Does she have feelings for me if a girl remembers my coffee order and seems to take note of where I work?

[Anonymous]

She has only seen me on a few occasions where I have worn my work shirt. She seems to say hello and thank you to me a little differently from the rest of the customers.

[Anonymous]

I went to the same place every single Friday after work for dinner in my work shirt and ordered the same thing...did I think the employee who smiled at me, and chatted with me, and began preparing my order even before I got there or asked for it around the time I would be there had a crush on me, no. They were just akin to my habits. Being friendly is part of their job and it keeps customers coming back if they think they are special. This is not to say 100% that she isn't maybe into you, but don't assume based on the very little you have to go on.

[Account]

She is a barista. She is supposed to remember your order. She is supposed to be smiling and acting that way towards you. She is good at her job. Baristas have to be charismatic in order to draw clients.

[Asker]

For some reason she knew where I worked. All because I wore my work shirt like twice but far apart between times. The day she said ' you work at (company name) right? I wasn't wearing my work stuff that day

[Account]

I knew where every single one of my daily clients worked when I did that job. It really doesn't mean anything.

[Asker]

Trust me i literally where plain normal clothes pretty much everytime I go. She isn't even there everyday either

[DaveJord]

I'd say its not a bad sign, but don't presume too much, read too much into it or over think it.

What I mean by over think it, is that if you're attracted to her ask her out. If she says yes then you will know. If say no, then find a new coffee shop! Lol.

Kidding you can still buy coffee there... and if you continue to get a vibe from try again later... like weeks later and be charming... don't come off like stalker.

[Diodoro]

No and yes.

I've had both be the case lol. They're doing their job and over time you get a feel for memorizing orders. That said if she's attracted it's easier because she registers meeting you as an emotional event

I've had baristas find me on snapchat and follow me, or meet me out in a bar to hangout, or give me fuck eyes lol. Other girls are just being nice for a job

[crazy8000]

Possible interest for something more than just a regular customer.
Learn that a lot of female's fish for potential partners no matter if it is just for one time sex to serious relationship for life.
Some aren't aware of that they do this.
If she writes her number/message on your cup or something else that comes with it she is into you.

If you want to know just ask her.
I noticed you seams to be interested in me. if you are I would like to meet up with you outside your job and go from there.

[Anonymous]

She barely knows you, surely she has no feelings for you :D.. but maybe she finds you cute/attractive, and if you think that about her, then slip her your number and say she can text if she is interested, and if not that is also not a big deal. Or just keep the fantasy/crush and enjoy that.. you will never know for sure until someone makes a clear move, and you may wait forever for that unless you go for it.

[PrettyPriya]

If you are a frequent customer, she probably just remembers the order. I wouldn't read too much into it. There is a chance she likes you, but her job is customer service.

[Asker]

She also giggles when I ask how she is and when I have her my loyalty card to punch a hole in it

[PrettyPriya]

If she is acting flirty, good chance she has some interest. Maybe suggest grabbing lunch or something after her shift? I would keep it short and sweet as she is at work.

[Asker]

She even instantly laughed the moment I accidentally kicked something in the cafe. We then started just chatting

[PrettyPriya]

Those are all good signs. Sounds like worth asking her out to do something.

[Asker]

Why would she remember where I worked. I never told her where I work. The only way she must know is on the very odd occasion I've worn my work shirt. But I very rarely had done that and it was far between occasions

[PrettyPriya]

She would remember most likely because she is observant. Maybe she remembered so she could start a conversation with you about something.

[Asker]

Would you say it's a very specific thing to remember? She said something on the day I accidentally kicked something and laughed. I was not wearing my work shirt that day.

[PrettyPriya]

I would say that is specific, especially if you don't wear a work shirt often. My advice would be to ask her to something casual, like lunch, next time you see her.

Again, important to remember to be respectful that she is working. If she is busy or lots of people around, not a good idea. Wait for a better time when slow or she has a break.

[Asker]

I'm just worried I'll look like a creepy customer

[PrettyPriya]

Eh, if she is into you she won't think that. By all indication, she has some interest. I would take the chance if it were me.

[Subarugirl]

Being nice as someone who works in customer service doesn't mean they are flirting, it is quite literally their job to be nice to you.

[Asker]

But she remembers where I work. All because I wore my shirt on the very odd occasion

[Subarugirl]

I work in customer service. I remember lots of my patrons, what they do for work, what they drive etc. That doesn't mean that I am into them.

[CaramelShaft]

She’s interested, but are you going to make a move or wait around and fantasize about her all day with your Hallmark movie bullshit. If you like her, drop your balls, quit second guessing yourself, and approach her before she realizes that you’re more of a women than she is, gets turned off and then slobbers on some other dudes knob. Too real? Too soon?

[Anonymous]

Maybe, maybe not. When I worked in customer service, I would remember my regular customers. 99% of the time, it wasn't about me having a crush on them. But there were a couple guy customers I had crushes on over the years, so it's possible.

[Asker]

But she knew where I worked. The day she said it I was wearing plain clothes. I only wore my work shirt like once and it's plain red colour. Plus it was ages ago when I wore vs when she said it

[Opinion Owner]

I'm still a maybe. It sounds like she took notice and remembered, so those are good signs, but not necessarily 100% foolproof ones. Maybe she just has a good memory.

[Asker]

She even laughed when I accidentally kicked something in the cafe. It was an instant giggle, so I feel she was watching me

[Anonymous]

Remembering you coffee order is indeed a good sign but she saying hello and thank you in a different tone may be a subjective observation (due to inherent bias of hoping that she likes you)
Appear more often and try getting her number?

[Asker]

She randomly remembered where I work. Based off I only wore my work shirt a few times. But those occasions were far apart between each other

[shafvron]

If you go in at least once a week at a set time I’m sure she just has you clocked as a regular and has seen you so many times she just remembers facts about your life. Simple as that.

[ally018]

That does not mean she is into you. She might just be happy you are a reoccurring customer and she knows you.

[Hereforthememes]

I doubt it. A girl at the local coffee shop knows my name from my mobile order. She says hi and grabs my order when I walk in. I think she is just good at her job. I am happily married anyway.

[Asker]

She did take note of where I work as she somehow knew and I don't know her at all

[noohair]

That is old fashioned customer service and is rare today.

[In_Trance]

Smh...

[all_hayl]

Maybe you should ask her. We can’t read her mind.

[leafygreen]

She’s just good at her job…

[Wise4myage]

Slip her your number and find out.

[Anonymous]

Good at her job