Why she was cool then suddenly changed?

[Anonymous]

This girl was cool when I met her and the conversation was smooth everything was okay. Later when I called her she was different person.

I noticed the same thing with another 3 women they're good at first time seeing them then after day or 2 they're just different.

What's the wrong with them?

[CisySpacex]

Nothing is wrong with them, and nothing is wrong with you - it is a skewed dynamic. Women cannot keep up with the amount of male attention we get. If you have an open mind I will explain how I know this. From what I have learned as a woman, it is demeaning to be a man pursuing women. Even for the best of men. And not because women are evil or shallow or any of that stuff, they are not. Women are people too, and most of them don’t mean anyone any harm, but they are overwhelmed with attention. Even if you were the last man on earth, they still have each other and you are unnecessary. Here is how I know this:

Because I am pretty for a dude I was able to really pull of being trans for a while. A. K. A. I became a woman. The experience is night and day, men everywhere going out of their way to be nice to me and to please me and fall all over me. Despite what most women I knew complained about guys, the truth is the vast majority of guys were just nice and seemed to really want to make someone they are attracted to happy. As you know, the experience of being a man is everyone expecting something from you. You have to provide value in order to Earn affection etc. As a woman, I merely had to exist (it probably helps I’m super cute as a woman but I have not so cute female friends that are still overwhelmed with attention).

Here is what I learned. Being a woman means you are OVERWHELMED with attention. So even though I tried to be nice to every guy that hit on me, I invariably had to ignore quite a lot of them - to not to would be logistically impossible. After only a couple of days I started to get offended by people that called me “Baby” or “Little Girl” off the bat - no joke, my gut response in my head went straight to “I don’t know you Dude, wtf creepy talk is that?” Or worse the aggressive guys who need a response to every message they send you Immediately! Also, it is annoying how everyone treats you as a child in any and every situation. But as far as dating/socially - it is SUBSTANTIALLY better to be a woman. You wouldn’t believe it. Guys sort of know this and complain about it, but you really have no idea to what extent how much easier life is to live in a society where everyone wants you. This is the female experience, and I have confirmed it. Most women will disagree though because of this next part:

I also learned that the only reason I could appreciate being a woman is because I was born and raised a man. I understand what it is like to be on the other side. Women have NO IDEA of the level of privilege they have - imagine a child of a mega wealthy person who complains because they didn’t get a ferrari for their birthday. They see all their friends got new sports cars, and Mommy and Daddy want you to take care of the pony they got you last year instead. That child would genuinely think they have it hard. Only someone not raised that way could appreciate what they have. Women have no idea what it is like to Not be treated like children or cute puppies all the time. There are of course A LOT of downsides to being treated like children, and women’s complaints are totally LEGIT! Believe me. BUT!! When it comes to dating/social life/societal protection/being treated well etc. - women have such a distinctly different and massively clear advantage it is hard to comprehend without experiencing it yourself. However much you think women are favored in the dating world, my experience as a woman has shown that you should double it, then double it again, then add a zero at the end of it. A man would have to be a famous rock star in the 80s to get the same kind of attention a woman gets just merely existing. I am sorry if this revelation offends you but this is just how it is.

[GirlyGal20]

What do you mean by different? can you give an example?

[Asker]

One of them was acting so sweet from at the first day when she felt it doesn't work she brought up marriage when it didn't work she acted like ass I blocked her.

The other girl is teacher we were talking fine and I said I like you she said thank you. The next day we had morning talk and everything was smooth at the same day evening she became so destanced and was cold as ice I asked her are you okay she said yes I knew there's something wrong but I don't know what's her problem. Now it's 3 days I sent her nothing and she sent nothing also

Some women doesn't show their true personality because they know the man will runaway so they act like someone's that sweet but when there's an small argument you can see how deep fake are they.

Well in other hand some women are gift from god but they're rare... Unfortunately I met bad examples

[GirlyGal20]

Yeah from my experience I'd say you ran into a needy woman, and a woman who perhaps was playing games?

[Asker]

I believe they were playing games but they were too old for that. I cut ties when I feel they're pulling me into games

[GirlyGal20]

fair enough

[Luvme66]

Maybe it's just something you said or your conversations don't lead to whatever they want you to lead them to.

Don't worry.. you will find someone who won't do that to you!

[Asker]

Honestly I don't care where they want to be leaded
What they see is what they get 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Anonymous]

Maybe you attract lunatic psycho 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Asker]

Maybe who knows...