Guys: do gentlemen still exist?

[MISSPEARLS]

i don't look for perfection, but its like i'm a genuine, giving person, that has lots of love to give, and thinks i deserve to be treated with respect and to be adored an cherished, as i would do for a guy. I'm fun and love to laugh and just me and happy, and have goals, and have been told I'm the perfect girlfriend material, yet wheres mr.boyfriend material for me...but its like the right guys don't want a girl, and the wrong guys want me, so am i wanting something that doesn't exist anymore? :) :)

[Mexicoman101]

I consider myself a gentleman, I always hold doors for ladies, I let ladies go first almost all the time, I like to compliment them, I keep my sexual and vulgar views and thought to myself and other guys , I never treat them with disrespect, I actually treat them with preference, and I like to think that I can always understand and help a woman in need. And I have had little luck with women, showing me that women don't appreciate that sh*t nearly as much as they say they do, they go with the asshole in the end. Other men see this, and see that they don't need to be polite or honorable with the way they treat women, because they have terrible decision making skills as far as picking life partners are concerned. So it's up to you and women as a collective to not go for the muscular roid raging douche who will hurt you in the end. You can't complain about men being douches when you only go for the jocks.

[MISSPEARLS]

WELL I FEEL THAT I ACTUALLY DO APPRECIATE THOSE THINGS. :) AND I AGREE WITH YOU, I THINK BECAUSE ITS LESS SEEN, ITS THOUGHT TO BE LESS WANTED. BUT ITS THOSE GIRLS THAT THINK THAT, ARE THE TYPE OF WOMEN OR GIRLS THAT HAVE THIS THINKING THAT THEY CAN CHANGE THE "DOUCHE" YOU DESCRIBED. WHICH MAYBE POSSIBLE, YET LESS LIKELY TILL HES READY TO MAN IT UP THE RIGHT WAY. :) :)

[linkin13]

I'm the same way dude and still find myself single go figure :p

[Budro]

YES they exist. For sure. I'm like the male version of you. I wonder the same thing about women. I think it just takes time to find the right person. I feel ya though. It does seem like it sometimes. I was with my high school sweet heart for 8 years and she broke my heart. I just started dating a few months ago...and it's horrible! I was seeing this other girl for a while and it started off great. But man let me tell ya. DRAMA central lol. I consider myself a "gentleman" and not to sound big headed but quite the catch if I say so myself lol. I work, go to school, I'm loyal, I'm honest, loving, funny, great in the sack. But for some reason always fall for horrible women. But I'm optimistic, I'll find my queen someday. So hang in there girl. You'll find your prince charming someday too.

[Sirhc001]

You do a good job at holding your head high. I'm the same kind of material but I've just about given up at this point. Thumbs up to ya man

[Budro]

I talk a big game but honestly I feel the question asker and you lol. Depends on my mood. Feeling good now so I'm optimistic. But have to say I've lost a lot of respect for women. We hang in there though bro. But yeah...definitely not trying to rush into anything for a while.

[MISSPEARLS]

WOW, SORRY FOR THAT... BUT YEAH IM SO A DRAMA FREE PERSON, LIKE WHATS THE POINT? REALLY... AND THANK YOU I LIKE YOUR POSITIVITY! :) :)

[udolipixie]

A few exist.

However they usually go after what's hot or go after horrible women.

[MISSPEARLS]

THE MORE AND MORE I READ RESPONSES IM THINKING THAT GUYS GO FOR THE "HORRIBLE WOMEN" ONLY BECAUSE THEY DONT WANT THEMAS MUCH AS THEY WANT HER SO ITS THE CHASE THE MEN LOVE... MAYBE? LOL

[udolipixie]

No it's because most guys have bad taste

[lily85462155]

this is the best question I have ever seen on this site...

[MISSPEARLS]

REALLY? THANKS! :D

[thedude]

IT'S ALSO THE LULZIEST QUESTION EVER!1!OMG!.1.! :P

ALL CAPS JUST MAKES ME LAUGH haahhahahha.. :)

[Anonymous]

At least one does but you can't have him, he is mine.

[shiller]

lol

[MISSPEARLS]

LOL, CUTE, WELL HOW WONDERFUL, STAY HAPPY! :) :):)

[Anonymous]

NO YOU ARE NOT WANTING SOMETHING THAT DOESN'T EXIST ANYMORE. BUT SOMETHING THAT SHOULD NOT EXIST ANYMORE IS THE capslock KEY.

IT USUALLY SERVES THE PURPOSE OF CAPITALISING THE FIRST LETTER OF PEOPLE'S NAMES AND THE FIRST LETTER OF WORDS IN A SENTENCE.

YOU CAN ALSO USE CAPS TO CAPITALISE WORDS THAT NEED EMPHASIS.

IF BASICALLY YOUR WHOLE QUESTION IS CAPITALISED, PEOPLE MAY NOT TAKE AS MUCH NOTICE OF YOUR QUESTION, AND THEY MAY THINK YOU ARE SHOUTING.

IF YOU ARE A VERY EMPHATIC PERSON AND ENJOY SHOUTING.. CARRY ON.

[MISSPEARLS]

LOL THANK YOU FOR LETTING ME KNOW AND BEING POLITE ABOUT IT, HOWEVER IM NOT YELLING JUST LIKE MY caps SO YEAH :) :) :) :)

[Opinion Owner]

LOL OKAY. LOOKS LIKE YOUR QUESTION GOT MODIFIED ANYWAYS. CAPS AREN'T NECESSARY.

[sinful1620]

If you want a guy who plays into gender roles, you have to be willing to play into them yourself. No bitching about women's rights, making any financial decisions, and a lifetime of babymaking and cooking dinner.

[MISSPEARLS]

WELL I HAVE GOALS AND DREAMS OF MY OWN AS WELL BUT WOULD BE WILLING TO PLAY THE MOMMY AND WIFE ROLE SOME DAY FAR AWAY WHEN IM READY FOR A FAMILY. :)

[sinful1620]

so you want a guy to play into gender roles, but still be able to do whatever you want regardless of gender roles for women?

[MISSPEARLS]

OK MAYBE IM MISUNDERSTANDING YOU, BUT WHAT IS "GENDER ROLES" FOR A MAN, BESIDES PROVIDING FOR HIS FAMILY, IF ONE...? :)

[sinful1620]

you already mentioned the provider... being and knowing how to do and fix everything is another one, being the protector is another

[MISSPEARLS]

IDK WHAT YOU MEAN I GOT CONFUSED LOL SORRY LOL :) :)

[oxidizer235]

gentlemen, like true nice guys (not spineless attention whores), do exist. But you gotta find em. Not only are they hard to find... but he's usually with a bitch who dnt appreciate who he is (or using him)... The same can be said for LADIES...

[MISSPEARLS]

LOL AS SAD AS THAT SOUNDS, MOSTLY TRUE... :)

[oxidizer235]

it's like the saying about quality women- they are like getting good apples... gotta climb up the tree to get em

[MISSPEARLS]

AW WELL THEN IN THAT CASE I FEEL IM THAT APPLE AT THE TOP OF THE TREE AND NO ONE WANT TO CLIMB THE TREE... AS IF IM NOT WORTH THE EFFORT OR SOMETHING, WHICH STINKS CAUSE I THINK I AM. AND IM NOT SAYING THAT TO SOUND CONCEDED BUT CAUSE I REALLY THINK I AM... :) :) :)

[oxidizer235]

Ya gotta understand.. most guys want what's hot... what's now.. and what's easily accessible (simply put, most guys are only as loyal as their options)... Young guys don't have the foresight to see that what's attractive at 20 is disgusting and nasty at 30... It will take time for you to meet that Prince Charming you say you want.

[MISSPEARLS]

SO IM NOT WHAT HOT OR NEW OR WHATEV YOU SAID? LOL AND TRUE THE SEARCH MUST GO ON... RATHER IM NOT SEARCHING JUST CURIOUS IF IN DEED HE JUST EXIST :) :)

[oxidizer235]

im going on 35... a newlywed (first marriage)... so I know what it's like being overlooked... too many people get caught up in this sort of thing- and miss what really matters... enjoying life. I been where you are (for years, I was the quintessential nice guy- a Black Knight in shining armor).. only to have girls run from me- what did I do/ I made myself better- now I'm on the verge of greatness... where those girls are... who gives a rat's ass.. I'm enjoying my lfe!

[MISSPEARLS]

&& I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU, IM NOT RUSHING LIFE, NOR AM I LOOKING FOR MARRIAGE, JUST CURIOUS AS TO WHETHER A TRUE KNIGHT STILL EXSIST, SO THANKS :) :) :) OH AND P.S CONGRATS, MAY GOD BLESS YOUR MARRIAGE FOR A LIFE TIME FULL OF NEVER ENDING LOVE :D

[oxidizer235]

thx a bunch!

[Sirhc001]

We do exist. I just know that for me, I don't believe women like you've described exist. So I've kind of given up on the hopes of finding one like that. Gentlemen die out after so many hurtful relationships

[MISSPEARLS]

WHAT DO YOU MEAN THE "WOMEN LIKE IVE DESCRIBED"? :) :)

[Anonymous]

I doubt a gentleman wants somebody who types in all caps.

[MISSPEARLS]

LOL. MAYBE...? :D

[thedude]

I strongly concur with this statement. *nods*

[jimmy217]

most gentlemen are pussys tbh. So they don't catch girls attention

[MISSPEARLS]

DISAGREE :) :) :)

[shiller]

I try to be, but for various reasons not much happens ~.~

[MISSPEARLS]

SORRY... :)

[shiller]

No worries, hardly your fault.

[MISSPEARLS]

LOL YOU SAID "HARDLY MY FAULT", IS THAT CAUSE IM STILL A FEMALE THAT POSSIBLE FILL FOR THE "NOT MUCH HAPPENS" PART? :) :)

[shiller]

Not really, just in most aspects its my own fault.

[shiller]

And also as you apologised

[Apodyopsis]

WHY ARE YOU SCREAMING AT ME :(

[Little-Hippie]

Holy Cruise Control!

[MISSPEARLS]

LOL