Girls what are the top 3 things make a guy interesting/attractive to you?

[babz21]

The reason I ask is I've been single my whole life with no female interested in me. I turn 25 in less the 2 months with both my older brother getting married. One of the reasons I think it might be is the I have low self-esteem in myself but I would like to get your thoughts and opinions.

[Secret6620]

Intelligence, ambition, and loyalty would be my top three things I find attractive in a man.

A beard is my fourth. Not sure why but a nice beard is something I like about a man's appearance.

It gives him a rugged/tough look if well-kept.

[babz21]

Does ambition also mean you want him to have confidence? I have a beard so far its been about 50/50 whether or not females like it

[Secret6620]

I go by the dictionary definition. Hope that helps. Enjoy your weekend!

[Secret6620]

Yay! Superb opinion!

[DizzyDesii]

His love for the Lord.
If we have a lot of things in common like our background and interests.
If he's cute with a similar goofy/sense of humor

[babz21]

I'm a bit surprised that religion is one and that confidence is not at all. From what I've been told confidence is usually what females like

[DizzyDesii]

I like shy guys who have more confidence than insecurity it that makes sense. Like when i was mostly shy, I didn't seek validation. I still stood up for what i wanted. It just took a little time to open up. Why are you surprised by religion? Most religious people want someone who is also that

[babz21]

I just don't hear too many people care about religion for their partners. Yes I know a lot of religious people want someone who is similar I just don't hear it that often

[DizzyDesii]

Maybe to some it just no longer matters. I tried dating a nonbeliever and they constantly questioned why i believe. He couldnt accept that i was different. I lost interest

[babz21]

What if he was a nonbeliever but didn't question your beliefs

[DizzyDesii]

I tried that too and its still not the same. I want someone who prays with me at night before bed and means it. That guy offered to pray out of respect but i wanted someone who also had a relationship with God

[whereismyjohnny]

Kindness, goofiness/sense of humour, honesty.