Girl asked for a selfie then ghosted me after?

[Anonymous]

Talk about a low blow, men have feelings too

[Anonymous]

Not the worst I've had. Had a girl on tinder say she matched accidentally. I joked that it wasn't the first time to which she bluntly responded "looking at your pics I can see why nobody would match with you on purpose"

That was when I decided dating apps weren't for me.

[Asker]

That's harsh, I can understand if you're being a douche but if not and they say something like that thats just uncalled for, and this has sadly happened before to me

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I've never been the type to be rude or make dumb remarks to get people's attention, always try to be genuine and polite. Seems like having the ability to unmatch and never hear from someone again on apps like that gives people a free pass to be spiteful. The way I see it its dodging a bullet to avoid someone that toxic

[OrdinaryDaniel]

Women and men can be assholes sometimes. We all get rejected some way or another. Just continue to find a girl bro don't let this discourage you. You actually dodge a bullet on this girl if she is the type to only look for looks.

[Asker]

I know im trying not to let it get to me its just that this has happened before

[OrdinaryDaniel]

If that is so then you are just very unlucky with women. I had a friend who would always somehow date the nastiest women. He doesn't do it on purpose, it is because he is really bad at choosing his girls. And also maybe if it happens too often. You might try to not punch above one's weight.

[Asker]

Punch above my weight? Like not go bigger than myself?

[OrdinaryDaniel]

Sorry, it is an idiom. What I mean is maybe find girls that are the same sex appeal as you are. Most beautiful girls tend to find the best men with fit bodies and handsome faces.

[Asker]

She was less attractive than me in my opinion

[OrdinaryDaniel]

Then it is her loss. We can speculate why she left but at the end of the day, she ghosted you, and just trying to find that girl is all you could do. Don't give up if you do you will regret it.

[doopayo]

Guys do this too. And the worst part is being a poc and having to worry about if they ghosted because they found you unattractive or because of your skin

[Chimeguy]

Guys do this all the time too. Just saying. It isn’t just a woman thing.

[Asker]

I'm not saying you're wrong but I've never heard of a guy doing it

[Chimeguy]

I hear about it all the time.

[Wise4myage]

Yeah well, that's how it goes sometimes and all you can do is move on. So don't sweat it and shrug it off.

[ItsTheNephilim]

Shit happens.