It depends on their age and what they look like in return. For example, if he's my age then I'll love it, look back at them, and flirt to see if anything happens. But if he's old and/or gross, then I'll either say something sassy like "oh you wish" or try to get away as fast as possible. I also have done the silly thing that female teenage actresses do in the movies where I pretend that one of my guy friends is my boyfriend and use them as cover until the other guy goes away... but sometimes I do start to feel guilty for doing that later on and so I always just think to myself, "deceptive: maybe. But necessary? In this situation, OF COURSE!"
So, all-in-all, it really just depends. Sometimes it makes shivers run down my spine and makes oohs and aahs come to mind, but then other times it makes me shiver for entirely different reasons.
So, to sum it all up, let's just say that when it's actually APPROPRIATE, I like it when guys check me out. (In fact, it actually gives me a little boost of self-esteem.)
But in any other situation- it's definitely a no for obvious reasons.
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The only reason I look to my side is Because I feel like I'm getting stared at, I don't like that feeling. Ever walked past cows? They look at you and keep looking, that's the kind of checking out I'm talking about. Full on Michael Myers. It's flattering but it's not that I go out with the goal of getting stared at. If it happens it's like "whatever" and in the end it's a little ego boost, cause they find you attractive. But I'm not a fan of the LOCKED ON STARE FOREVER, Twilight style, no matter who it is
I think it is split three ways yes some thrive for it. Some are annoyed and others are completely unaware. I find it to be rude regardless of what they think!
If he is attractive then all good if not then he is creepy... Don't risk it
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If I pass by someone I automatically look to the side if I either feel someone looking at me, feel their energy, feel they're behind me, & to make sure they don't follow me. It's not because I enjoy being checked out.
Some girls thrive on that though. I had a friend who literally bitched about not being checked out. My other friends and myself hate it. I'd like to continue my day without random strangers staring at me.No I do not like it!!! It happened several times and each time I told the guy off! I told him to mind his own business and to put his eyes back in his head! Yes I am a bitch, if I do not know you do not check me out!
Reading the girls' comments, it is clear many are shallow. Their behavior is as bad as the guys. Ok if he's hot?
I like men checking me out, it's flattering. Staring and glaring? No, that's different and disrespectful.It depends how it is done. I worked in a bank and guys would stick their tongue out while glancing at me that was gross.
If it’s done with subtle admiration then sure it’s nice. If it’s leering and dribbling and constant it’s creepy
We always do. We only find it creepy if the guy keeps staring and that we don’t find attractive.
I mean, they only like it so they can call you thirsty. Don’t fall for it, it’s a trap.
Only if he’s attractive, single, and not being creepy.
Not from someone I don't know, no. If it was a friend of mine who tried stealing glances, I'd be flattered. Some rando? No way, even if he's hot or whatever.
It depends on who, where and how they do it. Mostly flattering, but can be creepy to lol
Well it depends! Some girls love it while girls like me get creepy feeling out of it
No its creepy. Unless the guy is hot
That's like asking a kid if they like candy.
It's only creepy if you are ugly.
Its cause of anxiety in my case
I don't care. I'm used to it.
If it's creepy then nope.
Not really. It's sorta creepy sometimes
Yes & no.
I certainly do
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