Why does everyone especially guys and my crushes laugh at everything I say and do? I feel like a clown and it bothers me?

[Anonymous]

Im feeling depressed about this and worried. I dont understand why people think im so funny. They have said it's the things i say or face expressions but i dont so this stuff on purpose.

My crushes at work laugh when i say stuff and im not even joking. When i do stuff or aparently make faces they point it out and giggle or laugh.

I feel like a dumb clown. I want to have a man and people take me seriously and treat me normal like a regular woman capable of being sexy and whatever else a woman is. Not just some funny hilarious clown.

I dress normal, i am quiet and a sweet girl. I dont like making fun of others o making others uncomfortable

[DoggyDude]

I suggest you look at the things you say critically. Try saying something uncontrovercially dark as a test (maybe speak about relative who has died, or about the tragic death rates surrounding the world crisis of late) if people still laugh there's some consipiracy afoot. After you've established they CAN not laugh at what you say, look at what you do say and consider "is this laughable from others perspectives".

On the bright side, people laughing is often a good thing. They maybe want to like you.

So, step 1 make sure your not SOUNDING like a clown.
Step 2, make sure when you do say something serious people aren't just laughing at ANYTHING.
Step 3, decide which people you care for are laughing at you and if they are your friend speak to them about it honestly.
Step 4, if people aren't changing as you have changed. Maybe find a new group of friends.

[Iron_Man]

What makes you think they're laughing at you what if its they like your Jokes?

[TaniaUncensored]

There is a very good possibility they are assfaces and douchebags. You deserve better, anyone does. People like that are not your friends and aren't deserving of your admiration or affection. Cut toxic people from your life. I would so tell them how you feel and if they can't consider your feelings then no loss if you let them go.

[ace0067]

May be you are too attractive and afraid that you will loose interest if not trying to engage themselves in everything you say. I don't know

[Ghen28]

Seems like a negative sign. Nothing you can do about it if it IS your face or voice that's the issue. If that were me, I would just remain silent, head down and go about my own business. There's nothing to gain by confronting those assholes; it would only make your situation worse.

[Avicenna]

I think you are probably too self-conscious about this

[letmebehidden]

dont worry just ignore them or you can approach your teachers or act SMART