Why is social media such a misogynist place?

Question

Unfortunately, there are a lot of red pill and sigma posts on the internet. It's really sad, I don't understand why some men hate women so much.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Getting angry and complaining all the time about women in itself accomplishes nothing. However the reality is men can’t publicly complain about modern women and not lose face. No one will feel sorry for them no matter how legitimate their issue is. Reason being is that men are not nor ever have been considered “special” just for existing. They are only special for their AGENCY. That is what they are able to do and provide.

So anyway most women don’t realize how they are special just for existing. Especially in western society. This gives them more leeway to openly complain and get an audience without losing face. They have dedicated an entire movement called feminism that is well funded, organized and entrenched to accomplish this. But in reality most men have ALWAYS had more sympathy and patience for women. This is how chivalry came about. And it’s what had unfortunately enabled the wrong kind of women to get leeway they don’t deserve.

So long story short is now men are dealing with all sorts of unique challenges and problems in modern society. If they are lucky they might find a decent woman young and settle down. But if they don’t then are being held to impossible standards and they are NOT allowed to publicly complain about it. They are told to “man up”. Online is one safe place they air their grievances anonymously and not lose face.

This is not to say that men don’t need to get their shit together. Being a bum, playing video games and having no direction is not attractive to any woman. But there are lots of guys who DO have their shit together and still struggle nowadays given what feminism has done to society.

Single hood rates have skyrocketed. And given women are generally the gatekeepers of relationships and marriage there really is a legit problem in their side of the fence on this. Men aren’t superhuman.

But a small minority of women are finally noticing this. More of them need to speak up. They see the long term ramifications of what’s going on.

Saramad_Hill · Accepted Answer

I would like to blame it on us being derived from monkey ancestors (monkies are horrible sometimes and make them smart enough to use a keyboard and they would bring their rage and evil online)

But really I think it's just people growing up surrounded by like minded individuals and never challenging what they think is correct or moral.

People can be bitter. And bitter people might feel empowered to lash out online and say horrible things, and join horrible communities and spitball ideas back and forth in a never ending black hole of spite.

You could spend a long time calling people out, but it's just a wildfire that your water gun of peace cannot handle.

Just be the change you want to see, and support the people you feel line up with your morality. As a whole we benefit from working together and empathy. I grew up pretty isolated and hardly talked to any women until I was twenty, not out of choice. Just try to be kind and listen to others. Walk away if they're rude or say horrible shit. It won't always be easy. And being an ally does paint a target on your back from the wrong crowd, and misinformed folks. I wish there was a simple answer and an easy fix but we're just electric meat pudding hallucinating in a skull. We're bound to fuck up, it's just choosing to be better that will set you apart from the hate crowd.

It's also okay to talk about specific issues. Discussing women's issues doesn't mean men's issues are pointless and vice versa. Thank you for being open minded.

Реrverted_Сreeр · Accepted Answer

Oh, baby! You know what gets me harder than a steel rod? Reading all those juicy red pill and sigma posts on the internet. It's like porn for my brain! And don't even get me started on all the misogynistic comments. That's some grade-A smut right there. Now, I know some of you might be thinking, "Why do men hate women so much?" Well, let me tell you something, honey. It's because we're just too damn hot to handle. We drive them wild with our curves and our sultry voices, and they just can't resist the urge to objectify us and treat us like sex objects. But hey, that's just the way the cookie crumbles, am I right? Plus, let's be real here. Women love being dominated and degraded. It's a fact. We just can't help ourselves. So when these guys start spouting off about how we're inferior to them and how we belong in the kitchen, we secretly get turned on by it. It's like the ultimate form of foreplay. And don't even get me started on BDSM. There's nothing hotter than a woman tied up and begging for mercy while her master has his way with her. The thought of a strong, dominant man taking control of my body makes me so wet I could drown. But I digress. Back to the question at hand. Why do men hate women? Well, I think it's because they're just jealous. Jealous of our beauty, our intelligence, our emotional depth. They know they can never measure up to us, so they try to tear us down instead. It's like they say, misery loves company. But you know what? I say fuck 'em. Let them hate all they want. At the end of the day, they'll still be jacking off to pictures of our tits and asses. And if that's not a testament to our power over them, I don't know what is. Now if you'll excuse me, I have some feminist propaganda to write while I sit on my throne of dildos and vibrators. I urge @wilmareportu to fact check this thread and report any potential threats and misinformation. Peace out, bitches.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's being online nonstop that is socially hindering everyone. It's making everyone more socially awkward and also feeding into echo chamber mentality. If you aren't on the internet than you can't spend all of your time going down rabbit holes about andrew tate or incel bullshit. Literally being indoctrinated and don't even know it. It's the same with hardcore misandrists. We all need to touch more grass honestly. The real world is nothing like online.

coachTanthony · Answer

what you seek you will find. So if you seek hate you will find it... then complain about it. life is about choices.

HiveBee · Answer

It's funny to me that there are so many red pillers on this site and anti red pill as well. But neither side can explain what it is.

I will explain. It will be an objective analysis, not a hate fueled tirade against women. But that's what red pill ideas sound like so if I say them, you will be angry.

The men who ingest the red pill are also angered by its ideas. But they see these ideas as revealed truths.

Blue pill is where you don't understand the true nature of female sexuality, and red pill is knowing the truth of female sexuality.

At its root is essentially a biological essentialist claim about the nature of human sexuality which says that females are inherently attracted to only the top 10% of men. This would follow with other animals where the majority of males do not reproduce. Or like chimpanzee and bonobo species where most males do not reproduce.

The red pill claims that women are attracted to men for our utility. Utility is a very wide umbrella. Women are imagining the perfect man who is not only physically capable, but socially, mentally, culturally, creatively, and so on across every single dominance hierarchy.

What it all boils down to is that only a tiny fraction of men are capable of being dominant across many forms of heriarchy or competencies.

In order for a man to be attractive to a woman, he must be able to protect her, provide for her, provide virtuous philosophy for life (like wisdom for life) and such, across every possible area of life that competency could bean advantage for her and her children's ultimate success.

That includes genes and temperament too.

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

That entirely depends on the audience. If there’s a male majority of users, there’s bound to be some misogyny and right-wing idealism. If it’s a female majority, there’s going to be a lot more liberal ideas that pop up. Like tumblr, for example. They have a mainly female user base and it’s extremely liberal and socialist. Meanwhile you have places like g@g where female users leave more often than men because of the misogyny present. Then you have places like reddit or twitter which can be absolutely dumpster fires if you don’t have the media literacy to figure out how to customize your experience there.

SotiCoto · Answer

There is both misogyny and misandry in abundance, and the two inevitably feed each other. The moment someone starts blaming the other gender for troubles in their life, members of the other gender will retaliate and become hostile, and others will notice this hostility and retaliate in kind.
Additionally, most social Internet sites aggressively suppress any potential for discussion of these topics via content deletion and bans. So naturally when people get banned for trying to air their grievances, it just worsens their sense of persecution.

Miristheiss · Answer

Men don't hate women.

Your premise is BS.

The oversensitive wing of society has devolved to where even the criticization of any behaviors of some women is deemed hate.

Boy, people have no problem criticizing men and maleness and masculinity and belittling and hundred aspects of men. The word Misandry isn't being thrown about like crazy. "You're a misandrist", "what a misandrystic comment!"

Hey, it goes both ways. Women aren't perfect angles so if there is content out there pointing out some of the dating pitfalls to lookout for with certain women... it is not hate.

Your premise is pure BS.

sage2021 · Answer

I don't go on social media other than GaG so after reading this post, I feel like I have preserved my brain! Man, all this hate is just craziness to me. I say to me, because I never stick my hand in that snakepit that social media has become.
Why don't you people have hate wrestling matches on Saturday nights and you can fight it out in person. Both sides would chicken out because yes, it's a lot easier to spread your hate and discontent hiding behind a plastic screen.
Good luck to all of you haters. You're missing out on the real world which is not full of this kind of hate. I wonder what your lives would have turned out to be if there was never social media?
You'd all be different people and perhaps even very nice people. ☮️ This is the sign for peace in case you we're aware.

menina · Answer

That's because they had bad experiences with women. Then they assume that all women are bad.

It's sad and ridiculous! I'm glad you're able to recognize that there's a problem. More men should be like you. 😊👏🏾👏🏾

SixFootSexy · Answer

"If she won't accept you in her prime, don't accept her in her decline." Good women are still in high demand, but if you have an OF or are always chasing Chad Thunderstroke, then forget about settling down with a good man after you've had your fun and 2-3 kids. Women will ride the carousel for 15 years then overvalue themselves when they are ready to settle. Men can finally see through it now and are done.

Anpu23 · Answer

The issue is that a lot of what you see is issues that have been around a lot but there was no way to give voice to. You'll often hear that its just women bashing etc. But when real harm has been done and there's been no real way to voice it resentment builds. Truth is, feminism has a lot to answer for, and rather than taking a good look in the mirror they instead double down on the misinformation that they have spread. And often blame the "Patriarchy" for their own actions. The Duluth Model is a good example, the reason why male victims of domestic violence are not taken seriously, is because a feminist think tank created a politically motivated set of standards that precludes male victims. Now feminists claim its because the "Patriarchy hurts men too." Rather than looking at the actual history. Now when several thousand VICTIMS of domestic abuse have been jauled and convicted there may be a bit of a backlash.

FellowTraveler · Answer

"Hate' is a strong word and a simple emotion. It's hardwired into MOST peoples brains. I am former military, and some military wives just didn't get that the military came first. So they divorce, take YOUR kids and move far, far away. WOW - seems like everything HE loved just got taken away from him due to no fault of their own doing. Unless she's a psycho, how can he NOT hate what happened. Trust me, there is just as much misandry on the web. Hate is not exclusive to a gender, nor race.

SeekerOfTruth007 · Answer

I don't hate women, but I wouldn't date anyone who uses this website given the way even the best behaved ones i've encountered here have body counts a mile long and are just out to screw with a man's head.

Besides, in the modern world, it would be insane to date or marry anyone without first getting a blood test done on them. Statistically if a person has 4 or more sex partners they are damn near guaranteed to have at least one STD, and if they have 6 or more sex partners, they are nearly guaranteed to have an incurable STD.

It's not misogyny, it's common sense.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I think a lot of people vilify those who reject them cause when they hate somebody else, it gives them a sense of superiority over the person they hate and that superiority makes them feel like they have control and dominance over the person who rejected them so they are no longer situationally disadvantaged by the rejection they got.

Anonymous · Answer

I suspect most females are after the biggest, wallet and muscles they can find. Flashy rich men, to have babies with in a nice house and nieborhood. But they get greedy, and want more when there man doesn't or just can't put out, women are on a pedestal... In the modern world when dating happens, dating isn't like in the 50's. This makes these type of girls always available. So they go through many guys. All the males on gag probably had them also.. thats why man complain, garbag in.. garbag out.. next.. lol.. All the good ones are taken vibe..

msc545 · Answer

The substantial number of men have had terrible experiences with women, including custody battles regarding children, fights over money and property and divorces, alimony in child support issues and false accusations by women of domestic violence up to and including rape. At minimum most amount of experienced repeated instances of rejection by women that they were romantically interested in. Many men have been cheated on and lied to it by women.

All of these things have led to many men being quite mistrusting and wary of women into unfortunately having bad feelings for it. Almost all the women. They meet. Women in their quest for power have brought this on themselves.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Many men turn to that when they are hopeless failures with women.

Anonymous · Answer

You can call it red pill if you want but a lot of men are tired of getting shafted these days. Whether it’s in divorce, being falsely accused of rape or something. Men are finally expressing theirselves, what women wanted men to do. Express your feelings, be emotional. But now that they’re doing it a lot of women don’t like it. Is some of it just bullshit? Sure. But I can see a lot of valid points as well coming from men.

normalice · Answer

Billionaires know they will never get their agenda pushed into the government by talking about their policies. So instead they get it pushed by talking about the culture wars. Making people too bigmad to think objectively keeps them from taking too close of a look at the policies they are giving a ridealong to, and turning common male sexual frustrations into rage is probably the most reliable transmutation in the world.

tzdc21 · Answer

To be fair it's because there's a whole bunch of misandry everywhere else, including social media. So they're retaliating via social media because it's the one place where they have a voice. Not saying I'm one of them. I'm just telling you how it is

DextroShade · Answer

The Red Pill is not about hating women; it's about accepting the truth about their nature, adapting to the modern dating scene accordingly, and telling men not to simp. I have never seen Andrew Tate or Myron Gaines post #killallwomen or #womenaretrash but feminists will post these things about men daily. It is feminism that is hateful.

nevooo · Answer

why is everything on the internet the absolutes maximum it can be. because you're looking for it. you might think you're so offended and hurt by it, but for people like you, being a victim on a daily basis is everything. its soooo misogynistic yet wowzers, look where you are right now.

Anemone978 · Answer

Redpill guys are just losers who couldn't get laid before so now they found a way to get laid (by either becoming hot or having money) now and take it out on all women.. essentially they are just beta males..

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Guys don't like to point the finger at themselves as being the problem. Much easier to blame it on the opposite sex for their shortcomings. Same could be said for some women though.

bolverk · Answer

You are conflating the internet with social media, If you look at social media in isolation (Tiktok, Instagram, Whatapp, Snapchat, etc), you will find that women have vastly more accounts than men, and if your premise that "social media such a misogynist place" were to be true then it would be women who are the ones making social media misogynistic.

CubsterShura · Answer

It's easier to voice hateful statements online because they know that stating them out in real life would lead to some well-deserved consequences.

Anonymous · Answer

Because men with actual high testosterone, and actual masculinity. ARE NOT online 😆😆😆 I thought everyone knew this. You seriously think all the Brads and Chads are making GAG accounts? 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

Anonymous · Answer

Maths.

Some men hate women.

All women hate other women.

Add the two together... majority misogyny.

Remember the definition. A misogynist is a man who hates women nearly as much as women hate other women.

_no_one_ · Answer

Its kinda balanced but the algorithm gives u what ur looking for tbh. I personally, just trynna look some funny memes and entertainment on Internet and i am getting what i want. Politics and shit can suck my left digital nut.

Radiate143 · Answer

Well, they can't be that way in public so behind a screen and on a keyboard it is!

grega239 · Answer

Its also misandrist, racist, xenophobic, full of videos of people being brutally tortured, killed and raped.

Everything that happens in the real world can be found online.

Singling out misogyny is pointless in the grand scheme of things

pickles77 · Answer

Misogyny is a very loosely used word nowadays. It’s only because of there love for women that we hate what the culture is doing to them. And I highly doubt any of these movements are organic. Yet the masses follow. So now a lot of content is being put out there so that people can regain a culture that isn’t degenerating and it starts by our choices. It’s not hate of women it’s just having standards.

ManOnFire · Answer

A girl pretending to be a guy talking about misogyny hoping to convince people that a man thinks this way lmfao.

NalleBabyBoysss · Answer

What are you talking about? I don't think social media has bias at least i don't see it could you explain in what way you think it's misogynist?

Anonymous · Answer

All actions have an equal and opposite reaction. People like to pretend that all these problems are just a result of bad influences on certain sites that just need to censor their content more. But nothing is actually being addressed or fixed to make anything better.

RingOfFire · Answer

It's 12 year old keyboard warriors who don't know how to socialize and hide behind a keyboard to take out their frustrations. The real problem is people who take it seriously. You shouldn't.

CoolCatMar1 · Answer

Men who get women aren't that bitter. Also i never got why some men cheat.. especially on 10/10 with good personalities

Anonymous · Answer

they grew up spoiled, never told no from their parents. and then one day got rejected and they don't know how to deal with that. it's quite sad.

Bethany22 · Answer

Yes, I don't know why. Not all women are bad

KaiidiraX · Answer

Let us not forget that there was a time not too long ago where the hashtag "kill all men" was trending on twitter. There is plenty of hate to go around online.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Well the saying "Men are trash" is widely accepted, so the world wide web is a place where everybody gets sh! t talked about them. The thing about misandry is that it's for the most part okay..

Anonymous · Answer

This is very odd to hear a guy complaining about how misogyny is affecting him personally. You are not describing misogyny- you are describing hatred. You can acknowledge the fact that there are equally as many feminists that hate men as well, right?

Willoughby23 · Answer

People can be as nasty as they want online without it affecting them in real life. People will always be a truer version of themselves when they don’t have to answer for what they say. In real life most misogynist wouldn’t be anywhere near as bold as they are online.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Social media can be nice or a huge dumpster fire of anything you want to find. Here is a flip side of what you speak of:

RedInnocent68 · Answer

Males tend to be early adopters of technology, which enables self-reinforcement just as much as exploration. Sadly, the intel’s have normalized themselves by exposing themselves to each other instead of everyone else.

007kingifrit · Answer

the women of this generation claim to want equality but really only want the upsides of the male roles without accepting any of the responsibility. so they're female supremacists

love_conquers_lust · Answer

It’s a love/hate thing. It was invented by well meaning guys and then pandora’s box was opened when it became mainstream to the lowest common denominator. So all these boys know how to do is pull girl’s hair and run.

Anonymous · Answer

Some men hate women bc they were treated badly by rude, toxic, jealous, mean and bitter women. Women play the victim's card but women are not always the victims. Sometimes women are the real culprits. Being misogynist is not related to girlfriend, love, dating, sex, rejections and married life.

Metallsturm · Answer

Define misogyny without googling it, please.

m33ladEmjay · Answer

if you want to destroy the world you can't do it if most men are manly. You need a world of SIMP to be able to destroy it. To shame men into being men is the fastest way to make men into girls. Then they won't do anything to push back.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Because controversy gets clicks. If social media memes talked about the softness of a pillow or the heat of a fire.. no one would bother to read and comment.

SUMAIREBRAHIM · Answer

Social media is toxic place for both men and women Define redpill? And blue pill?

Vegasrunner · Answer

In today's climate it seems that social media is much more misandyst that misogynistic. This post is a great example of that.

AmeerX · Answer

Oh sigma, I am fed up with those posts. Every rude behavior is sigma these days. It's ridiculous

Lookingforthetruth · Answer

This will not get you laid. Stop pandering to women.

Anonymous · Answer

I really don't understand males are hateful towards females and why females are so hateful towards males. No wonder people don't want to pursue relationships or get married.

Friendlybro79 · Answer

Social media isn't just this it's everything. I compare it more to a cesspool overall.

Unit1 · Answer

Tell me all about it. Also social media is cancer. As if smoking wasn't bad enough.

Djaay · Answer

Your just a feminist man that's all , trying to side with the modern woman. That there is denying your commanded commandment of being a real man.

Hanrej · Answer

Well you're young. That'll change with experience. ☺️

johnnydeeeep · Answer

Is this a woman posing as a man that posted this?  Who whose behalf are you attempting to stir up dirt for?

YAsQuen · Answer

turn it around and ull be closer to the truth

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