Ah the “lesbian stage” every woman I have ever know has been through the “lesbian stage” where u swear off men forever after that one really bad break up and u go to thrift stores to buy quirky cute outfits, u dye ur hair a fun color, ur suddenly into eating healthy and spending time at Trader Joes. U trade in Tinder for a lgbtq only dating app and u find urself a nice girl friend. U get into a legitimate relationship with ur new girlfriend and bam... after 3 months it ends because u realize she’s a person and not some whimsical aesthetic sent to fill the gaps ur ex partner left and fix all ur problems. Then before u know it ur washing out ur pink hair dye to go back to being a brunette, ur trading in ur rainbow overalls and u meet a nice guy from through a friend of a friend who u end up marrying a yr later and having ur first child and u could be more happier. U were never gay and u know it. Has anyone else ever gone through this phase? Maybe it’s just an LA thing.
Do all women go through a “lesbian stage” in life?
Women are inconsistent. They only really think dichotomously in extremes. There was some interesting study done a while ago that showed that it a woman is rejected by a man she will become harsher in her rejections of any man that isn’t the most attractive man in the room. Most women are socially and intellectually children and have no idea how to regulate their emotional responses to rejection. On the other hand men get rejected all the time whether we are actually asking for something or not; we actually have to grow as people and learn that if we want something we have to earn it. Women never learn that. They throw a tantrum, if it doesn’t work out for them, they stop taking care of themselves, become fat as fuck, swear off men, and talk about how bad men are.
No. The realm of the porn addict. You either like pussy or you like dick. It ain't that complicated.
My kids came up with the perfect question for this, I thought it was rather profound... "Do you like'a the dick in and around the mouth?" Works for either gender. LOL
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I wouldn't say lesbian but most girls I know have touched or experimented a little.
From ur POV do u find it difficult to navigate in the dating world finding quality long term partners with straight women just experimenting being thrown into the mix?
Not me personally. But every woman I have ever known has a story of their “lesbian phase” and I’ve been right by the side of good friends that have goin through it. Some last a month. Others maybe a yr. They r all, however, married to men with maybe a kid or 2 now. I’ve always been the friend helping with the hair dying.
