Girls who hate men, can you please explain why?

[Anonymous]

[Kas19]

I distrust most of them. These are just of the many reasons why I hate men.

"Males experienced higher victimization rates than females for all types of violent crime except rape/sexual assault. Females age 12 or older experienced about 552,000 nonfatal violent victimizations (rape/sexual assault, robbery, or aggravated or simple assault) by an intimate partner (a current or former spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend).
Black females historically have experienced intimate partner violence at rates higher than white females.
The rate of intimate partner victimizations for females was 4.3 victimizations per 1,000 females age 12 or older. The equivalent rate of intimate partner violence against males was 0.8 victimizations per 1,000 males age 12 or older."
https://www. bjs. gov/index. cfm? ty=tp&tid=955

[Anonymous]

I hate men. I think it's more that i am mad at myself for being heterosexual and so i can't get into a relationship because i don't think a man can be completely loyal. Nothing personal. Ik it's biological for men to want many females to mate and check out. I personally have insecurities and trust issues. I do not even think about other men when i start to talk to some guy. I even don't check out guys much or flirt when i am single. So i just cannot get over the fact that my man would always be on the lookout for better girls.

[pikuroy]

Girls may hate men, still they would get addicted to him.

All kinds of addiction are injurious to health, but people love to do it.

Same principle.

If you want women to be addicted on you, hurt them mentally, emotionally, play mind games with them, manipulate them. They would enjoy the hormonal drive.

[_no_one_]

[TayTay21]

Most of the girls who hate men do so because they've either been abused by men or because they resent being weaker/smaller/less capable than men. They have a hard time accepting that men are better at certain things. They're the pathetic losers who stand around screaming over stupid shit like Trump rallies and conservative speakers at their colleges.

[kajad1]

Nice.

[SueShe]

Let me ask you another question as part of my answer.

Guys, why did you oppress women since the dawn of time? Why did you ensure that they would not get educated until later in the 20th. century? Why do you still oppose equal rights to women? Why do you believe that you are superior to women? Why do you solely see sexual objects in them?

Just take a look at those ads from the 1950s and 1960s and you will see what I mean.

https://www.businessinsider.com/26-sexist-ads-of-the-mad-men-era-2014-5?r=US&IR=T#1963-the-most-important-quality-in-coffee-is-how-much-it-will-please-your-man-11

Can you explain why?

[Bagyy]

I think it's also important to remember young men today aren't their fathers. They can't be punished for a crime their ancestors committed. Most young men today actively take part and support feminism. Of course there are exceptions.

[SueShe]

@Bagyy I agree with your statement.

However, the primal behaviors are still in their genes. If the laws would not have been implemented to protect women, then the young men today would act exactly the same as their fathers and forefathers.

[Asker]

@sueshe that’s not true. Your thinking is why I wrote this question

Do feminists realize this? ↗

[Bagyy]

Well you must remember that the standards set for men and women in the past weren't just oppressive on women but also men. Men had to behave a certain way to have respect in the society.
But beyond that if you look even further into history, before organised Western civilizations took hold and humans lived in smaller colonies, women weren't oppressed the way they were in the west. A lot of the communities in the east followed matriarchy.
Even today when we look at the tribes in Africa where their culture remains largely untouched, in most of them, women aren't mistreated they were in the west.
Most of the oppressive cultures like misogyny and anti LGBTQ started in the west and spread to the rest of the world during colonial rule

[SueShe]

@Bagyy Oppressive culture existed in the cave age when women did not really have much to say when a man wanted to abuse her. He just took her as a possession to beget her and that is why I say that women were oppressed since the dawn of mankind, starting as early as the Cro-Magnon and moving along the line to the Neanderthal and all the way to our civilization.

The Western civilization has just made the entire perception worse because it tried to hide the fact that women were oppressed along with other "sub-human" races that existed and that were traded as mere goods. Women and slaves were just goods and nothing more. Among white supremacists, this point of view still exists in the 21st. century.

[Bagyy]

Nah, the narrative in you're head is a little too skewed. The world isn't as black and white. Also, it is a fact that we have no hint whatsoever how women were treated during the Neanderthal age.
And later on, there were thousands of cultures that evolved in parallel. And a lot of them weren't oppressive.
I have said eastern culture cuz that's what we've learnt even in our psychology class.
Even Implicit bias in the east was found to be much lower in the east than in the west

[SueShe]

@Bagyy Appreciate your point of view.

Fact is that several archeological founds have revealed evidence of cranial trauma, particularly among women. The victims were predominantly of reproductive age and that violence is associated with capture, and perhaps "spousal" abuse were likely to have resulted in the observed injuries.

But it is true that we will never be able to fully assess what happened to women in those dark ages and that we have to rely on archaeologic discoveries.

Your observations will not change my point of view about the general misuse of women by men over the course of time.

However, nowhere did I mention in my reply that I hate men. I am just extremely cautious about them and avoid them whenever I can.

I will of course not put the entire gender in the same basket. That would not be very intelligent of me.

[Bagyy]

Fair

[Dontaa]

I'm not going to be held accountable for what past men did.

I hope that's not what you're thinking here.

I don't oppress women, I didn't ensure them to not get sn education, I don't oppose equal rights to women, I don't think I'm superior to a woman just because I'm a man, and I sure don't see them as just sex objects.

[SueShe]

@Dontaa Well, I am glad to hear that. Maybe you are one of those guys that has learned something from past generations.

It will be interesting to see your life statistics when you are 80. Good luck and don't change your views.

[Dontaa]

Thanks much, SueShe.

[HiveBee]

Scientific evidence is needed to support the claim that it's in men's genes to oppress women.

And as far as I know, no such evidence exists.

[Anonymous]

I don't hate men. But I like @Jayla2000 answer best. Most women don't hate men, but the ones who do probably have a very similar mindset to the men who hate women. They had one or a few bad experiences, and started hating all men as some sort of coping mechanism. Not a good coping mechanism, but I think that's what it is a lot of the time. Or, although I suppose this example is almost the same as the one I just said, they hear on the internet all these terrible things about specific men, and they just start to believe all men are that way. They hear so many stories about cheating, they think all men cheat. They hear so much about rape, they think all men are rapists. Most people don't like to admit they're wrong once they've been convinced of something and have been living with that belief for so long.

[Anonymous]

I don't hate men but I do hate certain things some men doI hate that some are prone to violence and think being aggressive is manly and goodI hate that some men still think we're property even if they won't admit it. Crimes of passion happen -in many cases- because the man won't accept that the woman doesn't want him anymore.. how dare she choose! I hate that they find it insulting to be compared to a woman ("girly" "nancy" "cry like a girl" "bitch") I hate when they assume we can't do certain things because we're women. Wanna help me? Ask me if I WANT your helpI hate that some men expect women to work like they do and still be in charge of cooking, cleaning, etc like we were genetically engineered to do chores or somethingI hate that some think being "dominant" is the key to get women. I'm not a gorilla, you don't have to bump your chest and show off that you're strong and a "provider"

[Jayla2000]

I don't hate men, but my best guess is they have the same mentality of racists and men who hate women.

It's the women who can't see past the fact that because a few men hurt them, that handful does not represent the billions of men in this world.

[Alpha09]

Very few of us truly hate men. We just hate some of them since well enough of them are out here fucking up on an unforgivable level. Unless she's a misandrist the "I hate men" you hear is the majority of the time not a generalization, but in reference to a particular guy who did something horrible.

[Aurora1010]

I am glad that feminazis haven't inpacted my culture
in mx 🇲🇽 we're still traditional and I am proud of that

[Aurora1010]

I believe in equality but why do many feminists want to destroy traditional cultures?
i don't believe in taking crap from men or following their orders
do not misunderstand me
but we were raised in a traditional and conservative society
nothing wrong with that

[JosyJosy]

I only hate the closeminded ones, the ones who hate women because of bad experiences. With some common sense they should know that there are good people out there as well. Same with the bitter men hating women. Quit your whining if you refuse to see the good in people

[Rosalindaa__]

I don't hate them, but I used to.
For me it was because there was not one man around me who was a good person.
So I just assumed everyone was the same, but that was close minded of me and stupid.

So I believe that the women who hate men have the same reason as I did. They just don't have any good men around them or have been very hurt by men.

[kajad1]

How is there not good men? i dont belive what you say is true sorry

[Rosalindaa__]

What? I'm not saying there aren't, I'm saying there weren't any around me.
Whether it was family or classmates.

[kajad1]

i know im good man to any woman aslong as thy are not mean to me for no reason.

[Anonymous]

They often cheat or flirt with other women. It seems like they have a problem with being loyal to only one person.

Also, they talk down to women a lot and try to boss them around, which is really annoying.

[LEBANONBEAUTY]

I'm not a "man hater" but an Iron-Man hater LOL!!!😅😆🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[LEBANONBEAUTY]

Sorry I did a mistake!"Iron-Hesd"

[ChefPapiChulo]

@Iron_Man This catfish is bad talking you.

[LEBANONBEAUTY]

@ChefPapiChulo He is a man not a G... A... Y... LIKE YOU... I WILL TALK ABOUT HIM... YOU NEVER WILL BE LIKED BY A WOMAN.. YOU ARE UGLYYYY

[LEBANONBEAUTY]

@ChefPapiChulo I'M A CAT BUT YOU'RE A FISH WITH G... AY... LIPS...

[ChefPapiChulo]

You’re really strange.

[Laciandmaci]

@ChefPapiChulo she is a jerk and idiot!!! She should look at herself

[Iron_Man]

She’s always fighting with me left and right every time we talk about something

[LEBANONBEAUTY]

@Iron_Man here we go again...

[Iron_Man]

You need to learn how to behave yourself

[LEBANONBEAUTY]

@Laciandmaci I fo trust me.. And I'm not ugly and call others ugly like this FISH LIPPED G... A... Y ONE DOES. THIS CREATURE

[ChefPapiChulo]

This is a obviously a dude.

[LEBANONBEAUTY]

@Iron_Man So, you unblocked me to do another fight? Ok

[LEBANONBEAUTY]

@ChefPapiChulo I'm a girl with a REAL PROFILE... STUPID... YOU ARE NOT A DUDE OR A GIRL EITHER😂🤣

[Laciandmaci]

@Iron_Man she needs to grow up!!! not acting her age at all.

[LEBANONBEAUTY]

@Laciandmaci.

[LEBANONBEAUTY]

@ChefPapiChulo You look so... ewwww... I can spot G. A. YS FROM. A DISTANT... GO GET YOUR MISERABLE LIFE BACK AND BE A MAN FOR GOD'S SAKE...

[ChefPapiChulo]

@Laciandmaci I’m telling you it’s a dude. I’ve been on the internet a long time. I know trolls when I see them.

[Iron_Man]

I know tell me about it she does this all the time

[LEBANONBEAUTY]

@ChefPapiChulo LOL !!!

[LEBANONBEAUTY]

@ChefPapiChulo Trolls can be both and none is a troll except you... I'm a girl... If there was voice messaging here you would have known you are an idiot in "I know trolls when I see them"

You call my deceased dad ugly... My father was the most handsome Masculine man... you're the UGLY ONE LOOK AT YOURSELF.

I'M A LEBANESE WOMAN AND I'M MORE REAL THAN EVEN YOUR FAKE WANT TO BE GIRL TRUST ME... I LOVE TEAL MEN NOT CRESTURES LIKE YOU

[Laciandmaci]

@ChefPapiChulo I will follow you and be your friend!

[LEBANONBEAUTY]

@ChefPapiChulo You look G... A Y

[Laciandmaci]

@Iron_Man pitiful

[LEBANONBEAUTY]

@ChefPapiChulo Search my pics on Google are they stolen? I post pics of my own family.. and My brothers look alike... You hate hearing the truth so you know what boils my blood"that you call me a dude"... Call me dude... I'm a WOMAN... I GAVE MY REAL INF MY REAL AGE MY REAL PICS... YOU ON THE OTHER HAND CALL A HANDSOME DECEICED MAN UGLY AND YOU LOOK LIKE...":&$*%% I DON'T KNOW LIKE WHAT ACTUALLY

[LEBANONBEAUTY]

@Iron_Man So you love the drama? You unblocked me to do this again? And I'm the troll here?

[LEBANONBEAUTY]

Adios

[ChefPapiChulo]

get some help buddy

[Iron_Man]

No not For this but I did find this. I’m not interested in trolling you believe me girl If anything you’re the troll

[Iron_Man]

Yes she is pitiful isn’t she?

[Laciandmaci]

@Iron_Man yes she is, I am on your side iron_man

[Iron_Man]

Thanks 😊

[Laciandmaci]

@Iron_Man You are welcome!

[LEBANONBEAUTY]

@Iron_Man :(

[Anonymous]

I dont hate men.
But honestly i won't feel *safe* or *comfortable* around just any men. So i would avoid them.
Only if i dont know that man much.

[Dsg1193]

I don’t hate men but I think you all are pretty scummy. Women cheat too but you all are proven to do it statistically more

[lucas262]

Nope. They say women do.
Both do. For different reasons.

None of them good enough.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

You would date with one and that one individual would be different good or bad, but you cannot apply stats on a single individual like you are kaready expecting to date all the bad guys from the Stat

[DudeDiligence]

Do you realize that women your age are proven to cheat more than men?

[DudeDiligence]

Which, of course, is pretty scummy.

[lillianaustin]

most of them are horny and it seems that's all they care about and most of them can be assholes

[charmuseee]

It depends on the man I talk to, I hate some men because they hurt my feelings

[Asker]

Because they insult your looks?

[charmuseee]

Naaah i’m hot and beautiful more like they’re emotionally unavailable or not ready for a relationship

[Anonymous]

because they have the ability to continue the human race and to have child even when they are old. i envy these traits of men and by the way hate them.

[Nazgol]

I don't hate all just certain ones that are narcisstic, selfish, mean, rude, immature and not human

[Nazgol]

& the ones who dont know how to treat a lady.

[Franknbeans]

I think it’s fairly easy to see why both genders hate one another based on gag comments. Just saying- vast majority of this site is bash n trash.

[Anonymous]

rapist - rude - punk - pervert
you are bored
you treat me badly
you are cheating
you are evil

[Usernamej58]

Maybe you're attracted to the wrong men. Women love the idea of a Chad alpha but when they act as is normal for them women are surprised and that experience colours their view of all men suddenly.

[Anonymous]

I am a feminist and I love men. I hate CERTAIN men who are rapists, sexists and abusers.