Girls, how do you feel about a man looking at your cleavage or thighs momentarily?

Question

Suppose you notice a guy momentarily looking at your exposed cleavage or thighs... nothing long stare but just like his eyes 👀 fell off those exposed parts and he then looks away/down and infact feels embarassed of himself too...

As a woman how would you feel and think about this guy?

Serenity_87 · Accepted Answer

Rarely has a man glancing at my chest ever made me feel disrespected lol. I certainly wouldn't feel as tho he actually SOUGHT OUT to disrespect me! And if somethin like this is all it takes to get some woman feeling genuinely offended then I'd argue that they might be kinda lookin for reasons get offended. Its usually kinda flattering, (unless of course its obvious the man is a creep or perv & is literally TRYING to make the woman uncomfortable). But unless he's clearly trying to cross a line in a big way then usually its un-intentional & a natural impulse for most men that they USUALLY do pretty well in controlling & holding back.. but slip-ups do happen & I think its pretty cute when they do. Especially if u can tell they're embarrassed by it lol

Princess_shruti · Accepted Answer

It’s natural it happened..

postempestas · Answer

Tbh is very uncomfortable when I am speaking to them in front of them and their eyes go shamelessly to my boobs, but I don't find it disrespectful or anything, I mean it's normal, I'd look at them too. Men love boobs and that's a fact so ofc they will look. As long as is just one look and no wording or touching involved... I'm good.

Screenwriter · Answer

If they're visible, nothing wrong with them being looked at. You're flaunting it, don't be offended.
Same as a guy running without his shirt. He's not just hot, there are moisture wicking shirts that keep you cooler than if you're naked up top. So, he's flaunting it and wants you to look.

Shygirl82 · Answer

Our bodies are meant to be attractive, no doubt I may look at him to see how attractive he was as well. Not bothered by it at all.

Mahalia827 · Answer

Honestly I usually don't notice it but I don't mind, they can look but not touch. I find it interesting when a guy even looks at me yet alone glances at a part of my body. My sister once told me that a guy worker in a Walmart was looking at my butt while I was walking. I kinda just wanted to talk to him or see how he would have reacted if I told him I noticed him looking, even though I didn't. I would feel kinda appreciative even if it's a small glance.

rosesanddaisies · Answer

Extremely uncomfortable. I don't like it when people notice me for my *parts*. When I was 13, an upperclassmen at my school called me "small-body", and when I was 11 a kid that bullied me touched my breast. Now, I just hate the idea of men wanting for my body and not for my self worth.

laurcar34 · Answer

These kinds of things kind of depend on the feel of the situation. Sure, guys are wired to notice those things, so it's fine if they do, but it's rotten if they start to use their gaze as a means to assert dominance. We're supposed to be attracted to each other, and I'm fine with it I feel like the guy is looking at me because he thinks I'm beautiful and likes looking at me. But if I feel like he's doing it as a way to demean, intimidate, and have power over me, he can fuck off.

Alyssa11 · Answer

If it’s a quick glance I wouldn’t care too much. I understand that it’s attractive and I have it out and revealed lol. It’s human nature to look.

However men who stare and intentionally make you feel uncomfortable is a whole other story. Just because I am dressed a certain way or I’m just a woman period - that doesn’t automatically mean it’s okay to harass me. It’s very scary.

ElizaPam · Answer

Guys get turned on by literally looking at any part of a girl for a half a second so I'm not going to be offended, if he's cute it might make me happy. But nah women who complain about stuff like that never had to experience actual sexual harassment and assault.

JustAGirl227 · Answer

i personally like it very much, and it kinda turns me on a bit 😅, but not everyone feels the same, some girls may not like it at all and some might be fine with it

Anonymous · Answer

That is fine.. I also sometimes accidentally look a bit too long at like a cleavage, nipples seen through clothing (both genders) or a bulge.. no harm done.. some things just catch the eye. But then controlling it after realising it is important. Staring is not ok and can make people uncomfortable.
If I was into the guy then I'd tease him about it.

QueenTaly · Answer

I like it and it's the main reason I dress the way I do 😌

KrisPW · Answer

If it's that quick look, I'm happy and enjoy the attention. If he can't control his eyes after that, or gets creepy about it, that tells me a lot too. It's the leering creepy type that are offensive.

Anonymous · Answer

I mean, I don’t like when anyone stares, but it’s hard not to stare at people lol. It personally makes me insecure, like “what are they thinking? Am I ugly? am I hot?” Lol.

I catch myself staring at other girls’ cleavage and butts too, how can I not? Some people are good looking and it catches your eye. It’s only natural, and sometimes you get embarrassed about it and that’s fine.

somesoul · Answer

I'd suddenly get them closer to him in a way his face goes inside the cleavage hehe. I may also make it look like an accident - would press my breasts on his face or even ahnds when he is talking for that matter.. hehe

mistixs · Answer

I don't think it's offensive for someone to look somewhere momentarily. It happens. It's just staring that is disrespectful because it proves a person doesn't care if they make the other person uncomfortable

PaganWarrior · Answer

As long as he's not staring and just looks, then I don't mind. Makes me feel sexy in fact since he likes what he sees xD if Its someone I know I tease them about it.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

I'm a bit of a exhibitionist, it does not bother me, unless he gets creepy about it.

Anonymous · Answer

I find it flattering, especially from someone who is not supposed to look at me.

Sarahr123 · Answer

It’s normal and I’m a tease... I’d be flattered sort of. Especially if he’s cute.

siseñor · Answer

if it's more than a millisecond the person is a weirdo

shaysh87 · Answer

i secretly smirk and giggle on the inside. but if he stares too long i will think he is a pervert

CindyRuns · Answer

Neutral... and I assure you that anything that's exposed is exposed on purpose !!!

ushagomez · Answer

I am ok about that happening. I always hope for a brief smile of apology.

bobalife · Answer

Every girl has their own take to it. Personally I don’t like it… unless he’s someone I’m interested and we been talking for a while or he’s my boyfriend.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Probably neutral unless I was single and I thought he was hot

Subarugirl · Answer

As long as they aren’t staring or being creepy/aggressive

menina · Answer

If he wasn't staring and if he was embarrassed and looked away I would be neutral.

EmmaMary · Answer

Completely neutral... Men will be Men! "Oh The Joys Of Being A Woman!" 🙂

Киттйлинк · Answer

If I think he’s attractive and single I feel somewhat admired..  if he’s married or I don’t find him attractive I feel uncomfortable

Anonymous · Answer

I personally like men looking at my tits, always have.

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