Why do some men hate women so much?

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Like it breaks my heart.  I've dated men that were far from kind to me and even abusive but I dno't hold it against the next guy.  I just try to learn from it and not end up in the same place next time.  Physically women are weaker than men so we are not only putting ourselves out for pain emotionally we are sometimes trusting a man not to end our lives.

Why are men so hateful of women?  I know it isn't all men and men that hate women don't hate all women, but why?

I'm tired of dating men who judge me by the last dozen "crazy" women they dated.  Women that weren't crazy but not perfect.  I'm attractive, earn three figures and completely capable and sane.  Yet I date men who deem the fact that I don't like him calling every woman he has ever known, "crazy".  That alone lumps me in there with them.  If I care to share a thought about how his business plan is flawed based on what I've made over $500k doing for 3 years and did 7 years before that... I'm crazy?

I don't hate men.  But I know I would be treated better if I was one by the men I've dated.  My advice free of charge which comes at $250 an hour is spit upon.  My body is belittled by someone with over 100 lbs on me in the gut... it just makes me sooo sad... :(

CuiqueSuum · Accepted Answer

So wait, let me get this right. You date really shitty people, and you respond by wanting to know what is wrong with guys and why they hate women so much?

I'll give you the same piece of advice I give most people of either gender. In this world, any type of person you can think up just about, chance are they exist. Over 7 billion people on this planet, every type of person is out there. If a person has X quality, there are people out there with the exact opposite quality. So anytime you keep ending up with the same type of person, the more it happens, the more likely it is that it's you choosing them.

You're asking you're the wrong question. The question isn't why do some men hate women so much, because that's just a statistical certainty. Some men are just going to, for a variety of their own twisted reasons, and the various answer help you none.

The question you need to ask is why do you prefer to date men that hate women? Because there is a specific answer to that, and it is actually important that you answer it for your own sake.

smahala1991 · Accepted Answer

Men that hate women like that were raised up by their fathers and other guys to think women are an inferior gender. They are taught to believe that women cannot do anything as good as men such as:driving for example. They are sometimes also taught at a young age to think any woman is not to be trusted because she's either: out for money, crazy, or out for sex. Some men also develop these attitudes because of previous relationships where he fell for a woman who legitimately treated him bad and due to the experienced developed the generalization all women are bad.

9mfeo · Accepted Answer

It's a mystery really. All they want is to have a girlfriend but they can't really get one so they hate the women that reject them. Never once do they think "perhaps it's something I'm doing" because naturally they're perfect creatures and all women are evil.

(I'm well aware that the vast majority of men don't actually think this way. Save it for someone who doesn't realize that.)

abundantlyrich · Accepted Answer

Go for someone nice and willing to be your student. dont date dominant men.

bluenose1872 · Answer

Unfortunately thats the way the human brain works for survival. We get one individual from a group doing us a bad turn and our brains identify the whole group as a threat. That's where racism and sexism lie. Every guy who has a problem with women have had a bad time with at least 1 in the past. Their mother or an ex partner or somebody. Same with men hating women. Look at Joe brand. Made a career out of hating men coz she had a bad relationship with one. People are arrogant as hell for the most part. If I'm arguing with everybody I meet at some point I'm going to stop blaming the human race and start looking for problems in myself. It's amazing the amount of people who refuse to believe they're less than perfect though. That it might be their fault. Some people just push your buttons every time they open their mouth. Usually the ones that think they're beyond reproach and perfect

McKellar · Answer

Years of rejection, dating crazy women for a long period of time can have it's negative effect on a guy. A guy tries to go out more and meet other women in the city & a guy encounters way too many pretentious women who don't even give 2 seconds worth of their time to even say "Hi" to the guy which all-in-all as the saying goes "1 bad apple makes the entire bunch look real bad". If women don't know the guy & thinks right away, "Oh he's weird" "Strange" "creepy", if you don't know the guy, I don't think that's fair. He could be the most coolest guy you'd ever meet & already women are pre-judging him. Of course men do wish to be with 1 woman for years and years in life, but that's not something that happens in life very often. Men just get fed-up with the B. S. that women produce which unfortunately makes other women look real bad. I know it does go both ways for women as well.

Tromba · Answer

Men are disappointed by women women are disappointed by men. Women tend to become sad when this happens, most men do too but some men lean more towards anger.

Most women don't conform to what a man ideally wants and very few men even come close to what a woman ideally wants.

amphet11 · Answer

Why are you dating someone who is fat? he probably knows you aren't really physically attracted to him and sell sex for commitment, while his attraction to you is probably almost entirely sexual (it can make men resent you to feel like the relationship can actually be defined as prostitution). Before you say "but i am physically attracted to him" if it's his personalty etc, that makes you attracted to him (or is required to make you attracted to his body), that isn't physical attraction at all, as it isn't off a physical trait.

mrsterlingarcher · Answer

I don't HATE women in and of themselves, but I do have a hunk of hatred inside me that I carry for a long time and I sometimes direct it unconsciously towards women, not because I believe women deserve it, but I think it's because the way my mother treated me (she was very selfish, hypocritical and emotionally abusive), multiple failed relationships (broken and draining) and because I see attractive women and I'm frustrated by how they give away their beauty so easily.

JustinCaseUDontKnow · Answer

Some of these men want things their way with a girl and if they don't get it than they treat her like crap, you definitely want a guy who will love you for you and not just for their self ,

Spiralex · Answer

Cuz of women ridiculous standards. If u not 6ft, dont have a 10 footlong snake and dont have a wallet full of jewelry, u alrdy lose the game. Years of rejections developed hatred within their fragile little hearts.

8string · Answer

I never judge the next woman based on the previous ones either but they all turn out the same in the end and the older I get it seems like women just want to be treated like shit.

DrKran · Answer

Women haters aren't welcome on G@G. This is a website for men and women. Not just men alone...

Iron_Man · Answer

Lets call in @Applefan1 To best answer this question

Bandit74 · Answer

what do you do where you've made 500k in 3 years?

gobsmacked3 · Answer

i adore women

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