Is it in my head?

[Anonymous]

So my wife and I have been married for almost 2 years and I'm noticing some things that are making me uncomfortable due to my past relationships.
My wife never post pictures of us on social media or anything about me like she use to not to long ago but always posting pictures of herself and in the pictures she is always hiding her ring also she started to wear no underwear to work and when asked about it she claims she can't with that type of dress but she's had thses dress for some time now and she is starting to wear thongs to work.
not even a year ago I had to beg her to wear some for me but she said she hates them now she is wearing them to work and when she gets home she changes out of them. I really belive in my heart she is faithful still but the voices from my past are throwing red flags and I don't know what to think am I over reacting or under reacting?

[asskNEthing]

Yea it's not in your head but good news! Its not too late. she's lost attraction for whatever reason. Maybe you quit dating your wife. Maybe you fell off center from being an alpha. Maybe the masculine and female polarity is out of whack. Maybe she's testing you bc women NEVER quit testing men. Marriage doesn't mean you have her locked down dude and I don't care if you're in your 20s 30s 40s or 50s. Its a scientific fact women are attracted to men whose feelings are unclear. They need the chase. The excitement. The danger. Be like James Bond dude. You need to take control of the relationship (doesn't mean be a narcissistic dickhead).. don't ask her shit. Tell her hey, we're gonna go do blah blah blah at 730. Make it fun. Love is fun and not to be serious but playful. Women don't love us like we love them.. They love how we make them FEEL.. the best way to get attention from them is by removing yours. No phone calls. No text messages unless they're important. Love them in such a way they feel free. LISTEN to them. Don't give your opinion unless it's asked for. They just want to be listened to. Theyre emotional beings and we tend to talk them logically like "you're feeling like this bc xxxxxxx" or "I tried saying xxxxxxx" look up on YT Coach Cory Wayne 3% Man or buy his book or get the PDF. I swear it'll change your life for the better. I hope this helps dude and I promise, if you apply the fundamentals, she'll regain the attraction.

[CindersFire]

Dude you already something fucked up is going on. For that you have my sympathy, but this issues isn't going to go away and has to be addressed even if addressing it is likely going to extremely damage your relationship if not destroy it. You know she's only doing this because either she's already cheating or 'teasing' someone at work which isn't a whole lot better. You're better to start acting now see if you can get some proof while she's in the affair for, and I would suggest visiting r/survivinginfidelity on reddit for potential steps you should take.

[Apple1996]

That sounds sketchy of her to do. I'd definitely be doing some spying on her to see if she's fucking someone at work

[Browneye57]

Yeah, she's fucking the janitor. LOL

For reals? Your wife doesn't wear panties to work? And that doesn't raise a question in your mind?

There is only ONE reason a woman doesn't wear panties - EASY FUCKING. Her boss licks her clit. You'll see.

[Avicenna]

Sounds like you have some underlying issue in the relationship, like poor communication

[exitseven]

I would follow her and see where she goes during the day. I think you are on to something.

[wittymilf]

How old is your wife?

[Asker]

28 years old

[wittymilf]

Do you have children?

[Sketti2021]

Talk to her again