Why do some men hate women?

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Like I can tell you why I hate men. It is the result of having been abused and bullied by guys. Even from a very young age I had to learn to protect myself from men. I think I was 10/11 the first time a guy tried to grope me. He must have been 40+. And then the catcalling and all those times a guy dashed something at me when I refused to interact with him. Also those guys who used to make fun of me when I got a higher grade than them in class, they’d say that it is only because I’m probably shaggy the teacher.

Even now, I meet guys who get uncomfortable when they find out that I’m earning more than them. Or say I got ‘lucky’ if I manage to fix something they couldn’t. There are so many guys online who just throw abuse at anything that mentions women in a positive light.

I’m not trying to make a point here, I’m genuinely trying to understand what exactly makes some guys dislike women so much. I’m trying to relate to what some guys might feel so I can somehow rationalise their actions because atm they just look crazy to me.

Go Anon if you like.

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I hate women because of how they have morally deteriorated in the past few decades. Modern women seem to lack any substance, but yet they have somehow obtained vast political power to impose their absolute crazy, irrational, gynocentric laws on men --- brutally. Women often make no sense, they hate each other (even jealous of their own daughters), create drama, drama, drama... and absolutely refuse to take responsibility for their own actions.

The pandemic of single-mothers has fantastically added the destruction of the family as it perpetuates all the statistically awful things that come from single-mother households (child incarceration, suicide, delinquency, pregnancy, poverty, being molested by bad boyfriends of single-mothers, single-mothers are very physically/emotionally abusive to children) Statistics prove there is no more dangerous place for a child than in the home of a single-mother. Every male serial killer of women can trace his behaviour back to a brutal and abusive single-mother. Fact.

Women get a serious thrill by prancing around half-naked, creating huge sexual tension in men who will never be able to have them. This giggling sexual tension women deliberately produce creates a burning rage in men. Women say "men are worried about being rejected, but women are worried about being killed". Well, guess what, stop pushing the sexual buttons of every man you see both in person and on-line. You will respond by "women should be able to do and dress however they like". Fine, but know what you are doing to men and what men are thinking about doing TO YOU.

I used to have respect for women, really I did. But now I see women as mostly awful creatures who deserve every bit of violence given to them.

EmbraceThePain · Accepted Answer

There’s only a few types of women that I hate and perhaps it’s incorrect to say “types of women” as opposed to certain actions, inactions, or behavior in women. I don’t like promiscuous, slutty, or whore women. Also, I do not like women who are disloyal and dishonest. These are the two types of actions and behaviors in women I hate and makes me hate the actual woman. I think these actions and behaviors are harmful to society, including myself in a variety of ways. I’ve actually never dated a promiscuous or disloyal wretch in my life. I’ve also never been with a disloyal or dishonest woman, so both of these hates of mine are only due to my idea or conception of what these women are and hearing from the experiences of other men with these women. It’s been said that if you have a quarrel with another man, it can most likely be resolved in the simplest of manners and is rather shallow in nature. If two men have a fight, this can actually bring them closer together. Now, if your enemy is a woman, I’ve been told that a woman will try to cut very deep and it wouldn’t be a shallow problem in nature. Women hold grudges which can cause them to be illogical and emotional. Men get angry for a short amount of time, then flush out that anger and go back to being normal. Women seem to be more mischievous and plot.

0112358 · Answer

Generally, I'd say the largest group of guys who hate women are those who desperately want sex and women's approval, and can't get it, even from women who they - on the standards they've been told to judge themselves - should be able to 'compete' with. So they're incredibly resentful. Some have always been ignored, others always friendzoned (and probably by their own actions, ended up feeling used).

A smaller group has had very bad other experiences with women (being manipulated, falsely accused of things, taken advantage of in a divorce, etc).

Anonymous · Answer

I don't like women very much because i think there's something wrong with how they were created. Even the best women have so many serious character flaws. Jealousy, entitlement, laziness, narcissism and so many insecurities. Most idiots think only men who don't get laid hate women. That's not true. In fact the more you interact with women, the more you come across their weaknesses. That's why many PUAs turn MGTOW. Women have so much influence over men and they use that influence to gain benefits at the expense of men. For example if a woman physically attacks me and then i fight her, there will definitely be a bunch of retards who come to her rescue, who will then beat my ass even though i was only protecting myself. That's only a small example of the evil things that women can do and lots of them actually do.

ohshee · Answer

First of all I want to say I'm sorry that people put you through all the above pain and hurt I don't understand men who treat women like that they had to hsve learned it somewhere and you would think they could see or feel how wrong it is I'm the opposite when I feel that hurt and pain from a women I want to show her that it's not her and she is loved I hope some day some man can see you for you and falls in love

winterfox10 · Answer

A lot of guys get sick of the suspicion and generally poor treatment that they experience from most women. Same idea but in reverse. The "most" part of that last sentence is important, because a whole lot of guys go through life being treated like criminals by women, just on the general principle that the women don't trust men.

JimboGB · Answer

How perverse is your title considering your story? I guess some men hate some women for some reasons.

I or any guy I've ever known doesn't share your experience, you don't speak for women and most definitely don't speak for men. Imagine if you kept your hate to yourself, there would be in the world.

BrexitAteMyLobster · Answer

I would imagine that either they've had a lot of bad experience with women, which can happen, or they have underwhelming lives and have bought into propaganda about women having all the advantages in life.

Obtuse · Answer

The same idea typically. They have some bad experiences with women and they assume that's going to be the case with all of them. Same often with people who hate any group of people. Either that or they got indoctrinated by someone else who hates.

Liam_Hayden · Answer

"Like I can tell you why I hate men. It is the result of having been abused and bullied by guys."

And guys who hate women feel like they have been mistreated by women. And you are both wrong. You are judging all by the actions of a few.

Disguise · Answer

Now apply these same reasons for men too... And you will realise to some extent why some men hate women.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe they've been taken advantage by women too many times to trust them.

Maybe they despise the women's uprising in terms of voicing out opinions in society.

I know people who thinks that the laws are advantageous to women.

And lastly they're just jealous of women.

Deathly_Pheonix · Answer

Why do some women hate men? But they get away with it because they claim to be feminists

TienShenhan · Answer

They've been exposed to too many bad women, and not enough good ones. People are products of their environment

scooogy · Answer

I used to hate women because I've been sexually harassed in the past.

Anonymous · Answer

They can’t get laid or an girlfriend so they blame us

SilverRain92 · Answer

Some guys generalize all women and project their bad past experience on them

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Bitter and hurt losers. One rotten women don't represent millions of good women out there.

Cryptic-Game · Answer

They were wronged by women, so they take it out on them.

CalabrianClaudia · Answer

Yeah, like that ManOnFire and HispanicDumbGuy

sonu789 · Answer

No any man hate women.

Razal · Answer

Bad past experiences.

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