What do you think about the gender wars on social media?

[Flora_is_here]

These days gender wars are on trend seriously mens say's we're better , women say's we're better... Basically womens are saying we don't need men and men's saying men's contribute most to the society and women dont... They are mocking each other and this have gone too far. Mens are disrespecting Feminist and saying that they are trying to ruin society and destroying men , when they dont even know the meaning of feminism...

In my opinion Gender wars are the most stupid thing on social media and it needs to stop.

[HawkPerception]

I don't believe that men are better than women and I don't think that women are better than men, however there are biological differences we have that need to be accepted. We need to stop competing with each other and learn to work together.

However, the gender war is justified. MANY women (not all) nowadays are entitled, spoiled, egotistical, illogical, materialistic, feminazis that have zero accountability.

Feminism BACK WHEN IT BEGAN started as a good thing with good intentions. Now women have equal rights and equal pay. You could even argue that in the west, women have MORE rights than men and their word has more power in court.

Modern feminists/feminazis are no longer fighting for equality. It makes no sense that women have equal pay, but still expect a man to approach them, pay the bill on a date, be chivalrous, buy them flowers, plan dates... even in relationships where the man is making all the money, some women even expect him to come home and help out with the cooking and cleaning.

This is not equality... far from it. That is what men are saying nowadays and we're not being heard. Women are using the term "feminism" to take advantage of more than what they should.

And to top it off, they're saying they're strong independent women that don't need men. And even though they say they want men to approach them, they reject the majority of men that try to and sometimes even very rudely.

Hoeflation is real

[Flora_is_here]

I can understand but not all womens are same , they are using feminism in wrong way , feminism is all about having equal rights 😊

[HawkPerception]

I did emphasize "MANY (not all)" in my opinion

[Flora_is_here]

Okay

[Amur8711]

That is the literal goal of modern feminist. Now the original meaning and purpose of the feminism was completely okay. But today you literal now have feminist that are so delusional that they are ruining women's lives by pushing for men to be women and then also are extremely toxic saying they don't need men but completely ignore who builds everything and does the dangerous and dirty jobs and keeps their vehicle ruining because they don't have a single clue on the subject.

[Anonymous]

the incels living in their mom's basement started this toxicity. I hope the government does something about this and gets rid of them

[Flora_is_here]

Definetly, they're still cring over here haha 😂

[Opinion Owner]

it's unlikely the government will do something about incels when misogynistic men are in charge

[Anonymous]

doesn't matter what the definition of feminism is when feminists don't practice what they preach

the gender wars are stupid because feminism like all liberalism eventually loses and eats itself up like the rest of the far left. feminism only stays relevant due to an appeal to physical enforcement from which men have complete monopoly over

if every man in the world suddenly decided to end feminism once and for all, feminism will end and there's nothing that can be done about it

[Flora_is_here]

You know feminism is not only for women but for men too

[Opinion Owner]

name one thing feminists have done for men since the suffragettes of the early 1900s

[Flora_is_here]

Males cannot love themselves in patriarchal culture if their very self-definition relies on submission to patriarchal rules. When men embrace feminist thinking and practice, which emphasizes the value of mutual growth and self-actualization in all relationships, their emotional well-being will be enhanced.

[Opinion Owner]

so, what exactly have feminists done to help men? change the divorce laws? build homeless shelters for homeless men? stop male infant genital mutilation?

[Flora_is_here]

So you seriously want patriarchy to come back where men have to work and earn for his whole family and have to act strong all the time , who can't even express his emotions with other.

[Opinion Owner]

you're not naming one thing feminists have done for men

I've asked this question plenty of times to so many users here and they can't give an answer either, not even the old male feminists here with their historical experience can name anything feminists have done for men

wanna know why? because feminism has done nothing for men at all throughout history and if I wanted to be brutally honest, feminism hasn't done anything positive for women either. sure you can point out the MeToo movement, fat acceptance movement and free the nipple movement if you truly believe these are all positive for women

it was the advancement of new technology invented by men and the concept of meritocracy that allowed women to thrive. it was men who invented washing machines, stoves and vacuum cleaners to replace hand washing, fires and brooms. it was men who invented birth control and abortion which is being abused for selfish reasons. it was men who invented social media and dating apps to give women access to men they'd never have had access to in the past

even outside of that, men maintain the entire physical and digital infrastructure of the world and they have total monopoly over resource supplies and enforcement arms

if you want to get rid of the "patriarchy" then you'd have to get rid of all that I just mentioned. you want men to be able to express their emotions? well done for allowing the gender war to continue because this is what men expressing their emotions will get you

[Anonymous]

"Men are disrespecting Feminist and saying that they are trying to ruin society and destroying men , when they don't even know the meaning of feminism."

This ^ is the lie that is the root cause of the gender war. Feminism started the gender war, and until we hold feminism accountable, the war will not end. You can't recognize the good side of feminism without also recognizing the bad side.

[Flora_is_here]

I agree that feminism is potraited in the wrong way by some women and men but trust me feminism is for both males and females...

[Opinion Owner]

What you are doing here is precisely the problem. You are trying to relieve feminism of it's responsibility and instead blame "fake feminists" for the problem. And that's why the problem never gets addressed and only continues to get worse.

Here's the truth. Feminism IS the problem, and until feminism decides to actually take it seriously and address the problem in its ranks, feminism itself is 100% to blame.

Feminism is as feminism does, and what feminism has been doing to men, boys and gender relations in recent decades is unforgiveable.

Feminism is a toxic influence in western society. Own your shit and do something about it or you are just as guilty as any of the "women portraying feminism in the wrong way".

[Opinion Owner]

"... but trust me feminism is for both males and females." <-- This is typical disingenuous feminist bullshit. Get some honesty.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I'm tired of running into it, it sucks cause these are the people that are preventing us as a whole from making great progressions in society, all cause they are ignorant to accept that we both need each other to thrive.

[Flora_is_here]

Yes , these people needs to stop

[ChicoFromThe305]

Indeed, maybe if I tell them flora said to stop they will stop lol

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Social media is a totally different world from the actual one we live in.

I don't pay much attention to social media BS like gender wars with people who just dedicated their time on nonsense.

[Flora_is_here]

Yeah , but i've seen many women and men hating on eachother in real.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I guess its you and the people you hang around.

[Flora_is_here]

May be , I don't know?

[DryGermanGuy]

I haven’t really noticed that but I stay away from fringe and extremist parts of the net.

[Flora_is_here]

Haha 😄 good for becuse every thing is mess over there...

[BetaBucks]

They're tedious, dishonest and pathetic. But sometimes I have to chime in when too big of a lie is being accepted. That's it.

[RebelinSteel]

It’s a load of bollox, it exists on social media and that’s about, among normal people it does not happen. Invariably on here is Anons that come out with this bollox.

[TonyMetal___86]

How about you stop your feminazis wild boars before telling men to stop defending themselves!

[Flora_is_here]

Not all men and women have problem from each other , there are some mens and womens who are hating on each other and influencing kids to be like them which is wrong and i'm not saying that all men and women are same. We need to understand we are not made to fight each other but to live together , as we all know we can't live without eachother as you can see your mother, is a female but did you hate her , no you dont so its simple why we are hating on each other it dosent make sense right.

[TonyMetal___86]

Smart lady miss flora, i don't hate real women, i hate the feminists!
I agree with everything that tou have said, that's the right thing to but as you said, some guys and and some girls just want revenge from each other and growing hate in their surroundings, the truth is that men and women were created by god to complete each other, that's what i believe in!

[OtterMan68]

it's overblown. Just a few loud mouths. Most people don't care

[Flora_is_here]

You're right...

[gorydetails]

Any woman who says they don't need men is an idiot.

[Flora_is_here]

Same goes for men... haha 😄

[gorydetails]

indeed.

[dean53AU]

I don't even bother answering any of them, I just ignore them.

[Flora_is_here]

Same

[dean53AU]

Good.
Don't give them the attention they seek 😉

[Flora_is_here]

Yep...😊

[dean53AU]

😉😊

[ab2shifty]

Man ion even rlly be caring about it no more, I just be spectating it and watching people argue 😂

[Flora_is_here]

Haha 😄 great

[NathanDavis]

neither are part of my life

don't use socials... not at war with people

[ProbablyClueless]

It's really sad, but I totally understand why things have gotten to the point that they have.

[shortster]

Too much time on their hands

[Flora_is_here]

Right

[handsomelad70]

Dumb, as are gender wars EVERYWHERE !!!