Is it just me or are the vast majority of girls undateable because they only start to give you attention when you stop giving them attention?

[Intothevoid666]

95-99% of girls I talk to are extremely unresponsive when I give them attention but then when I give up and stop giving them attention they start to pay attention to me. Wtf? How can u date someone who does that and why does the vast majority of women do this. I’ve heard that only “young and immature” women do this, I don’t know if that’s actually true tbh and even if it is I’m not interested at that point. How do other guys navigate this? And girls can u explain this?

[Jintendo18]

It’s true about people in general, and age doesn’t really make a difference. Navigate it by prioritizing your attention to what’s important such as what’s going to pay the bills and things such as hobbies that you actually enjoy, and then everything else will fall into place.

[slatyb]

It’s just you. What does Instagram have to do with dating?

[Intothevoid666]

When did I mention Instagram?

[slatyb]

Sorry, I must have responded to the wrong post. My advice is to not waste time with silly young women playing childish games. Assume that “no” really means no, and move on until someone says yes.

[HollyK21]

Yeah, I’d say that is just you and unfortunately the women that you are taking interest in. Most of us aren’t interested in playing that game whatsoever and appreciate your effort.

[SkipPerk]

You are wrong. You are focusing on shallow women. Good women love being paid attention to, and paying you attention back.

start talking to different women. Your type is a bad one