What does it mean if a Female Co-worker winks at me?

[Anonymous]

There is one lady who in my office, The last time I heard she was married but things seemed to be pointing towards a divorce coming. However, I haven't heard anything from her, which means to me she is still married and with him. However lately she seems to be smiling at me allot more, touching my arm while we talk.

The other day I bought the office staff, so coffee, and a tea for her ( as I know she didn't drink coffee), the staff all thanked me for the thoughtful gift, as she did to, She was running out of the office to head off to her classroom, when I noticed with a smile on her face, she winked at me. When I did ask her if everything was OK at home she replied " yes, just having a tough time getting comfy, and that is why I cannot sleep"

so my question is, I can read some of the signs however if she will not tell me if she is getting divorced, what does these signs mean really?

[Anonymous]

I know this from experience. It means she really likes you, for sure. Most women don't wink unless a lot of thought has been put into it. I will only wink at a guy I am enamored with unless I am joking with a guy friend. Plus, I only touch a guy's arm if I like him too.

Her comment though about it being complicated means she hasn't broke it off with him yet since divorce is highly complex stuff. Yet, she is enamored with you, so doesn't want the relationship you both have to be turned off by her 'transient state'.

Reason I know, I was once the woman in this exact situation to a tee. I actually had to do a double take to see if the guy was the one writing in :) Good luck. Enjoy her company is all I have to say & be supportive.

[ChelseaBSB]

She sounds like an outgoing friendly lady who might just be on the verge of divorce. However, she might not be the type that goes through with things. I'd talk to her more and maybe she'll let some personal details out that will lead you to whether or not you should move on to her or not.