Boys, how can I tell if you think I'm pretty?

[Anonymous]

I know this question may sound stupid but I'm just curious if there's a way to know if a guy thinks you're attractive. That is without talking to you.

i just want to know if this guy how to say this "likes what I look like?" Because I'm really attracted to him and even though we never really talked I think he'd be a great guy to talk to (he's shy so I'm assuming he wouldn't turn out to be a jerk) he looks at me sometimes and I just wanna know if he thinks I'm attractive (since I have a VERY low self esteem)

[RememberWhenItRained]

the biggest thing is to pay attention to body language, and the biggest thing in body language is really to trust your gut and use common sense. Not saying your gut feeling is always right but it usually is. What does your gut tell you? does he like you or not? Chances are you'll at least have some idea.

Some signs: more frequent eye contact than usual, averted eye contact once you catch him looking at you or look his way (especial with shy guys. bolder guys might hold your gaze for a few seconds.) Trys to sit close to you, legs/feet pointed towards you (even if he isn't close to you.) Pay attention to his posture, does it lean towards you? We tend to do that subconsciously to people we are attracted to. I could go on but I think you get the picture. If you have any more questions feel free to ask.

[Rockinroller]

If you have a "VERY" low self esteem, you really ought to see a professional and work on that right now, because after you get that taken care of, it will be much easier to allow yourself to believe that guys think you're pretty when they're dropping their obvious signs.

[redrex]

do you have any common friend? If so,they can help you in this situation...otherwise,I think you should talk to each other, start with simple,day-to-day lines, if you both are studying,then study can be a great topic...you both can know each other better this way...but I must say, common friends are the most helpful persons in this matter...BEST OF LUCK

[Distant]

If he's smiling when he looks at you, looking often and holding your gaze, he's interested. At the very least, he's inviting you over to introduce yourself.