I'm a bit of a tomboy so but I fear that I'm not dressing to attract guys and I'm at the age where I want to get a guy's attention but is exposing so much skin the way to go?
Do I have to dress slutty to get a guy's attention?
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If you have to expose skin to get the guys attention, it's not worth it. It's the same as a guy having to show off his money for a girls attention. It's not right. You have to get his attention another way, just be yourself and try to be around him more, make conversation, look into things he's interested in. Showing off skin is the worst way to get attention because it's sets you up for a bad time. If you show off skin you lower yourself to the level of hormones, you play to the guys sexualness, not his actual interest. If a guy isn't interested in you normally, but you start showing off your body more, then he becomes interested, that means he's interested in your body... Not you. Your profile says you're under 18 which means you're a teen like me. So I know what school is like and I know what it's like to deal with people our age. Please do not make the mistake of showing yourself off to get attention. That's a slippery slope and you do not want to fall down it. I'm sure you're an attractive girl who is just confused right now and you think showing skin is the only option you have right now. It really isn't. Don't appeal to sexuality, you will regret it.
nah you can catch a guys attention, the way you dress might help but they would be more focused on your parts than you and you might convince them to make a move but not for a relationship, i believe the less exposure the chances of someone walking up to you are decreased but the chances of landing a good guy are increased
No, you do not and I suggest you don't (unless that's the path you want to take). To get the guy's full attention, you need to wear something that will show off your best features with exposing much. Like it's ok to show a little bit of cleavage, but not to the point where you are exposing a lot of yourself... if you know what I mean. Maybe save that for a day where you know the guy enough and want to get a bit friskier for him. Also, whatever you decide to wear, make sure you add some flair to your fashion. So, shoes, accessories to the dress, jewelry, that sort of thing. That'll get a guy's a attention.
That depends entirely on the type of guy whose attention you want. If you want attention from men who are looking for casual sex, yes, you have to wear revealing clothing to get it. If you want attention from men who are looking for a long term relationship, it would serve you better to dress modestly. There is absolutely ZERO overlap. There is nothing you could possibly do to get attention from both groups of men. If you want to be successful in whatever your goal is, pick one group, and cater to that group exclusively.
Dressing like a slut is one option, but it is a bad option. When guys see you dressed like a tomboy, many of them will assume that you are either a lesbian or asexual. You can dress like a girl without looking like a slut. Study the way your girly-girl friends dress. Look at their hair styles and fingernails. Embrace your femininity and you will become much more attractive.
Dressing slutty is a good way to get sexual attention, so if your trying to get laid and want only sex that would be the way to do it. If however you want to have a relationship, don't dress slutty. I'd say you don't necessarily need to dress girly, but maybe find a middle ground (you don't want to dress exactly like a guy because well, that tells a guy your a guy, you want maybe tomboy with a feminine touch, that way its girly but still you).
I'd say, be the life of the party. I'd much rather hang out with a girl killing it at an arcade machine than a girl in revealing clothes. Sure you will get guys attention but it's much more worth it to get their attention being fun rather than being just sexual
an old fishermen once talked about how much trouble he got in "chumming" the waters off the coast, when he just wanted to catch a tuna. instead he got bitten by a shark.
It depends on the type of guy you want to attract. Yes, you'll find a guy faster by dressing sluttier, but chances are it won't be a guy of the quality you actually want. Being more assertive and being the one to initiate will probably give you better results.
Okay okay, I'll tell you this as a warning and a hint of advice. There are men out there that LOVE TOMBOYS. So the problem isn't exposing parts of your body but expressing genuine interest in others, right? Maybe thats what you should go for
Baby it’s no different today than 100! years ago nothing gets a mans attention better than classy, CLASSY CLASSY CLASSY!!! a classy woman can make a turn a man inside out , upside down! There’s a time and a place for that and it’s better left in The bedroom unless your a real slut then that’s different you’d want to take the next left up ahead go 1/2 mile till you see a town called shit there you’ll find full time shit but forwarned your playing with shit shit stinks those guys are no good!💩
Dress to get the kind of guy that you want. If you dress slutty, expect to get player guys interested that will use you and leave you. I'd recommend just staying a cool tomboy kind of girl and wait for the right kind of guy for you, or go look for/approach the one you want yourself.
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