Do women have a "hoe" stage?

[hello123456789]

I am genuinely curious. Do women have a "hoe" stage, say like in College? or after?

[alice55]

Most women have a stage where they want to be seen as attractive to boost their confidence but it doesn't mean they would have sex with anybody they mostly just want to be seen as physically attractive while generally not putting out (which make men in my country complain about a lot).

[hello123456789]

So.. basically... most women have a hoe stage. Thanks for the words of wisdom.

The men complain because most men are not allowed to have a hoe stage. Only the top 10 to 20% of men (looks wise) get to have a hoe stage. Regular men usually cannot have hoe stages because it costs money and resources to date women when you don't have good looks as a man. Realistically, most men are frustrated that they can not have this same experience.

[alice55]

Isn't hoe stage having sex though? Ins't of just wanting to be seen as attractive? And in this ways is it not most women but all women as is it a normal part of development it start in middle school peak in high school then stop in college.

I don't really get it, the whole thins I talked about is women dressing and dolling up to make themselves look attractive men do the same in middle and high school (except geek who are too shy to do it). But literally every guys do it too, they wear tight clothes, put cologne and try to dress with brand name clothes to look cool.
As for dating in middle and high school guy don't pay for dat at all as is it more seen as hanging out than a real date and people just buy nuggets or shitty sandwich and eat them on the side of the road. Everybody do it even the poor.
But I guess my country must be different from yours in this aspect as I can't get why such young girls would expect a guy going to schoo -l like them to pay for anything as they both get their money from their parents.

[ManOnFire]

I want to say around 65% of women in the United States go through a "hoe" stage, regardless of age as well. Some go through this in their teens and early 20s, others in their 30s, and believe it or not there are quite a few women in their 40s and even 50 who will start sleeping with multiple men. Especially if they never really experienced good sex or had a failed marriage.

[RebelinSteel]

Some likely do, greatly depends on how they keep their Garden..

some will like to really get down to some hoeing.

[Account]

Lmao that is golden 🤣

[7Phoenix7]

I have never had a hoe stage. But I have a high sex drive, yes.

[DishLady]

No. Hoes have a hoe stage. The rest of us have other shit to do.

[7Phoenix7]

😂😂

[Drewtate]

Some women think they've a "hoe" phase but they always hoe's.

[Anonymous]

Funny because I was going to ask this question. I was considering having a hoe stage now that my boyfriend broke up with me to get over the grief.

[hello123456789]

Interesting, why do you feel the need to have a hoe stage? Have you found new freedom not being in a relationship. The relationship was too hard? Or do you just have a higher sex drive?

[Opinion Owner]

No I just need sex and I feel like having a lot of sex will help me get over it.

[hello123456789]

I believe that a lot of sex will help but that is not healthy for you. You should look for another man who wants to get to know you for real. Having sex will reduce your ability to pair bond.

Also... lean on your family and friends too. I know you have some man in the friendzone that would like to be there for you emotionally.

Have you considered contacting your back pocket men? (Men that you would like to eventually get to know but cannot because you have been in a relationship).

[Opinion Owner]

Yes but I don't want to do that right now. I'd rather just have a lot of sex with different guys to forget.

[hello123456789]

This might be destructive behavior. You need to find other hobbies besides sex with men. You might catch something.

[Opinion Owner]

I will always have him wear a condom. But I will also try to find other hobbies to get into.

[dudegreat91]

Yeah that is a good idea

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Nope, not all. Let's stop generalizing, for the nth time.

[FunkyMonkee]

We never really had a garden so, I was more into shovels that hoes.

[Anonymous]

Some do, some don’t. Depends on the person and the degree…

[jahaims]

Immature people that use sex to cope with insecurities etc. have hoe phases.

[Anonymous]

I’m 25 and never had a hoe stage, won’t even wear a tampon. lol

[hello123456789]

Haha! That was unexpected and funny.

[Account]

I actually never did, not that it matters.

[luvstoned4him]

If that is so then I am yet to experience it.

[hello123456789]

Very interesting. Why have you not experienced it? It is easy for a woman to received attention, validation, and sex from men. Did you get married early?

[luvstoned4him]

@Asker not married. I guess I have great control and morals that keep me in line

[hello123456789]

That's wonderful to know. There are a lot of men and women who do not know how to control themselves.

[luvstoned4him]

@hello123456789 thats true

[chrissykerdock]

depends what you consider being a hoe

[hello123456789]

I mainly consider being a hoe as sleeping with multiple partners within a short amount of time... knowing that a long term situation will never occur from the short term sex. It's basically when a woman only pursues a man or has sex with someone purely for having sex and that's it.

[missindiana93]

Yes I did around 20 to 21.

[hello123456789]

Why did you have this stage? Did you find it rewarding?

[missindiana93]

Just a slut and wanting attention. And no.

[hello123456789]

See... I try to explain this to woman AND MEN all the time. No need for being a hoe. It's nasty and unhealthy. Good for you.

[AnonAndrew]

Some do. Unfortunately many don't.

[DrPepper12]

Most do. It's college freshman year.