Why is it that guys always grin at me? what is so funny about me?

[Anonymous]

even with this guy I went on a date with, he laughed at me when I couldn't open the bottle. and when I'm out in the streets some guys just grin when I'm talking with a friend for example. is it because I have an expressive face and voice? can a girl look so stupid that guys grin at her?

i have to admit I am a bit like a happy child sometimes (like jumping from one stone to the other, or ii have to walk under the fountain when passing it by :P). all that although I'm a lady most of the time, maybe that's why it looks funny?

many times they grin at me when I'm talking to other guys. but it's not a "flirting grin" it's a "i laugh at the situation"-grin! and also, most of the time it's guys 30+ who grin...

why is that?

[TheUglyOne]

Aw, assuming that is your picture, I'm guessing guys really like what they see. When I walk by an attractive woman, I often find myself uplifted to the point where I smile, which would be like a grin. It's almost like an automatic response for me. Certainly don't mean I think I see something funny or anything - if that were the case, I'd probably bust out laughing, or at least snicker a little. And seeing you act with the carefree attitude of a child, well, that's just so cute, why wouldn't a decent normal guy smile at that?

I wouldn't worry about it myself, from your admittedly only one picture, there's nothing I can see that would warrant a mocking to you.

[Asker]

hmm so its not a bad grin?

[TheUglyOne]

Not at all, at least not in my case. Now, doesn't mean I'd be interested in the woman, I already have an awesome wife, but I still like seeing the carefree people.

[Shyguy_1988]

I would grin and smirk at you too if I saw you hoping stones, I would think its cute because you can entertain yourself with simple actions. It wouldn't be a flirtatious grin though since I don't really know you and never met you. I tend to grin at people when they are doing something out of the ordinary. Don't put too much thought in it, "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." Yes, I just quoted Dr Suess, but it has truth behind it!

[Asker]

haha OK now I know what it is. I will not change who I am (it's too much fun :P) but I'm wondering if guys don't like a girl because of this? do they think it's childish and immature?

[Shyguy_1988]

Some may, people can be judgmental but others won't. I wouldn't, just because someone does little simple actions doesn't make them childish, you can still do that be a responsible person that knows how to make fun out of simple things.

[TheUglyOne]

For me, nothing is more refreshing than seeing a person with such a happy-go-lucky, carefree attitude. Too many uptight people in the world, everyone needs too loosen up lol!

[Shyguy_1988]

Haha, very good point!

[Anonymous]

You should say to them:

-What do you mean I'm funny?

-What do you mean, you mean the way I talk? What?

-Funny how? What's funny about it?

-You mean, let me understand this cause, ya know maybe it's me, I'm a little f'ed up maybe, but I'm funny how, I mean funny like I'm a clown, I amuse you? I make you laugh, I'm here to f'ing amuse you?

-What do you mean funny, funny how? How am I funny?

-No, no, I don't know, you said it. How do I know? You said I'm funny. How the f**k am I funny, what the f**k is so funny about me? Tell me, tell me what's funny!

[Asker]

they never say I'm funny. they just grin from far away. while I'm doing my own thing (like talking to a friend or eating or I don't know what), so I'm not gonna go over and ask them...

[Frostie]

Its called being friendly and probably thinking you're sexy or something along those lines. Don't look to hard into it.

[Anonymous]

they grin at you because you look cute and adorable (love your big eyes). how tall are you?

[Asker]

no, I'm sure it's not a flirty grin! they are laughing at me. maybe not in a mean why, but they are. it doesn't bother me but I'm always wondering why! I'm 5'7'' by the way, why?

[Asker]

*mean way

[Opinion Owner]

what makes you think they're laughing at you? why would they laugh at you? you don't look funny, you aren't extremely short. do you stare at them with a blank face (like a psycho)? maybe they get a kick out of your reaction. if they notice that it irritates you, they'll keep grinning at you/provoke you. if you want them to stop, you need to embarrass them in front of their friends. "why do you grin like a mentally challenged person?" "your sweet smile reminds me of my gay friend's smile."

[Asker]

no I don't look at them at all. I just catch them grinning. somsetimes my friends catch them grinning

[Anonymous]

You are probably a bit silly and fun is all. That is good

[Anonymous]

Maybe you just look a bit overexcited.

[Asker]

haha definitely!

[Lj236]

maybe they find you cute