looking for. Some guys like tomboyish girls. The more you act yourself, the more likely you'll attract the best match.

[Ratmuffin]

Absolutely not. I think more guys are welcoming to a woman who doesn't share her body with the world to settle down with. Most of my exes very rarely wore a scandalous dress.. usually only when id take them out on a very classy and expensive date, and even then, they kept it pretty tame cuz they knew daddy knew what he had.