Girls, What makes men more attractive and appealing to you?

[quietcuite]

Although women and girls are much more beautiful, charming and even sexy as compared to men and boys. Yet how come and why most women and girls find men more attractive, appealing and sexy too... and prefer/choose them for sexual and romantic relationships?
What about men and boys physical appearance?

I prefer n like women and girls since they're more beautiful and sexy...

I prefer n like men and boys... and I feel they're more sexy and attractive to me because...( Mention reason below)

[Apulu_3]

Human is Human. All look good in their own way. For me I'm attracted to a guy with good health and good personality.

[quietcuite]

Why only to boys?

[Apulu_3]

Then why girls? Well I was never attracted to any girl no matter how much beautiful she was because I can't. I can't force myself to like girls when my hormones are made to be attracted towards boys. I have more estrogen level than testosterone.

[quietcuite]

What's in boys? They're less beautiful, less charming and less sexy than women.
Then still what do you see in a boy?

[Apulu_3]

I don't know. I can't say myself to get attracted to girls because I am attracted to boys only. I can't help it.

[nice-girl]

That’s called being straight. I want to feel beautiful myself and don’t need to see the beauty in him.

[quietcuite]

So you like men since they're the uglier gender and hence they make you feel superior, more beautiful, smooth hairless and sexier compared to them?

[LovingLoverReturned]

Well I'm no scientist so I can't explain the chemical or instinctual reasons but, yes I acknowledge women are beautiful, I exactly like (some) men for their differences from me.

All of the reasons are important :
1) So this isn't gender specific but : What fun is it being around yourself? Maybe those suffering from NPD will like that, but it's much more interesting. He may have courage in certain areas where I am cowardly. You can't have two hotheads, one might be calm. etc etc

2) This is gender specific. I was younger than 17 when I realised I was obsessed with beards (don't feel bad guys without , even I have dated beardless)... it is one of the best distinguishing factors between men and women, I can;t grow a beard (don't feel bad rare number of women who grow beards, it's a disease that can be managed)
I also really like a manly voices'(moderate pitch, I don't mean super deep, but their is a different sound to it, ... everyday I listen to my own thoughts, and hear my own female voice. IT'S REFRESHING to hear a male voice.

3) bearing children.. I'm undecided about this one, I sometimes feel that I don't want children, I'm young... but I think with the right guy I'll feel all safe to have a child... and even if I think I don't want children right now, I want someone who can have children with me
While one is in a state of vulnerability (pregnancy) the other is grounded.

4) A clear conscience. It simply feels right to be with a guy.

5) more things.. it's 2:00 am now.. goodnigth.

[quietcuite]

Obsessed with beards? How come. What exactly is nice about beards... and how big?
TBH I always felt beards are one huge negative thing about being a male... one major thing that makes men uglier and less beautiful than women

[LovingLoverReturned]

Because it is masculine. frames the face, might hide a weak jaw

might hide a weak chin.
You might not understand because you like women.
Look, even cats seem to like men with beards...
Yes some beards can not look great but a lot do... moderate.. various style

goatees, should patch
full berd (trimmed)
a little length
and mustaches

[quietcuite]

As a male it's a menace and pain in the ass to own one and having to regularly shave trim it religiously.. also it easily gets grey with age.
Why would cats like beards? Lol

[LovingLoverReturned]

Maybe for the same reason we like fur. I don't know xD

[trulyanattentionhog]

I like the way they treat me and I feel more interested in something that is the opposite gender of me and also in my beliefs we were made for the opposite gender, ig it’s more exciting for me to talk to a man than a woman. I guess what I find appealing is the masculinity that women don’t have.

[quietcuite]

Although women are made more beautiful and aesthetic than men. Agree?

[trulyanattentionhog]

I think it just depends on the person because haha I don’t consider myself the most beautiful person or aesthetic either

[quietcuite]

Haha ok but in general wouldn't you say that women have more physical beauty and aesthetics than males?

[trulyanattentionhog]

I don’t know I guess

[SnakeBoop]

being straight means i like the look of men.
you really need to buy some logic for Christmas.

[quietcuite]

You mean you just can't explain why you find men more attractive and sexy too although women (in general) have much more physical beauty?

[SnakeBoop]

Of course I can. They possess a penis and are a man. this is not hard to understand

[angstyangel95]

Yes, some of them are really good looking. And it’s like we know they have a penis even if we can’t see it.

[SnakeBoop]

@angstyangel95 imagine being a human being who cannot understand basic logic like what being straight means in sexuality.

[SnakeBoop]

@EmmaMary can we remove this troll too please? XD

[Chrysanthee]

A lot of people have different sexualities. I find everyone appealing

[angstyangel95]

Because I’m a straight female. I don’t really know how else to explain it

[quietcuite]

Although women are much beautiful and sexy too they never appeal or attract or arouse you?

[angstyangel95]

No they don’t

[quietcuite]

So basically uglyniess attracts women more than beauty since they themselves possess beauty and charm?

[angstyangel95]

Men aren’t ugly. Some of them look amazing