I really thought she liked me but she did this?

[Anonymous]

There’s this girl and I felt like she was flirting with me before. Maybe she’s just a flirt or that’s how she is but we work together and she helps me do stuff and when I had to stand on a chair she helped hold it for me and told me how strong she was and she also called me cute before. We were doing trash together and I told her I never had to do it before that and she was like “it’s because you’re cute”. I also felt before she would look for any excuse to talk to me. They took the mask policy off at work and we no longer wear masks and today was the first day we saw each other without masks and I caught her glancing at me when she walked in and we made eye contact then I looked away. Then when she came back out I caught her glancing at me again and I mouthed the words hi and she just left to a different area of the store to talk to the manager. She kept coming near me today but wouldn’t say anything at all. It was so weird. I know I’m pretty without my mask lol like two people called me gorgeous today and I do get that frequently from a lot of people. We’re both girls lol and I don’t think she’s completely straight. I thought she was flirting before did she just freak out or didn’t know what to say or something? What’s her deal?

[Anonymous]

She doesn't seem to be interested in you. She doesn't hi to you and ignores you. She may came near because you work in same company. Anyone can compliment you even glances at you. I so straight but sometimes I glance at hot chicks that I believe they are so beautiful and I compare myself to them but I want to date them or shit. I believe you are reading way too much on this one.

[Asker]

Yeah but if she thinks I’m hot or beautiful there’s still no valid reason for ignoring me. I’m just wondering why she would just do that at all because it’s rude. I’ve said hi to her before just out of habit and she’s said it back and starts the conversation, why when I say it this time she freaks out?

[Opinion Owner]

She did freak out when you said hi to her last time? I will advice you to ignore the next time and see if she still ignores you or didn't say hi to you this time. If I was in your place then I would've move on because if she ignores or aviid or doesn't talk to you when you are approaching her. Maybe she is in closet or have an issue. Why would you care. As you said you are pretty then why working too hard to read someone and worse at job?

[Opinion Owner]

I have someone yhat has crush on me at job and they don't make a move on me but they still can't hide their attraction toward me. They will get near me, always be tje first to greets me, they stare at me, they offer help, they came to see me at my set, they get quiet when I get to room and they initiate small talk, they get uncomfortable when i talk to others coworkers. See? She ain't doing all those things that I mentioned to you, ain't she?

[Asker]

Maybe not freak out but she did seem a little jumpy after I said it. I always catch her staring at me and stuff and even when I’ve said hi before on my way in she’s said it back and tried to talk to me. Has helped me out or asked me stupid questions. Yeah I don’t have a crush on her or anything I was just wondering about the rudeness aspect of it all because she’s a nice person to me. I’m thinking the mask thing probably caught her off guard which I don't know why. I don’t know I thought she would be a great person to have around

[Xtendable]

She might be feeling self-conscious now with the masks off

[Asker]

About herself? What does that have to do with her behavior towards me?

[Xtendable]

She might think, with you being pretty, that she’s not up to your standard

[Asker]

Hmm okay

[Xtendable]

Does it seem that way to you?

[Asker]

I don’t know. It’s just a new perspective I haven’t thought about

[Xtendable]

Thanks for that