When a girl says you don’t look friendly?

[Anonymous]

Does she mean I’m not a nice guy?

[WhiteHat]

I hear that a lot from girls, believe it or not. Primarily in like a school setting or somewhere you’ll sit down at. If you have a sorta blank face or strong eyebrows, even “hard” eyes, you won’t look friendly. Sadly, people expect us to smile like an idiot when we’re sitting there doing nothing and minding our business. I’m sure you’re not a mean guy, you just got that guy gaze thing that we got. If you want to seem friendly to a girl just speak politely, keep eye contact, smile/laugh when you’re engaged in conversation (you don’t have to show teeth) and be genuine in the things you say. Take care

[btbc92]

She feels and senses your not a good person. Period.

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[btbc92]

That your not a good person because you feel off spiritually. She doesn't feel comfortable around you and her gut says for her to keep away from you. You don't have good intentions.

[Asker]

Like just wanting her for sex?

[btbc92]

Only you would know that of what your intentions is. If you know it's not good, what makes you think we wouldn't know especially if we're highly intuitive. Our gut is like a lie detector. And when we have the Holy Spirit, those give are amplified. We just know even if you don't know yourself. But you usually do, and that is why we avoid you. It is not because you just want sex, it is because we know you WANT SEX. And we are not interested in how you desire it. PERIOD.

But looking friendly is broad in meaning. We sense from within you, and your body language and face tells it all.