Why does my friends with benefits treat me like every other girl is better than me?

[Anonymous]

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Why would he ask if I wanted to move in with him but treat me like trash

[JuliaStyles]

Maybe because to him you are nothing but a cum dumpster? If he shows more respect for other girls than you then you have to ask yourself why? Basically you are a prostitute that charges no money. If you are not getting anything out of it or if it bothers you then it's time to bug out.

[Asker]

I dont know why he treated me bad I live in another country and haven't hanged around all that much. But he did ask me to move in with him

[JuliaStyles]

How can you have a friends with benefits if he lives in another country? Do you travel a lot?

[dezzman98]

Because you're the friend with benefits. You're not the girlfriend or wife or anything, you're not even the side hoe. You're the friend that he can talk to about whatever hot chick he's thinking about then stick it in you when he gets horny thinking about her. Honestly if you're upset about him talking and acting that way, then you should talk to him. You might not be good at being just a friends with benefits. Which isn't a bad thing, it just takes a certain level of confidence and self esteem to be able to just fuck and not get attached emotionally to it

[Adam1978]

Because he already got you and he needs to put effort in the other women to get more suckers in line for his harem.

[Asker]

🤣🤣🤣

[Bee-Hatch]

Must be a fun relationship you've got with him. I can see why you want to have sex with someone who belittles you and makes you feel worse.

[LeoElias]

It's like that old saying, why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free. He has no respect for you because you are like his sex slave. You are at his beck and call in his eyes. Sorry he's treating you that way.

[Asker]

Should I stop being so available

[LeoElias]

It might backfire on you if you start acting that way. He'll probably end things when he notices it's getting a little harder for him to get what he wants. Do you know if he has other fwbs or any other girls he's having casual sex with?

[iseekpinetrees]

Prob sees u as trash not girlfriend worthy and views other girls as better because they aren't giving it up.

[Sweetener_]

What did you expect? Wife privilages? You sold yourself short, now you deal with the consequences.

[Robert_]

Because he only appreciates you for the sex

[Asker]

I'm smart just like those other girls I dont get why he doesn't give me a chance

[Robert_]

Because there is no way up from a friends with benefits situation. It is not a mid way to a real relationship.

[midnightmoon05]

You are not very smart if you chose to be friends with benefits.
And not understand how it works.
I would never give anyone that opportunity to lower myself.
Get out and work on your self worth then look for a man who will treat you with respect and love.

[Robert_]

I don't really like your response. Treating someone nicely, kindly and with respect is exclusive for a romantic relationship. That same romantic relationship can have the same or worse effects repercussions when it comes down to bringing one down.

[midnightmoon05]

It’s for her if she truly thinks she is smart to be in a friends with benefits relationship and wanting more...
Others shared the same answer.
Respect has to be earned. Anyone who chose to be in a friends with benefits situation has forfeited their rights to be anything more.

[heystranger1]

Maybe you are just for sex