Girl At Work Keeps Eyeing Me?

[Anonymous]

I recently started a new job. A couple of days in I noticed a girl walking past me who made intense eye contact. Like her entire head was turned towards me and we just kind of stared at each other for several seconds. I didn’t think anything of it, but recently it’s like every time we walk past each other I notice her looking at me. It’s usually full on eye contact but other times I notice her eyeing me out of the corner of her eye. I think she may have waved at me once too but I’m not entirely sure if it was directed towards me or not.

We’ve only had one real conversation. We were in the break room together and we were having a get to know you chat. It didn’t last long. I made a comment to her once kind of joking about what those looks were about but she shrugged it off and said she didn’t know anything about it. That same day as I was leaving, it was like she was staring into my soul as I walked out the door. I don’t know if I’m delusional or what but it’s come to the point where I’m wanting her to either stop staring or come over and confess her love, lol.

[magickite]

Okay, so my first question is: is this girl attractive? Would you have taken the time to write this question out and explain your situation if this girl wasn’t your type/unattractive?

Something tells me that you’re flattered by this girl, and you’re looking for someone to tell you that she likes you/finds you’re attractive too.

The likelihood is that she does find you attractive or that you have at least sparked her interest. Girls tend to find opportunities to look at guys when they’re not looking, but the fact that she isn’t hiding this from you tells me she’s quite forward and confident and possibly wants you to initiate or show an interest in her. If this is the case, I’d approach her again and take the time to get to know her. If you feel the spark too, ask her out for a drink or something.

I dated a co-worker of mine. We were good friends first and eventually we confessed our deeper feelings for each other. Our relationship lasted 5 years, and we only broke things off a few weeks ago. He was and still is the love of my life. So who knows.

Life is too short to be what iffing. If this is something you’re interested in, go for it.

[Asker]

Yeah, I’m attracted to her and the fact that she keeps staring only makes me more attracted to her honestly.

[Iron_Man]

Do you like this girl? If so, talk to her and invite her out on a date.

[boobliker]

do you look like you are going to actak at any point?

[Asker]

I don’t think so, lol. I do have a RBF. I do have people telling me I look mean.

[In_Trance]

Don't fuck your coworkers. It never works out the way you think it will

[strateguy632]

she attracted to you

[Asker]

Explain your reasoning.