Hi I was talking to a friend online and now I love Uma Thurman to bits I adore her she's an amazing women so beautiful and her life story is great and interesting I love her movies but he said to me well I hope you never get to meet her she's not the Uma Thurman you think she is and idolise he's never gave me a answer to what it was and I really wanna know what it is he thinks I won't like about her or what it is that's different about her and what is it he's trying to say it's running circles in my head to I know what it is and I can't find it do any of you put there have any idea or know what it could be or mean I can't find a answer?
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So I've always loved her for years but I wanna know what it is he's on about it's running through my dome
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u r free to like whoever u want
she is free to dislike whoever she wants
enjoy what u like n never mind negativity
Thank you I do like uma
No in fact a love her
Who cares? It’s like you’ve created a parasocial relationship with Uma.
I asked what you think it could be not stuff about me
Well it is about you, because you’re taking it so personally that he isn’t a fan of Uma as if she’s your relative or something.
why do U sound so offensive I only wanted to know that's all because I'm a fan stop sounding so nippy about something I wanted to know that's what the site is about to ask things get opinions or give opinions and help others and I'm not taking it personal I just wanna know your taking what I'm saying to personal more like
And obv it looks like your not a big fan of her anyway cause if your a big fan you want to know everything just like hundreds of certain people out there that idolise diffrent movie stars not just me and again I asked you what you thought it was not about me your just being to nippy for one simple question I only wanted a simple opinion on
See, you’re taking it too personally.
Totally fine to be a big fan of someone, but if you’re that hard a fan to this extent then it’s parasocial. That’s not being nippy it’s a fact.
The reason am like this is because I asked you one think and you just judge me to be what you said when am not
There's nothing wrong with being to much of a hard fan anyway to be honest
Let me say this ok even if it was a parasocial relashionship there's no harm in it for one and two I don't let it take over my life way to much to the extent that a don't know what the real world is or day dream everyday of my life it mite be deep but I can assure you I most deffinetly do not let it control me or my own life i know how to live i dont day dream my life away so its nothing bad if i did wanna know its not a bad thing so cool
If you were going to be this defensive over Uma Thurman then maybe this was too touchy of a topic to invite people to comment on. Quite literally all I’m saying is that it’s not cool to be feeling this way towards your friend just because he isn’t a fan of Uma, or has an opinion about her. By definition a parasocial relationship is one-sided, where one person extends emotional energy, interests and time while the other party has no idea they exist. You can’t say that isn’t what this is. I would dial it back and just brush off what your friend has to say because it’s not that deep. My answer is related to the situation completely.
So as long as I know how to control this everything's cushty it's all good I know what to do and not to I'm in deep but I know how to live my own life so my own stuff do ther stuff she's not in ma nut every single day of my life I don't persist to be away with the clouds and not seeing the real world every single day of my life that's no good I know when to go In and come out the world like when i watch her movies thats my wee moments to enjoy my favourite actress then when the movies are done I watch something else go to my sister's buy some clothes or shopping nights out my singing class I do my own stuff to not just float away its not bad thing really as long as you know lifes not a game and know when to go in a dream and when to come out to be in the real world and cantvstay in a dream world your whole life its all good
Nono see uve picked me up wrong I said my friend said it but he is a fan to but the reason he said it to me it was someone online that said to him and he was just saying I don't mean it a offensive way we are good pals a wouldn't let that break us apart no way
I know what it means and when I mean in deep I mean how much I like Uma but no a wouldn't let something I didn't know about a movie start do that to us no way that's to far we are fine we are good pals from we where young
So why not just ask him what he meant by that so you can have a conversation about it if you’re both fans? I never said Uma Thurman rules your life and you’re obsessive or something like that, I just said it’s a parasocial relationship based off how passionately you not only speak about her but defend her. Doesn’t mean anything is wrong with you, just stating a fact.
Okay I understand it's just some other people take it a wrong way so cool I understand you It was a guy on a group thing online that said it to my friend and he told me but we didn't fall out over it it's all good
Well it must be a parasocial relashionship I do defend her and speak of her passionately but when I defend her It really all depends how evil they are towards her first for me to be angry if it's something silly I just give a simple opinion if they are evil towards her I will defend her I would be either a great bodyguard for her or lover I do understand what you mean but even though it could be this I can guarantee you doll I don't let the feeling take over my life so thanks for getting it sorry again
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