Is it wrong to want what her social media gets?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend loves to post on social media. From her workouts to photos that nake her feel sexy to regular selfies. My problem is that i dont have social media and for over a year I've asked for her to at least sometimes send me a selfie or a gym photo but still she seems incapable of doing so. If she feels sexy in a photo can't she share it with me? Is it wrong to continue to be bothered by this over a year of asking? Also she has ststed many times that she will do better in this aspect but doesn't.

[NathanDavis]

just go to her social media... they're all there

[Asker]

I dont have social media and prefer not to make an account just to be able to see my partner.

[NathanDavis]

don't you have your ACTUAL REAL partner? physically present right in front of you?

[Asker]

We dont live together if thats what you mean.

[NathanDavis]

I mean... you have actually seen her, held her, kissed her, loved her... in person, right?

[Asker]

Yes i have. She had a ome night stand affair a while back but I forgave her and got back together. I asked what she needed from me to be better and she did the same. Only difference is most of what i asked she hasn't given.

[NathanDavis]

all of that... but you're concerned about a digital picture...

[Asker]

Yes because her physical affair came from social media. If she can't even send me a selfie after saying she will but she can post risque on social media (even when she will tell me she wouldn't post that day) it raises red flags. Its more than just a photo. I want a partner i can trust. If for a year your partner can barely send you photos of her self but can literally post daily that wouldn't raise a flag?

[NathanDavis]

I know we're all different but, for me... having an affair is clear sign of what red flags are and whether I can trust someone or not

[Asker]

Yea for sure but I want to believe she changed but hard to believe it with certain actions.

[Iron_Man]

That’s pretty odd for sure

[Anonymous]

You don't get to see her in real life?

[In_Trance]

that's sus