Guys, why wouldn't you want to talk to an attractive woman in front of a surveillance camera?

[Anonymous]

[TurboKid]

I don't mind so much but I've never been the type to use pick-up lines or anything, and I mostly start off convos with attractive women the same way I do ones that aren't attractive to me, or men, or old men, or old women, for that matter. I always start it very innocent. I turn up the heat later, like on a date.

[TurboKid]

It's like if some girl accused me of harassing her, the footage would include me talking to some old man asking behind me at the ATM-like, "How are you today?" Then I ask her maybe in front of me, "Hey, how's it going?" I don't have anything to be guilty about. If there's any justice in the world, the case would be laughed out of court. The only thing I did slightly different for attractive women is that I might shift the convo to something like food if she's talking back to me a lot, then ask if she likes French, and if she says yes, I invite her to my favorite French restaurant.

[KrakenAttackin]

Because surveillance cameras collect video not audio. She could make up anything and report it to HR and/or the police.

If you are not a attractive man this is a real danger as "attractive" women get offended whenever an unattractive man dares to speak with her.

[Lionman95]

I wouldn´t because it makes me uncomfortable talking in front of a camera. I don´t like to be interviewed. It´s not necessarily connected with the person that interviews me but if she looks too good I might reject her request because of that.

[Asker]

That's interesting!

[Lionman95]

I´m not a rather hot or beautiful guy. I´m not used spending time with girls that are considered overly attractive.

[Asker]

I'm sorry to hear.

[Lionman95]

Aw, that´s kind of you. But you don´t have to be I´m working on it. The biggest reason to not do it would be being filmed. I don´t like to be filmed while talking to someone because I get distracted pretty soon.

[Asker]

In what way would get distracted? Would you get distracted by her physical appearance?

[Lionman95]

No I get distracted by the camera. I´m not good at facing two spots at the same times. Her appearance might be less the problem.

[Asker]

Fair enough.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Same reason I wouldn't talk to one in front of my friends. ... same reason I wouldn't talk to one at all.

[Asker]

Elaborate?

[D_Bone_Steak]

My bad... I misread it, thought you said unattractive woman. Still though if I don't have a very good guage of what a woman is like as a person, it's best to avoid. She can make stuff up and it could do damage. But if you observe her behavior long enough to figure out she's not like that... go for it. surveillance or not. ... with all that said though, let's say it's someone you work with... nah man, I wouldn't bother with that shit.

[OlderAndWiser]

Doesn't want to create evidence of him being interested in you. . . so perhaps there is someone else in his life.

[Asker]

He did ask me for my age though.

[Asker]

And he also told me that he likes me too.

[Asker]

Both on camera.

[OlderAndWiser]

Did he say he didn't want to talk to you in front of the surveillance camera?

[Asker]

Yes he did.

[OlderAndWiser]

And he gave no explanation? Is he just a bit paranoid?

[Asker]

Yeah, pretty much.

[Asker]

Where are you going with this?

[OlderAndWiser]

I don't have a direction in which I'm heading. I'm just trying to understand this behavior. If he is not trying to maintain his interest in you secret, then I see no reason for his behavior.

[Question_091]

I wouldn't have a problem if I don't know the camera is there.

[Overmind]

I'd have no problem with it. Those who would have a desire to hide what they're doing.

[Anonymous]

He could be in a relationship with someone and wants to minimize the chance of being caught talking to another woman.

[Asker]

He’s single.

[Opinion Owner]

He could just be shy or a secret agent.

[Asker]

He’s not a secret agent.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe just self conscious.

[Asker]

Oh, definitely.

[Dchrls78104]

And risk her calling the police for me? As if I didn't have enough to deal with as it is? No way!

[FilmGuy93]

Because who wants to be watched?