Girls, what is the #1 thing you look for in a guy?

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DianaWest · Accepted Answer

the number 1 thing is how he treats me. does he respect me? is he kind, loyal, does he uplift me and support me? is he fun to be with, or does he have the personality of cardboard? so he has to be kind first and foremost, intelligent to a degree, and fun. i have fallen in love with many average looking men (6/7 out of 10) that had golden personalities. i don't want to judge and say all good looking men are pompous assholes who cheat, lie and break your heart, but after having a few such experiences, you get kind of tired of hot men and say, "hey, he is a decent looking guy. not as hot as goldilocks with the six pack but his personality outshines goldilocks' looks." and guys say women only like bad guys. no, that's only because you look at women with fake lips, fake lashes, and fake boobs. try to look for a woman that is more natural and less fake and done up. i dress really stylishly, but do not like to wear 100 lbs of makeup with crazy bold colours or skimpy outfits that show my ass.

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

Since my fiance is addicted to porn and dating sites, I would have to make sure he is into just me and no fricken porn or dating sites. It makes me literally sick to my stomach that he does this - and he will never stop. I know he meets these sluts at motels in person, but he denies it.

Nicolette98 · Answer

He absolutely must have a good sense of humour. If a guy has no sense of humour it is not going to work between us. Hesitance and nervousness is fine, it’s expected if your seeing someone for the first time, but we need to be able to have a laugh together if any sort of relationship is going to work!

SandandWaves · Answer

I personally think there is more than 1 that stands out in a man the most. How he treats other besides me, is really important, it shows me.. what I need to know.

Anonymous · Answer

Physically: hair 😂
Non physical: Loyal, honest, kind, caring, respectful. I guess that’s fit in the personality category but that’s honestly also the bare minimum.

Overall I’d say the #1 thing is whether or not they’re decent human beings.

JustMeh1234 · Answer

Looks like someone here is disliking all the comments with qualities he lack of ha ha ha

Anonymous · Answer

A good heart. I care very much about how people act and treat other people, even when no one is watching. We can't all be the smartest, or the most attractive, or the most talented, but we can all be kind.

Starrisunset · Answer

A great personality. Someone who is fun and easy to get along with.

Somegirl408 · Answer

nice arms and hands. when i say that i mean big manly hands. not small weezly girly fingers

JennBITx · Answer

Hygiene and then common sense next. So hard to find both

Anonymous · Answer

Stability but no matter what us girls say men are convinced we want money LOL

sanyaranjan · Answer

A personality who would say "I got a hot personality rather than saying I am hot"

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Appreciation is important to me

45Fstraight · Answer

Kindness and intelligence.

loves2learn · Answer

Good personality. Friendly.

On_cloud_wine · Answer

High amounts of Testosterone

ceciliamrs222 · Answer

confidence and personality can’t decide

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

I want him to like and accept my weirdness.

CatWithAMellonBrain · Answer

If they're a decent stable human

Shanaya_S · Answer

Intelligence and honesty

SheerKiss3 · Answer

Honesty!

cat1313 · Answer

how big it is lol lol lol lol

ifDaddyHadaPrincess · Answer

INTEGRITY.

vincentbella26 · Answer

Personality first then attractiveness

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

Confidence

lefleurlotus · Answer

when he’s toxic and doesn’t want me :/

Anonymous · Answer

Humor Intelligence cute smile

MiriamDoremi · Answer

Honesty

Purplezombie29 · Answer

Sense of humor

Vivian7k · Answer

Trust

JosyJosy · Answer

Mutual Interest

Dazedx0 · Answer

comedy

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