Will I ever be unblocked?

[Anonymous]

I blocked a girl who I almost dated, and when I went to unblock her she had blocked me back.

Its been a couple of months, and I only found out recently.

Is is there any chance that I will be unblocked?

She’s always staring at me in college, and I heard from mutual friends that she is uncomfortable around me. If that helps

[Hangry22]

I don't think so. No girl would want to be with such a guy who pushes her away like shit. She probably hates you

[Asker]

Oh okay, thank you very much. I don’t understand why she would hate me over this when she had unfriended me on snapchat a few weeks prior. We weren’t even following each other on Ig when I blocked her so it doesn’t make sense why she would hate me for it.

Thank you for your help

[Hangry22]

well that's kind of weird. Did something happen for her to unfriend you from snapchat? If yes, you should start from there

[Asker]

Yeah there is a misunderstanding that I have been following her home, and that I always stare at her with an angry look. At 1 point I asked her on Snap where she was at because I wanted to invite her to a date after college (I had asked her on a date before but, she was busy). With that context you can guess why she Unfriended me. Depsite these circumstances she started to frequent places I hang out, places she had never gone to before, and positioned herself in places where she could see me or places that I would definitely see her when ever I entered or exited the room. She would always stare at me when I’m not looking, and it doesn’t make sense. Why would someone want to be in the same area as someone she thinks is a creep?

There was 1 time I do recall her running out of the gym when she saw me inside. She and her friend entered the room, to talk to someone nearby, and as soon as she saw me she ran out, and stayed at the door so that I couldn’t see her. I didn’t see her enter the room but, my friend saw her come in and run out when she saw me. There is a table directly opposite the exit of the gym, and I have started to see her there a lot after that day she saw me. she started to hang around in areas that I often hang out, and she stares at me from afar. Is it possible that she is hiding her attraction for me?

[Hangry22]

It seems like it. Maybe she's mad that you didn't give her attention and chased her around after the snapchat thing. Maybe she missed your attention after unfriending you.
She's possibly trying to get noticed.
The only way for her to unblock you is if you start talking to her directly or through some other social media

[Asker]

Thank you very much for your insight. Other people told me that she just blocked me because she was mad that I had blocked her.

You’ve given me a little bit of hope

[Hangry22]

welcome but don't grow out that hope alright. This is just my observation as a stranger which may or may not be wrong. Also when we like someone, sometimes our mind creates an illusion that their every word and action and staring is directed towards us

[Asker]

Yeah I know exactly what you’re talking about. Every single time I’m about to move on she pops back up in my mind.

Is it normal for to have someone that’s in the back of your mind when you date other people? or go into relationships with other people? Kind of like the one that got away type of thing

[Hangry22]

It's because that person had a special impact on you and because you didn't have closure

[Asker]

Oh okay so if I had gone and talked to her despite her being uncomfortable I would have got that closure. Hopefully I bump into her sometime in the future. Would strong eye contact from her during a conversation change my situation above tho? I forgot to add that when I talked to her to discuss talking to her after college to sort out everything she seemed very open, and held very strong eye contact. Almost to the point where I felt like she was staring right into my soul. Her body language compared to her thinking I’m a creep didn’t match. It confused the hell out of me.

When I initially approached her before I invited her to talk after college her first impression was that she almost jumped out of her seat. She was really shocked to see me... I don't know whether that supports her feeling uncomfortable around me.

Also thank you so much for listening, and replying to me. As you can see, the girls side of this website is less active the males side

[Wise4myage]

Who knows? I say forget about her and move on.

[Asker]

I have tried brother but, she’s been living in my mind for too long