Why is my friends with benefits so mean to me?

[Anonymous]

[virgin20]

Because that's all you are friends with benefits. You're not there to be his companion or anything, you're just there for sex really. Maybe it's a way so that you don't catch feelings for each other

[Asker]

He asked me to move in with him

[virgin20]

Wow. What do you make of that?

[Asker]

I dunno haha

[virgin20]

If you think there is more than friends with benefits then you could at least trial it for a week and see how that goes

[haflelife]

you're not his girlfriend, why would he even try to be YOUR definition of "nice"? at least you have them in plural, so maybe a lot of nothing could turn into something...

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[haflelife]

he/they don't love you, don't need to try and make you happy, you're just a tool, and he/they think you are ok with that

[spartan55]

Well gee probably because he has no respect for you. Duh.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Because he doesn't have to respect you to get what he wants out of you.

[GingerGuy]

Find a new one.

[JosyJosy]

Because you let him