What does it mean when a girl calls you "weird"?

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I mean when you are making stupid jokes that make her laugh...
I couldn't really tell the tone she said it at but I said this because she said she wanted to move to Hawaii to start over:
I said "I want to move somewhere warm with coconuts I love coconuts lol."
Then she's says "your weird"
I said "oh yeah because I am weird one of your pics your kissing a coconut"
She said "Haha I was just happy to be in warm weather!"

What does it mean when a girl calls you weird? lol

traceyjill · Accepted Answer

Ohhh it all depends on her tone. If she seems like she's creeped out, she's telling you she thinks there's something wrong with you. If it's all in good humor and you're 100% sure she sees it that way she's kidding around with you and she doesn't have a good come back to what you just said so she uses the cop-out answer :P I do it all the time when I mean it the second way. "You're such a weirdo" or something like that. It can be affectionate, depending on tone.

island_princess · Accepted Answer

same thing strange, odd, abnormal, not funny and different.

Furthermore unusual, crazy, stupid, silly, inappropriate, rude, nasty.

It could mean a lot of ways. It can be a good thing or a bad thing. It could be expressed any way. If you wonder why she say "you weird" then ask her what do you mean by that?

Paris13 · Answer

Naturally when Someone doesn't 'Understand me' Nor Something in which they just cannot Understand in any woman or man, they refer to this As... Weird.
You are Unique in your own way and are Yourself, no doubt about it. You do not put on any special airs for anyone, you don't care what people think or who likes it.
I would call you "Special" and make no bones about it, I am this Honest Jane... Unique in my own way every day.
If All of us were the same in this world, the world would be boring full Of... Snoring.
Good luck. xx

Paris13 · Answer

I would assume she is being Sarcastic. And just for laughs and giggles here, dear, if I call a guy 'Weird, strange or a creep, etc,' I really mean it... No kidding.
No, I wouldn't say at her mature age she is intending you to get this hint 'She likes you but is hiding it.' If anything, she is giving you a helpful 'Hint' that she is saying this in a her own silly say so.
Good luck. xx

phil2 · Answer

I wonder if you don't have empathy? If you are too into your own world and aren't interested in any other person, their feelings and thoughts? I am just wondering this because I have this problem, I find it weird that I am like this.

YourFutureEx · Answer

Depends upon your past conversations. If she was sharing jokes and calls you weird then it is in playful manner otherwise she should not say this, it's bad.

traceyjill · Answer

Dude, you're overanalyzing. She's PROBABLY just kidding around. Hell, that would be my response but it doesn't mean anything in particular, just that I have no good comeback at the moment.

aimster587 · Answer

depends how she says it  like if she is smiling or laughing and says it she's joking around with you if she is like giving you a weird look and backing away from you well she thinks your weird haha

Bombshell13 · Answer

She's probably just teasing which means she's comfortable with you. If it was bad I think she would say it in a way that you'd know she meant it meanly.

MusicMayhem · Answer

The fact that she called you weird when you were making jokes means she was thinking inside "omg this guy is trying way too hard to impress me lol" and she was laughing it off.

Mafuyu · Answer

just laugh it off, I like when people call me weird, cause that means I'm not a cookie cutter perfect normally sane person, those types are boring

Jenny135 · Answer

I can relate to your story. be proud to be called weird, it means you're AWESOME (and those who tell you you're weird are just boring people). :)

NerdInDenial · Answer

It's probably because you are doing something that is out of the norm. If everyone is saying you are eccentric, then, there is a high probability that you are. What is the thing that makes you weird?

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on her tone of voice and what caused her to say it. I would think she's just joking and playing around with you. But she could've actually been creeped out. I don't know, cause like I said, it depends on the situation.

Yaeza · Answer

I'm too used to be calling weird in a bad way by both sexes to really give you a non-biased opinion here, though I will if you want it.

DarkHumorRUs · Answer

Unique and a special little snowflake. We all get called weird I think, besides jocks and popular kids.

Cottoncandydreams · Answer

Hmmm she was drunk after all so you shouldn't think anything of it. Unless it depends. Have you done bizzare stuff, was she the only one to call you weird?

Pati3nc3 · Answer

I call a lot of guys weird. To me it just means they're different. But it kinda depends on how she says it.

mikaylastgeorge · Answer

when I call a guy weird I only say it because he did something that I thought was cute and I say "your weird" just to start a conversation

SocietysBomb · Answer

idk everyone has a different way of using that word. If I call a guy weird I'm usually just joking around or mean it in a "good" way.

Account · Answer

I don't know about other girls but I usually say it as a compliment.

lovestruck12 · Answer

when i tell a guy hi weird its usually cuz his annoying me

MikeK · Answer

Biggest insult she can give you.  It's the equivalent of loser, creep, ugly, or I have no interest in you.  Frankly, I'd rather be called a jerkoff or douchebag than "weird."  Treat a girl like sh*t and she'll stick to you like it ;)

HookingSwan · Answer

I have told u many times u are weird... :D But thats good lol

MissPoirot · Answer

I get called weird too hahah but as long as she says ir's in a good way you make her smile :)

RedLia · Answer

It just means you have a unique sense of humor or your out of the ordinary.

SocietysBomb · Answer

when I call someone weird it usually means different, not always in a bad way tho.

Jenny_in_a_bottle · Answer

It depends. If she's touching you when she says it, holds eye contact while smiling then I wouldn't say it's a bad thing.

Anonymous · Answer

It can mean two things. 1. You are creepy/weird. 2. You are really funny in a weird way which is a good thing (your situation)

FlukenLuke · Answer

depends on the girl. some may be insulting you, others may be complementing you.

Anonymous · Answer

Kinda but than again she was drunk I'm sure weird is normal.

Anonymous · Answer

It could be one or several of the 27 different definitions in the dictionary of female double speak.

wbblackhawk8 · Answer

It means she feels awkward

island_princess · Answer

strange, odd, abnormal, not funny and different.

Anonymous · Answer

Well, when does she tell you?

tiredofwaiting · Answer

Meh being normal is overrated!

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