Is it normal that I make rude comments about a woman’s appearance to see if their self esteem is low enough to groom?

[Anonymous]

Does any other man do this?

[jshm2]

That's called "negging" and you're going to get beaten up by the homies in jail, if you try that shit with the wrong age of girls.

[KatanaSlice]

That sounds really creepy and predatory. There is nothing normal about what you're saying.

[elvenonlyy]

Dude you just used the word "groom"... Do you really need an answer to that? YES

[Asker]

I like chubby women with low self esteem

[poppychu]

@Asker I'm a chubby woman with low self esteem but not low enough to allow guys to "groom" me. That's fucked up. No girls deserve that.

[slatyb]

Hell no. That is sociopathic.

[hsshannah96]

No, you piece of shit

[cindylovee97]

Not normal. Get help

[Asker]

Help with what?