There is this girl at work , we have no real interactions with one another but I have caught her looking at me then looking away as I start look?

[B1025]

I also have seen her do anything to avoid eye contact as im walking her way and today felt like i caught her almost “death stare” or something.

[SueShe]

If she avoids eye contact, that simply means that she has caught you staring at her. In order to avoid a possible conflicting situation where looks can be misunderstood, she will avoid eye contact. The "death stare" indicates that she is annoyed and that you should not attempt to initiate any contact.

The fact that she looked at you indicates that she is gauging you whether you are a possible threat to her.

The fact that you placed your question in the "Flirting" topic leads me to believe that you have some kind of views on her and that you would like perhaps to initiate something more personal but she does not seem to be too interested.

Your best option is just to ignore her and not to pay any attention to her. Things shoud settle down.

[Vikkrram]

Ma'am can i ask you something if you don't mind?

[SueShe]

@Vikkrram What would you like to know?

[Vikkrram]

Ma'am let me give u a brief about mine situation

[Vikkrram]

Ma'am can i send you Dm?

[SueShe]

@Vikkrram Sorry but I do not accept any DM.

[Vikkrram]

Ok Maam then let me tell you here

[Vikkrram]

Long story short she was the one who initiated the things wid me when i shifted to this new apartment she and i met there.. then after she was always looking at me and i was also , at starting i thought that this is normal

[Vikkrram]

But this started getting more and more and she and i were always looking at each other...

[Vikkrram]

So i thought that i might be giving her some bad hints or let's know what's her intentions so i found her on Instagram and messaged her and apologized that if I did anything bad

[Vikkrram]

Now she's behaving all different ma'am and now she's going to shift another place ma'am and i need to tell my feelings ma'am. But ma'am what should i do? How should i tell her? And what u think what should i do?

[SueShe]

@Vikkrram You simply have to talk to this person and tell her how you feel. However, be prepared to be rejected as this happens quite often. If she is moving away, the likelihood that you will ever meet is relatively small.

[Vikkrram]

I don't know ma'am why she has certainly Started behaving weird around me? I didn't have said anything bad to her have respected her but she is behaving like i have threatened her

[SueShe]

@Vikkrram Then you simply pull back and avoid all contact with her. This way, you indicate that you are not threat to her.

[Vikkrram]

Ma'am i never gave any threat to her i was respectful towards her i think she is behaving immature but one thing i forgot to tell that she replied my message and answerd well.

I think i should give a last try

[SueShe]

@Vikkrram I personally would not try to contact her again because you don't really know how she will interpret your attempt to contact her. She may perceive it as stalking and that would only make things worse.

[Vikkrram]

Ma'am if she's behaving like this ma'am i would assume that she is immature and she should know what impact it had given to me that had happened in all 3 years.

I Just said sorry and she is behaving like i am threatning her..

It really makes me sad

[Avicenna]

Maybe you should smile and say hi to her to see how she reacts

[mommymommymommy]

Even if she is flirting, she'd be "shitting where she eats"

[In_Trance]

So what is your question?

[Iron_Man]

Talk to her