Why does my friends with benefits treat me like a girlfriend or something?

If you already act like a couple and like it, you should just date. Being in a relationship is just a label, the way you are acting and feeling towards each other is much deeper than just FWB, you seem to really care about each other deeply. Let it play out and if you find yourself falling for him, you might want to consider making it a commitment, if you're already getting jealous of each other talking to the opposite sex, you might as well make it official and become exclusive in my opinion, it sounds like you're ready to me.
but he says he's not because he just got out of a 5 year relationship like 4 months ago. I broke up with my ex around the same time and we just kind of consoled each other and things hit off. He's not ready yet. I might but I'd have to wait for him.
Thanks Niko-r
Sounds to me like you are already in a relationship... scary hey ...
He may be telling you he wants you as a FWB as this is what you want to hear. From your description of your relationship it certainly sounds like you are already in a 'real' relationship. Stop messing with each other, be honest and go one way or another - end it, admit it is a proper relationship or literally just turn it into sex only.
Sounds to me as you are scared of rejection or waiting for someone better to come along, messing around with someones feelings is not acceptable behaviour.
I'm scared of rejection but not really waiting. But I do that anyway because I never know what fate has in store for me. Last time I did, I got hurt so I'll never know until the future arrives. But I'm scared to jump
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