Why does EVERY girl I talk to only give me attention when I stop giving them attention? should I still consider seriously dating women that do this?

[Intothevoid666]

I swear just about every girl I hit on has no interest in me until I lose interest in them with very few of any exceptions. This has to be like the most annoying thing to navigate when dating ever and I’m not sure if I should go for girls who do this even if I was previously considering them seriously. What do u guys think?

[HateyouxD]

I want to say yes cause I did that to 1 guy and seriously regret rejecting him at first only because I didn't know him too too well. Also, I've grown a whole lot since 6 years ago. Anyway I see those type of relationships toxic. I don't know like are you friends with any of these girls?

[Intothevoid666]

Not friends exactly but I’ll meet them somewhere we’ll talk briefly and I’ll make it clear that I have some sort of romantic interest in them and it goes nowhere this has happened with every single girl I’ve talked to without a single exception and I just don’t understand how I can date someone like that? How can I date someone where I can’t show too much interest towards? Like if I like them I don’t want to have to hide it. I’m talking like dozens of women in the past 6 months this has happened without a single exception. And like a lot of the time if the girl starts to show interest, when I show interest back they lose interest again. Like wtf? It’s making dating like impossible tbh.

[HateyouxD]

Maybe dont show too much interest at first. Take it slow tell them or find someone whose willing to take things slow. You obviously have a type. You're going after the same women. Maybe these women are bombshells. Maybe go after your average girl

[Intothevoid666]

I don’t think it’s my standards that is off. I’m a pretty good looking guy; in shape, dressed fashionably, 6ft tall. if anything I aim too low tbh which is why this is even more confusing. And that’s exactly what I don’t want to do, I just want to get to know them and not play a million games. I just want to get to know a bunch of women and then find one to date long term but almost every woman I talk to makes it Impossible to get to know them so how can I find a girl to date? Like I can’t even get them to be my friend.