Why do women act standoffish towards me?

[Anonymous]

Why do women act standoffish towards me

Like people think I’m crazy when I say women hate me but I could ask a general question and women will be standoffish for example there was a situation at work that I had happen and I asked a female coworker if it also happened to her computer and she seemed to have an attitude and I was thinking yeah this is why I keep to myself

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[Sonorous]

I think you should ask them. There could be many observable reasons. But they might not cover your exact "flaws." Ask in a way to where you're looking to improve though. They'll be more likely to give you the answer.

[Asker]

Like I just asked a general question

[Sonorous]

I mean ask the girls

[In_Trance]

My best guess is it's not so much what you asked it's the way you ask it. Maybe it's your tone of voice or body language or timing or all of the above

[Asker]

So women just don’t hate me I mean first she gave a rude ass response then a nervous laugh

[BlckGrl]

Honestly I'm not sure some women are rude because they don't find that person attractive. It there are alpha females like me who like to poke and orid fir w. e reason

[Asker]

Is that the only reason cause honestly this is why I just keep to myself like people think I’m losing my mind when I say women hate me then this happens

[BlckGrl]

No ofc bot the only reason some women don't know how to Express themselves when they like a guy so ig they can come off mean

[Asker]

So when I asked this girl a question first she gave me a smart ass response then a nervous laughter followed but I’ll be totally honest all I absorbed was the first part when she got the attitude was when I check out. I’m respectful to everyone and if I can’t be treated the same that’s an issue