This girl doesn't want me to see her in a bikini and i'm not sure why?

[Anonymous]

we live in the same area and i've seen her many times at the local restaurant where she works as a server. so i've seen her body in person many times , at work she would normally wear blue jeans or blue jean shorts during the summer , also seen her in yoga pants and a dress once.

but i've never seen her in a bikini and there is a beach/docks rate near where we live. have seen her there before as she has a jetski/boat.

i saw her there yesterday , just happened to be driving by and pulled in , she was at the boat launch with her sister / family i think? only saw her from a distance but when i parked and went to the launch they were gone and not anywhere to be seen

as i only saw her from a distance , couldn't tell what she was wearing , likely shorts and a smaller top , couldn't tell if any of them were in a bikini but it was very warm here yesterday.

but i'm pretty sure she doesn't want me to see her in her bikini as i've never seen her in it. think she is hiding something but i can't figure out what. not sure if she doesn't want me to see her belly piercing which i've never actually seen before but know exists as i saw a picture of it before or she has a tattoo that i don't know about and she doesn't want me to see it. but there has to be something in that region i haven't seen before or know about.

why would it matter to her if i saw her in one? already seen her in person many times , what difference would it make if i saw her at the beach or on her boat in one at this point?

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still lacking an answer , seems it could be due to body confidence issues or perhaps she felt i'd enjoy seeing her in one. or was some sort of body piercing/tattoo she didn't want me to see or know about. although either way not sure why it matter so much to her if i were to see her at the beach in one

[Shivvy123]

I'm a bit confused. You say yous just know eachother from the same area so I have to assume you aren't dating, texting or communicating in a romantic way?

If my assumption is correct then why would you think this girl isn't wearing a bikini because of you? Since what you described you're both practically strangers...

[Asker]

true were not dating but we know each other fairly well , we live in the same area , she's been a server at a local restaurant for years and i've talked to her in person many times.

i've seen pictures of her on there boat and she's often in a bikini but whenever i've seen her at the boat launch she's never in one , i've never once seen her at that beach in a bikini and everyone here goes there in the summer

i'm pretty sure she doesn't want me to see her in one but not sure why , if she doesn't want me to see her body or if there is something there i don't know about that she is hiding from me ex tattoo or piercing , a lot of young women here have tattoo's which is why i really wonder if she does too?

[Anonymous]

Can't help you there. Maybe she's insecure about something?

[Asker]

she's pretty good looking , i speculated she didn't want me to see her in one cause she knew i'd enjoy it not that i might not like what i saw. but aren't really attractive young women used to guys seeing them at the beach by now? why would it matter if i saw her in one?

a lot of young women here have side rib tattoo's which is why i'm wondering if she also has one and i've just never seen it and she for some reason doesn't want me to know about it , however not sure if she has any tattoo's as i've never seen one or has she mentioned one

[Freddy78361]

Are you interested in dating her? If no... don't be a perv.
If yes: just take her on a date and accept her boundaries. If she likes you then you will get there at the right time.

[Daniel_Dano]

I mean just because you are from the same neighbourhood doesn't mean you have to see her body.

[Asker]

true but seems like she was going out of her way to make sure i wouldn't see whatever is there , why would it matter if i saw her at the beach? girls are viewed by guys all the time and most don't care if they catch a peak

[Cryptic-Game]

She wants you to think of her as a woman and not as a piece of candy.

[Numbnuts89]

She's just insecure, ikely

[Asker]

i'm not sure though , she seems to have a lot of confidence , pretty good looking , not sure that is the issue here

[In_Trance]

you'd have to ask her why

[Asker]

i'm not sure if she'd tell me , i've sort of just randomly rate into her at the docks there a couple times , once she talked to me when she was on the jetski but she was wearing a full suit or lifejacket that day.
i know for a fact that she likes beaches and such , seems odd there is a large beach down the street from where we live and yet never seen her there during the many years we've been here

[Asker]

other girls don't care if i see them in a bikini , later that day i went back to that same beach and was sitting on the dock. 2 girls who were sisters ( but didn't look it ) came on and went for a swim at the end of dock , i was like 10 ft away and they were ok that i saw them , the blonde even had 3 tattoo's ( arm , side rid and side hip ) and belly pierced
i honestly don't often get a negative reaction from girls at the beach or would most even care if i saw them in one ,