Do women hate men or just hate putting effort into getting a man?

[Anonymous]

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Just wondering.

[pretyyygirl]

Women only hate men when she's been hurt or she's seen someone close to her get hurt by a man. Also we often care too much too early so not putting too much effort may just be a way of us protecting our heart like one foot in and one out. We don't want to be seen as needy either or have you think you have us when you haven't put in so much effort yourself, we like to be chased even if we obsess over you and already planned what our kids will look like. Another reason is she's just not interested in having a relationship or doesn't like you.

[Asker]

No ones chasing you

[pretyyygirl]

What?

[Darth_Fidelis]

You girls already plan out what your kids look like when you obsess over us? Wait…. You obsess over us?

[pretyyygirl]

Yes some of us plan weddings too and obsess over you if we like you but not in a really creepy way but we find out a lot about you, stalk your social media etc

[Asker]

Men look at the field today and see obese women with attitudes and no relationship skills

[pretyyygirl]

Yeah a lot of women have attitude, I don't know why but I don't. I'll always try my best to me pleasant and fit and healthy. And as for relationship skills, I don't know either ig some of them just gave up the whole idea of finding the one for them. Maybe some of them were hurt before

[pretyyygirl]

I'll always try my best to be*

[Asker]

Being hurt is always girls excuse. Is that why they always ask independent men "who hurt you"

[pretyyygirl]

Um idk😐 they ask that? Okay as you can tell I don't know a lot about these things. There are manyy reasons why women lock off emotionally not just because they've been hurt by an SO. It also has to do with their childhood, daddy issues etc. Everybody has a past and the past can affect. You can't blame them, they just have to forgive and let go of some old things that happened in their lives and so does a lot of men too

[Babygirlsweetheart1]

I personally do not put effort into it. I am submissive and wait. Very passive.

[Babygirlsweetheart1]

Thank you for MHO

[ChrisMaster69]

You will find it’s usual for guys to go after girls.

When everyone is interested in you, why go looking, let them come to you.

so girls don’t hate guys (generalising )

they also have bugger all reason to chase

[Yourfriend2021]

They just want to be chased and want you to put in the effort.

[Asker]

A lot of times thats just humiliating.

[muscularbumblebee]

Hate effort in keeping a man*