Ladies do you find men with self harm scars attractive?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[Darcia]

No, why would I find a man who participates in self harm attractive? He clearly has some underlying psychological problems that he needs to get addressed. There is nothing attractive to that. This question is very disturbing for you to ask. The scars from self harm shouldn’t be paraded like a trophy, it’s good you survived but no it’s not attractive it’s very concerning, unsettling, and disturbing. Please do get help if you need it.

[MAYEDA]

If you can't love yourself, how are you supposed to love me?

[glassxdoll]

they wouldn't turn me off, but they're not attractive esp if they're fresh. maybe if they were old & the guy has that troubled past silent sad bad boy type thing going on, could be hot but I don't know

[Anonymous]

It isn't attractive because it means someone isn't (or wasn't) mentally stable.
I don't know how those things work so I would be scared that they maybe fall back into bad habits.

[Curabyron]

No wtf?, A man with a healthy mental state is far more attractive

[Anonymous]

I have such scars too. I never found it attractive. It makes him seem as a project for me to work on

[sachimu]

It’s actually very unsettling.