Girls, My crush stopped messaging me. Can you please help me understand why?

[Ryan__]

I have a crush on this girl who I worked with for more than a year (We don't work together anymore). We have been texting for a while and she did not reply to my last messages.

I just wanna find out whether I did a mistake in my last set of messages and/or get an idea of her intentions and what I should do. I feel like I waited enough for her to get back but not sure what to do now. Just wanna make sure that I won't be making it worse.

Please let me know if any of you are willing to help me by looking at the last conversation I had with her (I will share).

Thanks!

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[strawberreez123]

Maybe she's really busy. Ask her if she's doing okay or something, tell her you're worried about her, that usually makes me reply to people fast. I don't really know why she stopped messaging you, but maybe look back at your older messages and see if you said anything hurtful by accident or you could show it to a friend. Good luck.

[Ryan__]

I looked at my previous messages and couldn't really figure out if I told anything negative. Would you be able to have a look at the conversation (I will share) and tell me your opinion? Thanks

[strawberreez123]

Okay, I could look.

[strawberreez123]

Can you write what you said in quotes?

[Ryan__]

😬 It's more than a few messages and also privacy would be a concern if I put them here

[strawberreez123]

okay.

[Ryan__]

Do you mind sending me a message so I can share the text messages with you? (I'm not able to message since I'm new here), Thanks!

[strawberreez123]

I can't send messages either because my xper isn't enough. I just logged on today.

[friendlypixie]

If you want a second view, I'd be happy to look over the texts. I can't really comment without knowing more about the situation, but being alone after relying on her for emotional support must be dreadful now that she's gone. I can't stomach being away for a single day, let alone a week, if I really admire someone. Could she have just lost your phone number?

[Ryan__]

Could you please drop me a private message so I can share with you the last conversation happened? (I can't send messages as I'm new)

[friendlypixie]

I'm also new so I can't send a message. I'm not familiar with the site yet sorry..!

[Tiptoetamm]

It might be as simple as she is busy lately, maybe she is going through some personal issues. She also could just want space so dont think the worst always

[Ryan__]

Would it be possible for you to have a look at the last conversation that happened and tell your opinion?

[Tiptoetamm]

The girl below yea I'll look hon

[Tiptoetamm]

Or you can pm me whatever I'm not sure what your looking for the other girls comment is similar to mine so

[Ryan__]

Do you mind sending me a message so I can share the text messages with you? (I'm not able to message since I'm new here), Thanks!

[PrettyPriya]

How long ago was the message? Is it possible she got busy with something?

[Ryan__]

Could be, it has been almost a week

[Ryan__]

Is it possible to PM you on this?

[PrettyPriya]

@Ryan__

A week is a long time. There is a reasonable expectation for her to respond in that time.

Best to maybe send something like “Hey, don’t want to bother you too much, but when you have time, I would love to ________”

That last part could be anything. Have lunch. Give you a call. Etc etc.

[Ryan__]

Would you be able to have a look at the last conversation happened and tell your opinion?

[PrettyPriya]

Sure, I can try.

[Ryan__]

Can you try to message me, please? It seems I don't have the messaging feature yet

[impatient_doll]

Maybe she has someone?

[Ryan__]

As far as I know, she doesn't. And it was just a friendly casual chat that we were having. If possible, would you be able to have a look at the conversation and let me know your opinion?

[impatient_doll]

Okay no problem

[Ryan__]

Could you please message me? Because I'm not able to initiate messaging since I'm new here, thanks :)

[impatient_doll]

I can't either sorry

[Denniella]

She might be busy and didn't check her messages