Is she playing with me?

[Anonymous]

Something has been bothering me for a while and I'm starting to get annoyed. My crush talks to me all the time - we normally chat via text every day for hours. She seems to be very interested in me, and has even confessed that she likes me, but suddenly she starts talking very little and doesn't initiate conversations anymore. When I notice this, I wait one or two days and ask her why. Then she says everything is okay, apologizes for not talking to me, and starts talking to me again every day... then suddenly stops again. This scenario has happened about three times.

Is she playing with me or something? She knows I have anxiety and end up overthinking, and whenever she does that, I get restless thinking that she has lost interest in me, or that I've bored her, but when I ask if she's OK, she just starts talking to me again.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes... your lack of interest could also be a reason for her withdrawal

[Anonymous]

If you feel like you’re being played, you probably are…

[Anonymous]

Yes, she is playing with you.