Girls, Do you assume ‘every guy’ wants to get in your pants?

[Anonymous]

I always ignore girls as the girls here are very pretty and are used to getting endless attention.

I’m also not that guy that follows the crowd and I don’t hit on girls all to boost their ego or get in their panties.

Yes I do assume that for the most part

No I don’t

[SueShe]

Mainly in my age group, that is basically what a great number of men want when they meet a girl and that they approach her without being asked.

I always see the negative in a person before seeing something that does look positive. Personal experiences has taught me to be on my guard with anyone that I meet or talk to for the first time and that includes that those men do approach with very specific intentions. It is up to them to prove me that I am wrong.

I do not like to be approached because of that reason. If a person starts making compliments without knowing me, that is when I do assume the worst and that is when I build up a wall of defense around me.

[Asker]

You sound like you will be single and bitter for a long time.

[SueShe]

That is my plan to remain single.

Also, you admit that a number of men do harass girls when you say

"... are used to getting endless attention".

Women are aware by what is meant under the term "attention" and that is why I am extra cautious with the unwanted attention.

[SweetFyter]

I have a two-part answer. If it's guys I've met in person, no, not always. I'm sure some are but none have ever made it obvious (I guess that's the word). But, online? The only guys who do NOT seem to want to "get in my pants" are older guys. Like on here, for example. A couple of the nicest guys who I have messaged with are lots older than I am. They are really nice and I love talking with them.

TBH, it's not like the younger guys here have been "after me." I've actually had no bad experience on this site. But in the past in general, yeah, younger guys are ALL about sexual stuff (the online guys). Like they have no sense of respect or manners. I seriously doubt these guys would make their second or third question of a girl "So... do you have any naked pictures?" But, online, they seem to think that's OK. So, online, yes, I'm a lot more careful. In person, I'm not.

[SweetFyter]

Thank you, Asker, for the MHO. Now, the question is... should girls assume that YOU always want to get in their pants?

Or, if they do NOT think that - SHOULD they? It's "GIRLS ASK GUYS" so you have to answer truthfully! ;)

[Cherry234]

I don't. I can tell a bit if a guy really wants to. If I'm not interested in him I do my best to ignore him.

[Anonymous]

Which isn’t a huge deal if I agree to it. But then if he just ghosts afterwards? He’s a twit. At least have some manners.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

No. It’s obvious when some guys do though.

[Anonymous]

No that would be rather stupid

[Gwenhwyfar]

No not every guy

[KatherineJ]

Of course not