Women & Toilet Selfies WTF?

[Malefatale]

Recently met a cute girl - possibility of dating - added her on Snap. She just started working at a store I frequent close to where I live. Our banter is somewhat flirty, mostly friendly, we're both in our 30's. There's no doubt in my mind where this thing will go in the near future, but the situation is complex. I'm not trying to make anything happen and I'm just going with the flow.

That being said, first day I added her on Snap, she sent me a pic of her sitting on the toilet. I think nothing of this, and pretty much ignored it as I didn't understand wtf it meant, if anything. A few days go by and she sends another one using the Beard filter (we have an ongoing inside joke about her awesome 'moustache' - hence the beard filter), in the second 'toilet selfie' the pic also shows that the toilet paper is out.

I have zero idea how to interpret this. I would love to get some honest, objective input from women about what a selfie of a woman sitting on the toilet means. I have some theories, but I would like to know exactly what the meaning of a pic like this is. It's not a 'bathroom' selfie - it's a selfie of her literally sitting on the toilet doing her business, just for clarification!

[Rosexøxø]

Lol, well I have done this once or twice BUT caught myself. I either cropped the photo or tried another; just my top half and ceiling angle, or waited till I could pose elsewhere.

Sometimes we get a text from them (guys) and since we feel intimate or see it as no big deal, we do reply to them while on the toilet- they may ask or they may not, but we want to send them a pose of us smiling/ etc.

Once I wanted the guy to get a glimpse of just my hip, and me not wearing pants, so that he would be interested in the view.

BUT I only did that once because toilet selfies can be a bit taboo. I personally don’t know what guys think about it- I think everyone would be confused and have to communicate this or just leave it altogether.

Even as a pair, being in the bathroom “doing business” doesn’t allow for “sexy time-“ would have to hurry and finish, and depending on the couple, shower right after, just before they did the “sexy.”

Since you two aren’t a pair- it depends on how she means it. She’s CERTAINLY is comfortable with you. It’s probably near to letting a guy do anal on a girl: the vulnerability factor, so she trusts you. To say she wants to raise your interest could be a bit of a jump. She definitely wanted you to see her and she wanted to feel pretty/ see if you find her attractive enough to compliment or so.

Thats really all I can share on this.

Of course the final piece would be if you just ask her, you may know. She may want you to ask, and/ or she may be comfortable enough to share if you did ask. Just make sure the question is pure curiosity, and hold on any possible judgement. Maybe admit you were confused about it?

Wish you both, all the best. It’s even confusing to me and I don’t do those selfies, much anymore.

[tfan1]

I love seeing toilet selfies of girls on the toilet. Just as long as they don’t show any poop - ugh!

[PonyCarGirl98]

It could be that she just feels really comfortable with you xD that is the only situation in which I think she would do this. Or maybe the lighting is just really good in that part of the bathroom. Lol

[Malefatale]

That's what I thought it was, but I wanted to hear the answer from a female perspective.

[Rosexøxø]

Both very valid points. 💯

Short and concise 👌💕

[tfan1]

Does it show her peeing or pooping? If it’s her peeing- she loves to show her vulva. Either way peeing or pooping, she either likes showing herself off or she’s hoping to get a response from you. That’s my guess.

[Rosexøxø]

Could be wanting a response or just trust. Or both! Depends on that girl specifically lol

[OfDeath]

Shit reminds her of you

[Malefatale]

Shit, and piss. My two favorite things.