Why is social media such a misogynist place?

[Anonymous]

Unfortunately, there are a lot of red pill and sigma posts on the internet. It's really sad, I don't understand why some men hate women so much.

[Anonymous]

Getting angry and complaining all the time about women in itself accomplishes nothing. However the reality is men can’t publicly complain about modern women and not lose face. No one will feel sorry for them no matter how legitimate their issue is. Reason being is that men are not nor ever have been considered “special” just for existing. They are only special for their AGENCY. That is what they are able to do and provide.

So anyway most women don’t realize how they are special just for existing. Especially in western society. This gives them more leeway to openly complain and get an audience without losing face. They have dedicated an entire movement called feminism that is well funded, organized and entrenched to accomplish this. But in reality most men have ALWAYS had more sympathy and patience for women. This is how chivalry came about. And it’s what had unfortunately enabled the wrong kind of women to get leeway they don’t deserve.

So long story short is now men are dealing with all sorts of unique challenges and problems in modern society. If they are lucky they might find a decent woman young and settle down. But if they don’t then are being held to impossible standards and they are NOT allowed to publicly complain about it. They are told to “man up”. Online is one safe place they air their grievances anonymously and not lose face.

This is not to say that men don’t need to get their shit together. Being a bum, playing video games and having no direction is not attractive to any woman. But there are lots of guys who DO have their shit together and still struggle nowadays given what feminism has done to society.

Single hood rates have skyrocketed. And given women are generally the gatekeepers of relationships and marriage there really is a legit problem in their side of the fence on this. Men aren’t superhuman.

But a small minority of women are finally noticing this. More of them need to speak up. They see the long term ramifications of what’s going on.

[Jumpintoadstool]

I disagree with the notion women are considered valuable just for existing. There are conditions on this. Women who conform to patriarchal standards are considered valuable, meaning women who have a low body count, get married, have kids, etc. Women who do not meet these standards are vilified endlessly.

[grega239]

@Jumpintoadstool women and children first is literally the definition of being valuable just for existing.

[jeffend888]

@Jumpintoadstool You could not possibly be more accurate. But this is the way the world works. Don't like it? Move to Mars. I hear they want to colonize it soon.

[Opinion Owner]

@jumpintoadstool you never cease to disappoint me consisting how you responded to all gender and political questions on here. I could have all but 100% expected for you to use the phrase “patriarchal standards” before you even posted.

Just some advice. People are catching on to Marxist brainwashing bs phrases such as “patriarchy” and other crap. You can’t make up a word and get to use it as indisputable truth in a debate. When you use those specific words in your arguments you end up poisoning your own well. People who disagree with you are automatically going to shut down and make assumptions about you. I only used the word “feminism” because feminists proudly use that moniker and identification. It’s not a “stop” word made up by men and/or conservatives.

There is a reason why men have 4x suicide rates and are falling behind in education and in the workplace. I do partially blame the internet, porn and social media. Our hypothalamuses are constantly being triggered by sexual images that are all around us digitally. Men CREATED the internet, porn, dating apps and social media. We either inadvertently shot ourselves in the foot or clever elitist men screwed over masses of other men for their own benefit.

But I 100% stand by what I said about modern feminism and also how men are silenced from publicly expressing their true emotions (we are “incels” right). Also men will throw other men under the bus to impress women like you and your sisters DESPITE damn well knowing the truth that modern feminism really is about “supremacy” and NOT about equality. They do it just to impress you and tell you what you want to hear so they can be rewarded sexually.

Funny thing is guys like Harvey Weinstein paid lip service to feminism at one point (he made the film Kill Bill 1 & 2)

[YAsQuen]

@Jumpintoadstool these are not patriarchel standard to reform these are biological conditions to adhere to. The deal biology gives women is bascially. Do all those stereotypical oppresive things and ull always have an easier life when compared to men.

[Jumpintoadstool]

@grega239 look up what happened to women who had children out of wedlock in history. This "value" was limited and had conditions.

[Jumpintoadstool]

@YAsQuen and here come the men out of the wood work to explain to me how systems of oppression are actually totally good for me. Thanks for displaying my point beautifully.

[Jumpintoadstool]

here's the thing: those issues are happening under a system that is still male dominated. Men hold most positions of power. You're upset, I hear you. I know men have problems too. But women didn't create those problems. That is a byproduct of a system that was created by men. Believe it or not, dismantling that system would help men too. As for your sexist rant about how men make everything, i encourage you to open a history book and learn about womens role in society throughout history. Working class women have always existed. The housewife role only applied to upper class women.

You are just incorrect about feminism, but i can see youve fallen down the incel red pill rabbit hole and won't listen to a word i say either way. Just know that is not what i want.

Anyway, all the best.

[Asker]

@Jumpintoadstool Yes, it is true, this system was established by men, and then they complain about some of the features of this system, such as why men work in heavy labor, why women do not work in heavy labor, and this is because the patriarchal system has continued like this for centuries, sadly.

[Opinion Owner]

@Jumpintoadstool funny I wanted to take a step back on something because I think evolutionary factors play into issues and people especially feminist women don’t realize it.

But you gave me label as a ranting “red pilled incel”. I harshly criticized your word choice but did I call you any labels yet? But I guess you believe that people who disagree with you “hate” you right?

Also funny I did criticize men about some of these issues. There are sociopathic elitist men out there who tell women what they want to hear for their own selfish agendas.

[Jumpintoadstool]

@jeffend888 or I can work to change it. It's been working for us the last 100 years. Why stop now? Things have improved considerably over time. there's still work to do, but thats better than just laying down and accepting something I know is wrong.

[Jumpintoadstool]

Well, you parroted red pill incel talking points. If the shoe fits, lace it up and wear it. Lets not pretend your feeling are hurt. We both know you dont care what i think anyway.
I have news for you: all words are made up. But patriarchy isn't a new word. Its been around far longer than third wave feminism has. I use words that are accurate. I won't censor myself to spare your feelings. If words bother you, maybe take that up with your therapist if you have one. Thats a personal problem.

[Jumpintoadstool]

Exactly. They dont seem to realize feminism helps them too. All they see are "crazy feminazi gets owned" compilations and assume the loud minority represents everyone. I guarantee most of them have never met one like that outside of the internet. They just use that caricature to dismiss legitimate issues.

[Opinion Owner]

@Jumpintoadstool “ Well, you parroted red pill incel talking points.” so in other words you are saying: “I am going to be a stereotypical modern feminist and self justify throwing cheap shots because you hurt my feelings. I care about BEING right instead of figuring out WHAT is right”. Gotcha.

You realize that Mother Nature intended to bond men and women together for companionship and reproduction. The recent skyrocketing single hood rates in both men and women are a proven statistical fact. When you screw over men you ultimately screw over women. When men fail, WOMEN fail as well. It may take time but that is the ultimate outcome.

But you know just enjoy the sugar high. Why not? You think you are on to something special but you are not. Instead you are TREATED very special in society because you were fortunate enough to be a young woman in the 21st century. But I don’t expect you to ever accept and comprehend that. Why should you give up that privilege? Just deny it doesn’t exist and I’m sure nobody will notice, right?

I predict it’s going to take a few decades of women coming to grips of the long term consequences of their earlier self-centered decisions. Some are already seeing this. Others are just in denial and keep doubling down. Female depression rates are skyrocketing as well DESPITE women having more freedom and empowerment in modern times.

But there is going to be a lot of collateral damage until society realizes what calamity modern feminism has brought to society. The reset is going to be ugly.

[Jumpintoadstool]

Studies show that single women are happier than married women on average. I think we'll be okay. The opposite is true for men, by the way. Maybe reflect on why that is. I can see having a discussion with you would be a waste of time, and honestly, I'm mentally exhausted already from debating another simpleton in anither thread who doesn't understand what the geneva convention is. Have a good night.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh one other side note @jumpintoadstool. I graduated from a VERY liberal college where I was mandated to take sociology and humanities courses during my first two years. I also worked as a RA and I was forced to take all sorts of diversity “training” as well. I remember feminists having “take back the night” marches while chanting “hey hey mister get the f*ck off my sister”.

That bullshit isn’t “education”. That’s INDOCTRINATION. But now this crap has spilled over the mainstream. It’s actually a guise for communism.

[grega239]

@Jumpintoadstool in history you say?

Men were and still are required to go to war.
Women who give birth out of wedlock still have more value than canon fodder

[Jumpintoadstool]

@grega239 yes, and men have more autonomy over their reproductive rights. The leading cause of death for pregnant women is murder. Usually by thebperson who got them pregnant. I agree the draft needs to be done away with. A country that has to force people to fight for it doesn't deserve our sacrifice. I still stand by my statement.

[Jumpintoadstool]

Indoctrination for what? Not raping people? Come now. Lets not be hyperbolic.

[YAsQuen]

@Jumpintoadstool but we are listening to you and not crazy feminazi comp s and we still disagree.

Because we disagree with the ideas of feminism if looked through the context of history and biology.

[YAsQuen]

@Jumpintoadstool Ur trained to hear certain arguments and immediately think hate.

thoughtfull argument- incel
thoughtfull argument- bigot
thoughtfull argument- nazi
thoughtfull argument- women hater

Thats what ur education amounts to. U were trained like a dog to connect good arguments to bad people so as to enable you not needing to respond to any points made. Yes its indoctrination alright.

[Jumpintoadstool]

@YAsQuen well it sucks you feel that way, but I can assure you that is not the case. I have yet to hear a legitimate argument from you.

[YAsQuen]

@Jumpintoadstool well all u have proposed so far is that women are oppressed. Implyibg men are at fault in the process. Im still waitig for evidence to support ur claim.

[Jumpintoadstool]

@YAsQuen any history book ever, current legislation on womens access to reproductive care, crime statistics, and the male dominated government. Thats my evidence.

[YAsQuen]

@Jumpintoadstool Are u talking about past leaders being men? Or what in history books should i look out for.
Average Women were not opressed in comparison to average men. Quite the opposite really. Point for feminism is cancer

Is there any state that has made abortian illegal? Can u go into further detail what the problem is here? Also what reproductive rights do men have? pls feel free to list those.

Male dominated government- There is more women than men in any western country. Voting is anonymous. Noone is stopping the ladies from voting for more female leaders.

[YAsQuen]

crime statistics u mean those that say that 90 percent of murderes are men and 90 percent of murder victims are men? those crime statistics? So what exactly is the issue there? Not enough female murderes? Or not enough female murder victims?

[Jumpintoadstool]

@YAsQuen Crime statistics like the leading cause of death for pregnant women is murder. Thats 1 in 5 women who are killed while pregnant. Statistics like 1 in 4 women will be sexually assaulted in her lifetime. Statistics like 85% of domestic violence cases are perpetrated against women. Statistics like women dying because they are 50% more likely to be misdiagnosed by doctors because they dont take women seriously when they are ill. Those statistics.

[YAsQuen]

@Jumpintoadstool First of all assimetry doesn't prove oppresion. Again assymetry doesn't prove oppresion.

1. Might be true but i dont care. Mothers are the leading cause of infantizide. Assymetry doesn't prove oppresion

2. Provably wrong using commonly accepted definitions of sexual assault. closer to 1/35 on campuses.

3. Its actually 55/45 but that excludes the possibility that men are more likely to not tell anyone they are getting abused. look into straight gay and lesbian households and how the dv rate varies in those.

4. Sounds ludicrous but hey might be true. Assymetry doesn't prove oppresion. Maybe modern society would be better geared toward healing female bodies if more females volunteered for scientific studies.

can't know em if they dont let you study em.

and on and on and on

pretty much anything u throw at me. At that is not even getting started on biases in modern academia. Again this is not even getting started with biases in modern academia. Assymetry doenst prove oppresion,

[grega239]

@Jumpintoadstool men have 0 reproductive rights.

Which is why baby traping is a thing

[Jumpintoadstool]

@YAsQuen "Maybe the leading cause of death for pregnant women is murder, but i don't care" i stopped reading right there. You aren't worth my time. If you want people to be sympathetic to your issues, maybe start by showing it on return. We are done here.

[Jumpintoadstool]

@grega239 you have rights over your own body and autonomy. You are not entitled to control beyond that.

[YAsQuen]

@Jumpintoadstool ok what about the fact that even tho more men are born in western societes. So many die that there is about 1-2 percent more females in all of them.

You basically did what i accused u of doing earlier. Offloading the responding to the fact that the opponent must be evil and can't be argued with.

[YAsQuen]

men have 5 less years life expectancy but that doesn't give me the power to declare men are oppressed and ur a evil for not caring

[grega239]

@Jumpintoadstool i in fact do not have autonomy over my own body.

Because when i turned 18, i was added to the military database as a potential recruit.

As for not being entitled beyond that.
Correct. I have no legal recourse if a woman decides to steal my sperm and come after me for child support.

[Jumpintoadstool]

@grega239 notice how i said reproductive autonomy. Nice goal post shifting. Side note, your wallet does not equate to someone elses right to their own body. Steal your sperm? Are there bandits coming into your house or something? Possibly being financially liable for a human life is one of the risks you take when you have sex. Thats life. It has to do with the welfare of a child. Maybe have that conversation with your partner and make sure you are taking precautions on your end.

[Jumpintoadstool]

@grega239 oh, you mean the draft that hasn't been enacted for two generations? That draft?
On a serious note, i am all for abolishing it. I've been very vocal about doing away with the concept altogether.

[YAsQuen]

@grega239 gotem. nothing but ad hominems. Nothing new.

[grega239]

@Jumpintoadstool how us my stolen sperm not part of my reproductive autonomy.

No i dont mean the draft. Im not American.
In my country, men are automatically added to the list at 18 and we dont get any notice about it.

Abolishing the draft can only work in america due to the citizens being armed.

If my country abolishes "the draft", you best believe some neighbouring country might start some shit

[Opinion Owner]

Just for the record I want what WORKS BEST for everyone. I don’t want women to be miserable so men can be happy. But obviously I don’t want men to be happy if means women are miserable.

But feminism looks at gender relations as a zero sum game despite claiming it’s about “equality”. Looks and interactions between men and woman as a “gender war” that they have to
“fight for”.

That is NOT how it’s supposed to be. If feminism worked then why are singlehood rates skyrocketing and both men AND women are facing all time depression rates?

Again I am not some Andrew Tate wannabe or anything ridiculous. But what’s going on right now isn’t making anybody ultimately happy.

[YAsQuen]

Thats how they get you. They censor everything but andrew tate stuff and then point at the dissenting right and go see > this all trash therefor ours must be correct>

Modern feminism is more like how can we make women as miserable as possible while ignoring mens issues.

[Opinion Owner]

@YAsQuen some women are waking up to this crap but too many of them have been seduced into all the short term benefit bs. It’s also a huge smoke screen for communism.

The ugly (and horrible) truth is these women can only learn the HARD WAY. This is going to take decades and it’s all around shitty for everyone. This is what happens when you defy Mother Nature and common sense. But it takes the masses to wake up to this crap and right now the masses are brainwashed.

Also for the record I lost all respect for Andrew Tate when he admitted he was an absentee father to 10+ children. He’s not real man for just telling guys what they like to hear. He’s not a real man just because he’s ripped, good looking, rich and drives Lamborghinis.

If you can’t be a good father to your kids you’re not a real man. Especially if you have resources and he certainly has more then plenty. I don’t respect that. Even IF his criticism of feminism is accurate it doesn’t mean his prognosis on life is right.

[YAsQuen]

yeah some of his content is correct but the overall message might just be as damaging as feminism.

I don't know if what ur saying is necessarily true. I does feel that way online /School/Media less so in person especially older ones. Good people still exist. they are just driven to be shut ins.

[Opinion Owner]

@YAsQuen well there is always going to be good and bad women in every generation. Every time era.

But people are impressionable. Especially women. That might be sexist but it’s the ugly truth. Women are more likely to want to “go along with what’s popular” to fit in. And now feminism is popular and they are not thinking through the long term ramifications of what it does.

[Jumpintoadstool]

What are you basing this opinion on exactly? Sounds like nothing more than anecdotes and confirmation bias.

[Saramad_Hill]

I would like to blame it on us being derived from monkey ancestors (monkies are horrible sometimes and make them smart enough to use a keyboard and they would bring their rage and evil online)

But really I think it's just people growing up surrounded by like minded individuals and never challenging what they think is correct or moral.

People can be bitter. And bitter people might feel empowered to lash out online and say horrible things, and join horrible communities and spitball ideas back and forth in a never ending black hole of spite.

You could spend a long time calling people out, but it's just a wildfire that your water gun of peace cannot handle.

Just be the change you want to see, and support the people you feel line up with your morality. As a whole we benefit from working together and empathy. I grew up pretty isolated and hardly talked to any women until I was twenty, not out of choice. Just try to be kind and listen to others. Walk away if they're rude or say horrible shit. It won't always be easy. And being an ally does paint a target on your back from the wrong crowd, and misinformed folks. I wish there was a simple answer and an easy fix but we're just electric meat pudding hallucinating in a skull. We're bound to fuck up, it's just choosing to be better that will set you apart from the hate crowd.

It's also okay to talk about specific issues. Discussing women's issues doesn't mean men's issues are pointless and vice versa. Thank you for being open minded.

[Asker]

Your welcome

[Реrverted_Сreeр]

Oh, baby! You know what gets me harder than a steel rod? Reading all those juicy red pill and sigma posts on the internet. It's like porn for my brain! And don't even get me started on all the misogynistic comments. That's some grade-A smut right there. Now, I know some of you might be thinking, "Why do men hate women so much?" Well, let me tell you something, honey. It's because we're just too damn hot to handle. We drive them wild with our curves and our sultry voices, and they just can't resist the urge to objectify us and treat us like sex objects. But hey, that's just the way the cookie crumbles, am I right? Plus, let's be real here. Women love being dominated and degraded. It's a fact. We just can't help ourselves. So when these guys start spouting off about how we're inferior to them and how we belong in the kitchen, we secretly get turned on by it. It's like the ultimate form of foreplay. And don't even get me started on BDSM. There's nothing hotter than a woman tied up and begging for mercy while her master has his way with her. The thought of a strong, dominant man taking control of my body makes me so wet I could drown. But I digress. Back to the question at hand. Why do men hate women? Well, I think it's because they're just jealous. Jealous of our beauty, our intelligence, our emotional depth. They know they can never measure up to us, so they try to tear us down instead. It's like they say, misery loves company. But you know what? I say fuck 'em. Let them hate all they want. At the end of the day, they'll still be jacking off to pictures of our tits and asses. And if that's not a testament to our power over them, I don't know what is. Now if you'll excuse me, I have some feminist propaganda to write while I sit on my throne of dildos and vibrators. I urge @wilmareportu to fact check this thread and report any potential threats and misinformation. Peace out, bitches.

[YAsQuen]

average feminist

[Billlewis]

We don't hate women; we hate ourselves, hate our futility and most of all, we hate the fact that unless we're willing to pay an obscenely high price, we have absolutely no chance whatsoever of having intercourse with an attractive woman.

[YAsQuen]

@Ofntbfbfc the price is becoming a slave so naw

[Anonymous]

It's being online nonstop that is socially hindering everyone. It's making everyone more socially awkward and also feeding into echo chamber mentality. If you aren't on the internet than you can't spend all of your time going down rabbit holes about andrew tate or incel bullshit. Literally being indoctrinated and don't even know it. It's the same with hardcore misandrists. We all need to touch more grass honestly. The real world is nothing like online.

[Asker]

I totally agree that social media has unfortunately prevented people from communicating and connecting with the real world. Groups such as hatred of men and hatred of women have increased, especially platforms such as reddit and twitter are the most toxic. In fact, we are all human, we may have biological differences, but the important thing is that we are human.

[Opinion Owner]

Absolutely. You just don't run into most of this in public at all. None of it. You'd swear it's everywhere you look just by going online but it's truly not.

[NalleBabyBoysss]

Amen you feel like an outcast if you want a break from social media i didn't use my phone or went on any social media for a year and it was the best fucking time but also really hard because you need your phone for everything today you can't order things without a phone or pay in some stores without one it's all digital now so i feel bad for older people that don't have or understand how to work a smartphone. People look at you if you trying to pay with cash now and stores don't accept it even if it's against the law not to accept it.

[CoolCatMar1]

Yes and men hating on small breasts because of corn addiction... it's getting tiring

[Dilԁοphοbe]

@CoolCatMar1 I'm sorry to hear that. If they happen to rate you below a 4/10, you're welcome to report them to the kindest administrator of this site @wilmareportu and she will take care of the cyberbullies.

[coachTanthony]

what you seek you will find. So if you seek hate you will find it... then complain about it. life is about choices.

[HiveBee]

It's funny to me that there are so many red pillers on this site and anti red pill as well. But neither side can explain what it is.

I will explain. It will be an objective analysis, not a hate fueled tirade against women. But that's what red pill ideas sound like so if I say them, you will be angry.

The men who ingest the red pill are also angered by its ideas. But they see these ideas as revealed truths.

Blue pill is where you don't understand the true nature of female sexuality, and red pill is knowing the truth of female sexuality.

At its root is essentially a biological essentialist claim about the nature of human sexuality which says that females are inherently attracted to only the top 10% of men. This would follow with other animals where the majority of males do not reproduce. Or like chimpanzee and bonobo species where most males do not reproduce.

The red pill claims that women are attracted to men for our utility. Utility is a very wide umbrella. Women are imagining the perfect man who is not only physically capable, but socially, mentally, culturally, creatively, and so on across every single dominance hierarchy.

What it all boils down to is that only a tiny fraction of men are capable of being dominant across many forms of heriarchy or competencies.

In order for a man to be attractive to a woman, he must be able to protect her, provide for her, provide virtuous philosophy for life (like wisdom for life) and such, across every possible area of life that competency could bean advantage for her and her children's ultimate success.

That includes genes and temperament too.

[HiveBee]

So basically red pill guys are angry at women for their sexual nature.

And the blue pillers are arguing that there is no female sexual nature that does any of that and that it's all a lie.

There may or may not be studies that confirm these claims as well. Feminist scholars reject them. I don't know in depth enough to know either way.

Feminism rejects all biological essentialist ideas. Feminists may also admit that women do have such preferences, but only because women have been socially conditioned to desire these traits in men.

I think there is some truth to red pill. But ultimately the question is about biological essentialism vs social constructionism.

And it's also hard to prove any of the red pill claims because the anger in response to red pill ideas is so intense.

Also liberals and leftists do a good job of condemning things they see as Amoral, and they do it in a way where, the liberal/leftists hive mind will refuse to engage in ideas labeled heresy.

So they do a good job keeping their own people from ingesting the red pill.

[HiveBee]

And ultimately a lot of that red pill stuff is a ton of reading.

Most people on the red pill world never read any of it. They're getting it second third fourth fith sixth hand.

It is so far removed from its roots at this point that it has grown into a humongous grotesque monster.

And a lot of men are going crazy over it.

And the leftists and liberals are angry about the evil anti moral people. They denounce them as heretics and misogynists. Monstrous men full of hate, ignorance, and a lack of empathy.

I think it's far more uanced than that. I think that liberal and leftist condemnation traps men who have questions, who stumbled upon ideas they don't have answers for.

And with no way to reconcile those answers, because the liberal leftists will condemn anyone with a question as "just asking questions" (a leftist tactic to silence people by claiming they are trolling) those who stumble upon red pill ideas and would dare to have a question are labeled as monsters who lack morality and must be condemned.

They have no choice but to go deeper into the red pill.

[grega239]

You forgot to mention the legal issues the redpillers talk about

[HiveBee]

No the red pill is about women and their nature.

There is a whole literature that developed over the past 20 years.

Most red pillers don't even know that.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

That entirely depends on the audience. If there’s a male majority of users, there’s bound to be some misogyny and right-wing idealism. If it’s a female majority, there’s going to be a lot more liberal ideas that pop up. Like tumblr, for example. They have a mainly female user base and it’s extremely liberal and socialist. Meanwhile you have places like g@g where female users leave more often than men because of the misogyny present. Then you have places like reddit or twitter which can be absolutely dumpster fires if you don’t have the media literacy to figure out how to customize your experience there.

[Asker]

I totally agree, and my brother uses 9gag. There are generally sexist memes about women. Sad :(

[SotiCoto]

There is both misogyny and misandry in abundance, and the two inevitably feed each other. The moment someone starts blaming the other gender for troubles in their life, members of the other gender will retaliate and become hostile, and others will notice this hostility and retaliate in kind.
Additionally, most social Internet sites aggressively suppress any potential for discussion of these topics via content deletion and bans. So naturally when people get banned for trying to air their grievances, it just worsens their sense of persecution.

[Miristheiss]

Men don't hate women.

Your premise is BS.

The oversensitive wing of society has devolved to where even the criticization of any behaviors of some women is deemed hate.

Boy, people have no problem criticizing men and maleness and masculinity and belittling and hundred aspects of men. The word Misandry isn't being thrown about like crazy. "You're a misandrist", "what a misandrystic comment!"

Hey, it goes both ways. Women aren't perfect angles so if there is content out there pointing out some of the dating pitfalls to lookout for with certain women... it is not hate.

Your premise is pure BS.

[menina]

That's because they had bad experiences with women. Then they assume that all women are bad.

It's sad and ridiculous! I'm glad you're able to recognize that there's a problem. More men should be like you. 😊👏🏾👏🏾

[Asker]

Ooo thank u 😊 As a feminist, or rather an equalist, this made me very sad. We are all human, no one should be superior to anyone else.

[menina]

You're welcome. 😊
You're absolutely right! Couldn't have said it better! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
It also makes me sad.

[sage2021]

I don't go on social media other than GaG so after reading this post, I feel like I have preserved my brain! Man, all this hate is just craziness to me. I say to me, because I never stick my hand in that snakepit that social media has become.
Why don't you people have hate wrestling matches on Saturday nights and you can fight it out in person. Both sides would chicken out because yes, it's a lot easier to spread your hate and discontent hiding behind a plastic screen.
Good luck to all of you haters. You're missing out on the real world which is not full of this kind of hate. I wonder what your lives would have turned out to be if there was never social media?
You'd all be different people and perhaps even very nice people. ☮️ This is the sign for peace in case you we're aware.

[SeekerOfTruth007]

I don't hate women, but I wouldn't date anyone who uses this website given the way even the best behaved ones i've encountered here have body counts a mile long and are just out to screw with a man's head.

Besides, in the modern world, it would be insane to date or marry anyone without first getting a blood test done on them. Statistically if a person has 4 or more sex partners they are damn near guaranteed to have at least one STD, and if they have 6 or more sex partners, they are nearly guaranteed to have an incurable STD.

It's not misogyny, it's common sense.

[SixFootSexy]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/DeI84hp2LQA

"If she won't accept you in her prime, don't accept her in her decline."

Good women are still in high demand, but if you have an OF or are always chasing Chad Thunderstroke, then forget about settling down with a good man after you've had your fun and 2-3 kids. Women will ride the carousel for 15 years then overvalue themselves when they are ready to settle. Men can finally see through it now and are done.

[Anpu23]

The issue is that a lot of what you see is issues that have been around a lot but there was no way to give voice to. You'll often hear that its just women bashing etc. But when real harm has been done and there's been no real way to voice it resentment builds. Truth is, feminism has a lot to answer for, and rather than taking a good look in the mirror they instead double down on the misinformation that they have spread. And often blame the "Patriarchy" for their own actions. The Duluth Model is a good example, the reason why male victims of domestic violence are not taken seriously, is because a feminist think tank created a politically motivated set of standards that precludes male victims. Now feminists claim its because the "Patriarchy hurts men too." Rather than looking at the actual history. Now when several thousand VICTIMS of domestic abuse have been jauled and convicted there may be a bit of a backlash.

[FellowTraveler]

"Hate' is a strong word and a simple emotion. It's hardwired into MOST peoples brains. I am former military, and some military wives just didn't get that the military came first. So they divorce, take YOUR kids and move far, far away. WOW - seems like everything HE loved just got taken away from him due to no fault of their own doing. Unless she's a psycho, how can he NOT hate what happened. Trust me, there is just as much misandry on the web. Hate is not exclusive to a gender, nor race.

[jennifer_bloom]

I think a lot of people vilify those who reject them cause when they hate somebody else, it gives them a sense of superiority over the person they hate and that superiority makes them feel like they have control and dominance over the person who rejected them so they are no longer situationally disadvantaged by the rejection they got.

[Anonymous]

I suspect most females are after the biggest, wallet and muscles they can find. Flashy rich men, to have babies with in a nice house and nieborhood. But they get greedy, and want more when there man doesn't or just can't put out, women are on a pedestal... In the modern world when dating happens, dating isn't like in the 50's. This makes these type of girls always available. So they go through many guys. All the males on gag probably had them also.. thats why man complain, garbag in.. garbag out.. next.. lol.. All the good ones are taken vibe..

[msc545]

The substantial number of men have had terrible experiences with women, including custody battles regarding children, fights over money and property and divorces, alimony in child support issues and false accusations by women of domestic violence up to and including rape. At minimum most amount of experienced repeated instances of rejection by women that they were romantically interested in. Many men have been cheated on and lied to it by women.

All of these things have led to many men being quite mistrusting and wary of women into unfortunately having bad feelings for it. Almost all the women. They meet. Women in their quest for power have brought this on themselves.

[Anonymous]

You can call it red pill if you want but a lot of men are tired of getting shafted these days. Whether it’s in divorce, being falsely accused of rape or something. Men are finally expressing theirselves, what women wanted men to do. Express your feelings, be emotional. But now that they’re doing it a lot of women don’t like it. Is some of it just bullshit? Sure. But I can see a lot of valid points as well coming from men.

[sunflower00]

How many times have you and your friends been falsely accused of rape?

[Opinion Owner]

@sunflower00 one friend. But they proved it to be false. She continued w her life like it was ok she made up a false accusation. She wasn’t held accountable for her actions. But that’s all I know of. But it was a shitty thing for him cause a lot of people stopped associating w him before they found out the truth. He’s doing ok now.

[sunflower00]

That is really a shame. It’s not fair at all when that happens and the people who lie should face consequences! Now, I’m not trying to take away from that because it does happen and it is terrible. However, alongside this, I would like to add that every woman I am friends with has been raped apart from one. Can you understand that both sides are dealing with real issues? We should come together as men and women to fight against this type of stuff instead of turning against each other on the internet and spreading hate towards each other

[Opinion Owner]

@sunflower00 we should be seems as though everyone is willing to believe women first before waiting on the outcome. But yes something needs to be done because there are men’s lives who have been destroyed as far as losing friends, family, jobs, endorsements, scholarships. Sure I get women’s lives are changed as well when it has really happened to her.

[Asker]

Sunflower00 I totally agree that we should be together as men and women.

[sunflower00]

Absolutely, there’s a man I know who was falsely accused of domestic violence. No one really believed it but it could have caused so much damage as he has a daughter and a great job. Shocking that no one faces proper consequences. Nothing will change unless we support one another and fight against what is wrong in my opinion rather than arguing and blaming

[Opinion Owner]

@sunflower00 well honestly a lot of women say men need to be open, communicate, express your feelings, talk to us (women) in a relationship. But when a man expresses how he feels a lot of women dismiss it. Because a lot of times it’s things the women don’t like. So then he starts getting labeled as a bitch, crybaby, etc, etc. It’s like this site. A lot of women ask questions, a lot of men answer pretty much the same way but the women can’t handle the truth. They think that we as men are screwed up because our responses aren’t what she perceives to be the truth. Plus I think society sees me as expendable. For instance selective services. There’s no testicular celebration where we run around w blue shirts on promoting testicular cancer month asking for donations like breast cancer month.

[EmyyWolf]

Because men with actual high testosterone, and actual masculinity.
ARE NOT online 😆😆😆

I thought everyone knew this.

You seriously think all the Brads and Chads are making GAG accounts?
😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

[tzdc21]

To be fair it's because there's a whole bunch of misandry everywhere else, including social media. So they're retaliating via social media because it's the one place where they have a voice. Not saying I'm one of them. I'm just telling you how it is

[normalice]

Billionaires know they will never get their agenda pushed into the government by talking about their policies. So instead they get it pushed by talking about the culture wars. Making people too bigmad to think objectively keeps them from taking too close of a look at the policies they are giving a ridealong to, and turning common male sexual frustrations into rage is probably the most reliable transmutation in the world.

[Anemone978]

Redpill guys are just losers who couldn't get laid before so now they found a way to get laid (by either becoming hot or having money) now and take it out on all women.. essentially they are just beta males..

[Anemone978]

and the internet just makes it easier for these guys to cheer each other on and suck each others dicks because deep down they know women don't actually love or want them LOL

[AmeerX]

What's a red pill blue pill? I see new terms on the internet

[Anemone978]

@AmeerX Fresh & Fit, Andrew tate are just some people promoting the redpill agenda..
Bluepill I just assume is normal guys..

[AmeerX]

What does red pill and blue pill even mean? Can someone please explain in simple terms. And sigma feels like some rude and insults

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

Red pill and blue pill are very old concepts from matrix movies I'm aware of from 2010 it exists from early 2000 something

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

They're multiple pills , red pill, black pill, blue pill and green pill 😂😂

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

The blue pill believes the world is as you see.. and the red pill believes the rich always get rich and the poor get poorer , when people get in power they try and keep their power so on... (It's not about boy n girl 😂 but there is a fraction in it)

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

The red pill has a lot of truth in it , that's a fact we can't deny but as she said it makes men toxic too as guys are using their privileges to just bang girls and not commit to them by toxic manipulation (it works) but it's toxic 😂it's like that

[Nikki1989]

Many men turn to that when they are hopeless failures with women.

[Asker]

Yes, my friend did this too. He said that women rejected him and now he hates women. I think that's very childish. Not every woman has to accept you.