Why does every guy in school fall for this one girl?

[Anonymous]

There's this girl at our school, let's call her Katie. She's Asian and I admit, I think she's beautiful. Not standard pretty, but like gorgeous in her own way. She has a few blonde streaks in her reddish brown hair and she wears eyeliner, but doesn't dress slutty at all. Anyways, almost every guy I know has a thing for her and they actually seem genuine because I never hear them talk about her body. It's always "she's so confident" or "she's badass". I don't know her that well, but there was this one time a few guys were talking to her and she asked one of them question. He ignored her so she said "oh shit, is he deaf?" and ALL the guys started laughing (even him) and one of them even said "katie, i already love you." Two of the popular guys even got into a fight over her because she only liked one of them. I heard the second one say she's the first girl he ever "truly liked". I really liked the second guy, but of so that really hurt. Like damn I admire her, but I also feel a little jealous that so many boys fall fo her so easily and she doesn't even try, she's just being herself.

[MrOracle]

It sounds like she's pretty, yes, but more importantly, she has a ton of confidence. Confidence is attractive, to men as well as to women. She clearly holds her own even around a bunch of guys, and isn't shy about calling them out, or being direct. I bet she's also the kind of girl who isn't offended by sexuality, or about guys looking at other girls, or things like that. She isn't offended by guys being guys - she's not trying to change them, but she also demands respect, and guys absolutely respect that combination, and it's attractive.

Again, yes, she's pretty, but it's not her body or even her face that they find attractive so much as her CONFIDENCE and her overall personality. She's not intimidated by guys - not one-on-one and not in groups - but she also knows who she is and isn't taking shit from anyone. That's hot. Girls find guys who are that way hot too.

[Asker]

That makes a lot of sense. She’s so much bolder than me, or any girl I know really. I’ve also seen her give guys the middle finger a lot but she always smiles when she does it so I guess it really is the confidence. Hell, I think I’m gonna end up having a crush on her thinking about her so much like this.

[MrOracle]

See? That kind of confidence is attractive to just about everyone.

[pajamasam]

This phenomenon happened to me in school when I was a lot younger. There was one girl all the guys were interested in. And for a time one guy all the girls were interested in.

The good news is that it won't last forever. Eventually a lot of those guys will peel loff and start showing attention to other girls.

Eventually guys will realize there is no point in chasing a girl who already has a bunch of guys chasing her. Slowly they will get off the band wagon and pursue others.

[Hangry22]

It's because of confidence and they're probably closet subs

[DrunkAss]

That hasn't been a great one yet to claim her and help all the rest move on -- only a bunch of giggling and fantasizing types. So the rest of you girls are stuck too in this limbo. You need a proper badass to step in here and claim her.

[DrunkAss]

* There hasn't been [...]

[DrunkAss]

Of course once this prom king badass steps in, all you girls are gonna be fantasizing about him.

[Doflamingo1]

Yeah that’s normal. The reason why every guy has fallen for her is most likely to do with her looks/body.

I don’t know about the guy you have a crush on but, I would say to read up on body language.

[naraku]

Well, you've described her as pretty but she obviously has self confidence and humour. That's attractive even if some of those guy's don't know it yet.

[NoblesseObligeKK]

she's the girl of the week, give it sometime and their interests will probably change

[morganlove]

If you’re under 18, guys are still being controlled by hormones. She could have the personality of a turnip and still get any guy.

[OddBeMe]

confidence.